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i am lonely , i only need a hug , is that very difficult to find?

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02-16-2009 07:12 PM
Louis Salavin
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people in our modern ages are so cold , u hardly can feel emotions in everyday conversation , or will dealing withpeople
i have my phases when i feel sooooo lonely that all i want to make me better is a big hug , a passionate hug from someone who feel what it means , i do not have a girlfriend cause i’m so picky , so in those nights i feel so cold from the inside , that happens often when i see a couple really in love , not just a normal couple , i feel alone at that time , and there is nothing i can do that can makes me better
i imagine myself going to a girl and ask her to hug me , a total stranger to me , but if she hugged me without feeling and understanding my emotion this hug will mean nothing to me and only will make me worse
i don’t know why i am writing this , i don’t think that someone from the opposite sex will pop out my screen to hug me and to say that she understand , but i am very conservative in talking about my feelings in real life , so i only wanted to express my feelings
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02-16-2009 07:14 PM
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Louis Salavin wrote: people in our modern ages are so cold , u hardly can feel emotions in everyday conversation , or will dealing withpeople
i have my phases when i feel sooooo lonely that all i want to make me better is a big hug , a passionate hug from someone who feel what it means , i do not have a girlfriend cause i’m so picky , so in those nights i feel so cold from the inside , that happens often when i see a couple really in love , not just a normal couple , i feel alone at that time , and there is nothing i can do that can makes me better
i imagine myself going to a girl and ask her to hug me , a total stranger to me , but if she hugged me without feeling and understanding my emotion this hug will mean nothing to me and only will make me worse
i don’t know why i am writing this , i don’t think that someone from the opposite sex will pop out my screen to hug me and to say that she understand , but i am very conservative in talking about my feelings in real life , so i only wanted to express my feelings
we are all strangers here



you’re a failure on an epic level.

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02-16-2009 08:02 PM
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Louis Salavin wrote: people in our modern ages are so cold , u hardly can feel emotions in everyday conversation , or will dealing withpeople
i have my phases when i feel sooooo lonely that all i want to make me better is a big hug , a passionate hug from someone who feel what it means , i do not have a girlfriend cause i’m so picky , so in those nights i feel so cold from the inside , that happens often when i see a couple really in love , not just a normal couple , i feel alone at that time , and there is nothing i can do that can makes me better
i imagine myself going to a girl and ask her to hug me , a total stranger to me , but if she hugged me without feeling and understanding my emotion this hug will mean nothing to me and only will make me worse
i don’t know why i am writing this , i don’t think that someone from the opposite sex will pop out my screen to hug me and to say that she understand , but i am very conservative in talking about my feelings in real life , so i only wanted to express my feelings
we are all strangers here



Louis we have a thread on this site for this matter -> Click Here

I and just about everyone understands and have experienced a crave to hug someone. This is much like “reaching out” and feeling wanted.

It is very hard for someone to get to know you unless you start to open up. The “pickyness” and “Closed off personality” will definently not help you fall in love/ feel wanted.

I would try to work on being less shallow and being more open.

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02-16-2009 08:08 PM
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.R.3.A.L.1.T.Y. wrote:

Louis Salavin wrote: people in our modern ages are so cold , u hardly can feel emotions in everyday conversation , or will dealing withpeople
i have my phases when i feel sooooo lonely that all i want to make me better is a big hug , a passionate hug from someone who feel what it means , i do not have a girlfriend cause i’m so picky , so in those nights i feel so cold from the inside , that happens often when i see a couple really in love , not just a normal couple , i feel alone at that time , and there is nothing i can do that can makes me better
i imagine myself going to a girl and ask her to hug me , a total stranger to me , but if she hugged me without feeling and understanding my emotion this hug will mean nothing to me and only will make me worse
i don’t know why i am writing this , i don’t think that someone from the opposite sex will pop out my screen to hug me and to say that she understand , but i am very conservative in talking about my feelings in real life , so i only wanted to express my feelings
we are all strangers here



Louis we have a thread on this site for this matter -> Click Here

I and just about everyone understands and have experienced a crave to hug someone. This is much like “reaching out” and feeling wanted.

It is very hard for someone to get to know you unless you start to open up. The “pickyness” and “Closed off personality” will definently not help you fall in love/ feel wanted.

