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02 Jul 2009 01:01 am
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So I always hear the two major sides to this debate..

heaps of guys say that you can’t really be friends with girls, because they’ll end up falling for them and then feel stuck because they’re only labelled a “friend” with the girl.

But I say the same goes for the girl in the reverse situation..

And in other cases, a friendship just works without any of that drama.

Some people are open to it , and others are completely closed off..

What say you?
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Girls being friends with guys, and vice versa

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02 Jul 2009 01:04 am

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I have tons of friends that are girls, that I would NEVER date. so i say it is possible.
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02 Jul 2009 01:06 am
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car dice13 wrote: I have tons of friends that are girls, that I would NEVER date. so i say it is possible.



have any of them ever told you that they 'like' you and what not??

or not so much ?
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02 Jul 2009 01:08 am

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GOOOGLE_QUEEN wrote:
car dice13 wrote: I have tons of friends that are girls, that I would NEVER date. so i say it is possible.



have any of them ever told you that they 'like' you and what not??

or not so much ?

nope, they have other guy’s that they like
so it all works out good
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02 Jul 2009 01:12 am
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fair enough smiley

Well then !! I know more guys that totally oppose being good friends with chics.. it’s frustrating
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02 Jul 2009 01:14 am

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GOOOGLE_QUEEN wrote: fair enough smiley

Well then !! I know more guys that totally oppose being good friends with chics.. it’s frustrating

yeah i have fallen for “best friends” in the past, but now I guess i’m passed that point in my life
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02 Jul 2009 01:15 am
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One of my all time best friends is a girl.
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02 Jul 2009 01:21 am
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car dice13 wrote:
yeah i have fallen for “best friends” in the past, but now I guess i’m passed that point in my life



Ya okay that makes sense..

Good friends are hard to come by, and I think it’s really dumb to let something like gender keep me from being friends with them.

I argue all the time about this, hah !
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02 Jul 2009 01:28 am
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car dice13 wrote: I have tons of friends that are girls, that I would NEVER date. so i say it is possible.


same here ^^
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02 Jul 2009 01:30 am

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GOOOGLE_QUEEN wrote:
car dice13 wrote:
yeah i have fallen for “best friends” in the past, but now I guess i’m passed that point in my life



Ya okay that makes sense..

Good friends are hard to come by, and I think it’s really dumb to let something like gender keep me from being friends with them.

I argue all the time about this, hah !

yeah but to be good friends with someone you have to like the person for the person that they are, and since they are the opposite gender that makes them a potential mate. So blah blah blah blah
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02 Jul 2009 01:46 am
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WellI don’t know if it’s the lack of sleep or the 72 hours of 'SCRUBS' i just watched but I feel open to discuss this.
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02 Jul 2009 01:47 am
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The MASK wrote: WellI don’t know if it’s the lack of sleep or the 72 hours of 'SCRUBS' i just watched but I feel open to discuss this.


haha i love you
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02 Jul 2009 01:48 am
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Brutus Kicks Ass wrote:
The MASK wrote: WellI don’t know if it’s the lack of sleep or the 72 hours of 'SCRUBS' i just watched but I feel open to discuss this.


haha i love you

I love you too but we should take this slow I don’t want to rush things.
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02 Jul 2009 02:09 am
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I have heaps of 'girlfriends'. I see nothing wrong with it. Sure I’ve been told that if I wasn’t with Butterfly that they’d take a run at me, but they know I’m a loyal old dog. faithful to the end, so thats it really. We flirt sometimes, shit stir each other, I’ve had threats of rape and all that too, but its all good natured. Hell, I’ve seen half of my GF in their underwear or bed clothes and they know I’m not gonna try anything and vise versa. Afterall, its just flesh. No different to your own body apart from a few obvious biological differences..ie breasts being larger..etc but theres nothing in it.

I don’t see why people of opposing sex’s can’t be great mates. So long as each of you know your boundries and don’t start seeing more into freindship than what there is..then its all cool.

I guess that goes double for me being bi and all..but yeah..you get the drift.
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02 Jul 2009 02:12 am
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The MASK wrote:
Brutus Kicks Ass wrote:
The MASK wrote: WellI don’t know if it’s the lack of sleep or the 72 hours of 'SCRUBS' i just watched but I feel open to discuss this.


haha i love you

I love you too but we should take this slow I don’t want to rush things.


yeah thats a good idea. So no champagne on the first date!
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02 Jul 2009 10:09 am
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I think anyone who feels that you can’t be “just friends” with the opposite sex has some major issues.

There are qualities that make a friend...and then there’s some extra special stuff that turns them into a lover.

My partners always started as friends...but they had that extra stuffwink. My other male friends...stay as friends.

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02 Jul 2009 11:21 am
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car dice13 wrote: I have tons of friends that are girls, that I would NEVER date. so i say it is possible.

This.
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02 Jul 2009 11:35 am
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Das Wolf wrote: I have heaps of 'girlfriends'. I see nothing wrong with it. Sure I’ve been told that if I wasn’t with Butterfly that they’d take a run at me, but they know I’m a loyal old dog. faithful to the end, so thats it really. We flirt sometimes, shit stir each other, I’ve had threats of rape and all that too, but its all good natured. Hell, I’ve seen half of my GF in their underwear or bed clothes and they know I’m not gonna try anything and vise versa. Afterall, its just flesh. No different to your own body apart from a few obvious biological differences..ie breasts being larger..etc but theres nothing in it.

I don’t see why people of opposing sex’s can’t be great mates. So long as each of you know your boundries and don’t start seeing more into freindship than what there is..then its all cool.

I guess that goes double for me being bi and all..but yeah..you get the drift.

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02 Jul 2009 08:05 pm
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"Somehow”, I manage to find it most satisfying to interact with females, on all levels.
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02 Jul 2009 08:07 pm
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I would say that it works. smiley
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