I would try to work on being less shallow and being more open.



Thank you very much. This is a perfect response to a thread like this.


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02-16-2009 08:09 PM
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lol, this should be locked


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02-16-2009 08:13 PM
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goldenraptor wrote:

.R.3.A.L.1.T.Y. wrote:

Louis Salavin wrote: people in our modern ages are so cold , u hardly can feel emotions in everyday conversation , or will dealing withpeople
i have my phases when i feel sooooo lonely that all i want to make me better is a big hug , a passionate hug from someone who feel what it means , i do not have a girlfriend cause i’m so picky , so in those nights i feel so cold from the inside , that happens often when i see a couple really in love , not just a normal couple , i feel alone at that time , and there is nothing i can do that can makes me better
i imagine myself going to a girl and ask her to hug me , a total stranger to me , but if she hugged me without feeling and understanding my emotion this hug will mean nothing to me and only will make me worse
i don’t know why i am writing this , i don’t think that someone from the opposite sex will pop out my screen to hug me and to say that she understand , but i am very conservative in talking about my feelings in real life , so i only wanted to express my feelings
we are all strangers here



Louis we have a thread on this site for this matter -> [url=http://lounge.moviecodec.com/topics/2420p1828.html]Click Here[/url]

I and just about everyone understands and have experienced a crave to hug someone. This is much like “reaching out” and feeling wanted.

It is very hard for someone to get to know you unless you start to open up. The “pickyness” and “Closed off personality” will definently not help you fall in love/ feel wanted.

I would try to work on being less shallow and being more open.



Thank you very much. This is a perfect response to a thread like this.


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i wonder why i dont see you around more often

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02-16-2009 08:20 PM
Louis Salavin
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Louis we have a thread on this site for this matter -> [url=http://lounge.moviecodec.com/topics/2420p1828.html]Click Here[/url]

I and just about everyone understands and have experienced a crave to hug someone. This is much like “reaching out” and feeling wanted.

It is very hard for someone to get to know you unless you start to open up. The “pickyness” and “Closed off personality” will definently not help you fall in love/ feel wanted.

I would try to work on being less shallow and being more open.





well , i think you imagined that i am a “closed off personality” type , i want to tell you that the irony i am totaly the opposite of that , i am this kind of super social guy , who is funny and who knows how to handle a conversation , or to spread joy in the air , i have a lot of friends , a few close friends , but my problem is that all that is the mask that hide the troubled pshchy that i have , if i am picky that’s because that i want a true love , not only a funny relationship , i want someone who loves me for the human being i am , for my good and bad sides , not only a fast relationship with sex

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02-16-2009 08:29 PM
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Louis Salavin wrote: Louis we have a thread on this site for this matter -> Click Here

I and just about everyone understands and have experienced a crave to hug someone. This is much like “reaching out” and feeling wanted.

It is very hard for someone to get to know you unless you start to open up. The “pickyness” and “Closed off personality” will definently not help you fall in love/ feel wanted.

I would try to work on being less shallow and being more open.





well , i think you imagined that i am a “closed off personality” type , i want to tell you that the irony i am totaly the opposite of that , i am this kind of super social guy , who is funny and who knows how to handle a conversation , or to spread joy in the air , i have a lot of friends , a few close friends , but my problem is that all that is the mask that hide the troubled pshchy that i have , if i am picky that’s because that i want a true love , not only a funny relationship , i want someone who loves me for the human being i am , for my good and bad sides , not only a fast relationship with sex



lol, sex...




...i like that.


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03-02-2009 04:42 AM
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Try Match.com or eharmony.

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04-22-2009 04:42 AM
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I need a boyfriend. 11 year old girl here. Me and my boyfriend just broke up. So I need a new one! Please help. If you’re interested just send me a PM afterwards I’ll give you my e-mail add. Thanks bitches.

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04-22-2009 06:27 AM
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Louis Salavin wrote: people in our modern ages are so cold , u hardly can feel emotions in everyday conversation , or will dealing withpeople
i have my phases when i feel sooooo lonely that all i want to make me better is a big hug , a passionate hug from someone who feel what it means , i do not have a girlfriend cause i’m so picky , so in those nights i feel so cold from the inside , that happens often when i see a couple really in love , not just a normal couple , i feel alone at that time , and there is nothing i can do that can makes me better
i imagine myself going to a girl and ask her to hug me , a total stranger to me , but if she hugged me without feeling and understanding my emotion this hug will mean nothing to me and only will make me worse
i don’t know why i am writing this , i don’t think that someone from the opposite sex will pop out my screen to hug me and to say that she understand , but i am very conservative in talking about my feelings in real life , so i only wanted to express my feelings
we are all strangers here



Hey Louis.... I was once like you wondering if there was anyone on this earth that would understand me on the same emotional level and had given up on the chance of ever finding them. It took me a long time to get to the point of giving up but when I did.... I found my soul mate and we have been together now for almost 11 years. My advice would be stop looking (not just saying it but really meaning it completely) take some time to enjoy life and who you are. Only then will you attract that special someone that is right for you. Good luck on your journey.

Butterfly.


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05-05-2009 02:24 PM
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hey Louis, i am glad that i am not alone, I dont know about you but its as though everyone else is doing just fine in the facade...i am at med. school at the moment and its like i wish i could shake the whole place and everyone (nearly) inside out of their shells. ive been here for four yrs now and ive just decided that its a phase in my life that will pass sooner or later....This too shall pass has been my motto since 2005!!! Lol, and whats funny is from the outside there isn’t a reason for me NOT to fit in..im preety, articulate, driven etc etc. just like everyone else, but on another level that i cant explain i feel so out of place...


Hey Butterfly:
its so hard to let it go ALL the time, i am a nice person, young and outgoing, and just need other individuals to relate to. People who can hold a conversation for 5 mins without talking about getting pissed, sex or hating on others students...etc....I dunno I have always felt like an old soul in this body! Lol..peace everyone! and pray for me as ive got exams starting soon!!!!

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05-15-2009 12:17 AM
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Cookie84 wrote: hey Louis, i am glad that i am not alone, I dont know about you but its as though everyone else is doing just fine in the facade...i am at med. school at the moment and its like i wish i could shake the whole place and everyone (nearly) inside out of their shells. ive been here for four yrs now and ive just decided that its a phase in my life that will pass sooner or later....This too shall pass has been my motto since 2005!!! Lol, and whats funny is from the outside there isn’t a reason for me NOT to fit in..im preety, articulate, driven etc etc. just like everyone else, but on another level that i cant explain i feel so out of place.




well cookie , i don’t want to sound pessimistic , but seeing u talking about the " phase of life” that will pass and how u talk about it reminded me of how i often thought : this is just a phase !!! but now when i saw that this phase took so long , i begin asking : may be it’s not a phase , may be that’s how it will be till the end

i don’t know how u are in life , of what your surrounding is , but i understand why a preety, articulate, driven etc etc girl can feel in this condition , but may be for u this will end with you finishing the mid. school and moving on to a new place with new ppl

but is it the matter of the outside ? i think loudly about myself , may be is it something within ? something that shows itself throw the energetic social person that i look , somethings that comes from the inside of my soul and rotten the nice look in the eyes of the others , i don’t know and i wish i am not right , or life will be nothing than a shit hole for me

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05-24-2009 04:40 PM
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hi i am 14 and looking 4 girlfrinrnd liz tell ,e wat u hav 2 say

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darion wrote: hi i am 14 and looking 4 girlfrinrnd liz tell ,e wat u hav 2 say



That was hardly a worthy statement to have this thread bumped, however.. I don’t see why you would look for a girlfriend online. That is beyond my grasp of understandability.. hm?

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05-24-2009 07:07 PM
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darion wrote: hi i am 14 and looking 4 girlfrinrnd liz tell ,e wat u hav 2 say



“girlfrinrnd liz tell”? You might try learning how to spell, or write before you attempt to make a girlfriend online. She won’t know what the hell you are talking about.


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05-25-2009 04:47 AM
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Lizzie91797 wrote: I need a boyfriend. 11 year old girl here. Me and my boyfriend just broke up. So I need a new one! Please help. If you’re interested just send me a PM afterwards I’ll give you my e-mail add. Thanks bitches.



Oh my, ha ha ha, I actually almost fell for it.

Lol

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