Okay, I was talking to this guy on MySpace that seemed really cool. I didnt seem to like him more than a friend, but he smokes weed and I pretty much wanted him as a weed/drinking buddy. I thought I could trust him. So I do have a boyfriend named Greg, but one night I went to the guy from Myspace’s house and we smoked some weed, than drank (to the point I dont remember really anything and I was puking blood). I do know though me and this guy had sex. Im not sure if he raped me while I passed out or if I was just that drunk and he took advantage of me. Now Im scared, is that considered cheating? I love my boyfriend more than anything and Ive never cheated. Did I do something wrong? Is karma gonna fuck me up? Is it my fault? I feel horrible! and also this guy is telling all his friends that we had sex and I dont want him to, cuz it might get around to my boyfriend. I am never gonna see that guy again and I just dont know what to do... I just need some advice please.
OK You did a stupid thing and have learned the hard way not to get to drunk are to high around ppl you don’t really know and cent trust. You are wanting to know the answer to two things one did you consent and did you cheat on your boyfriend. If you consented then yes you cheated if not then you was raped.
How well dose this guy know other ppl around you. If not very well then I would put all this down to experience and not tell your boyfriend and just move on. That is after you go and get yourself tested for any STD’s that you may have picked up
LOL, you are a phailure. Yes you cheated on your boyfriend. But you probably don’t care, I mean you got your weed, and that’s what you really needed. If your stupid enough to get piss drunk with somebody you have never met before in person, you deserve what you get. I guess you could always get “moron” tattoed to your head. Would serve the same purpose as a stomach full of kid as far as letting people know where you stand in the world.
thats definently cheating but i’m sure if you told your bf what happened he’ll understand or he might go beat the shit outta that guy but you’ll have to wait and find out
GingerSpice wrote:
thats definently cheating but i’m sure if you told your bf what happened he’ll understand or he might go beat the shit outta that guy but you’ll have to wait and find out
Hell understand that she went to see a random guy without his recognition and then fucked the shit outta him?
GingerSpice wrote:
thats definently cheating but i’m sure if you told your bf what happened he’ll understand or he might go beat the shit outta that guy but you’ll have to wait and find out
Hell understand that she went to see a random guy without his recognition and then fucked the shit outta him?
=/
thats not what i said... if you put it that way then obviously ur gon get in shit
GingerSpice wrote:
thats definently cheating but i’m sure if you told your bf what happened he’ll understand or he might go beat the shit outta that guy but you’ll have to wait and find out
Hell understand that she went to see a random guy without his recognition and then fucked the shit outta him?
=/
thats not what i said... if you put it that way then obviously ur gon get in shit
Well either way she cheated on her boyfriend. “Cheating characteristically is employed to create an unfair advantage, usually in one’s own interest, and often at the expense of others." The only way i see her getting out of it is if a) He’s the vey un/jealous type b) He cant get another girlfriend c) She does the “I need support” theme or d) she exaggerates the story
You have a drinking problem, go to rehab.
As for your bf... if you love him that much really whyd you leave him to go get high... with some other man.. sounds to me you knew what was coming...
1 - If you remember consenting, you were not raped.
2 - Anything you did that implied you wanted the intercourse, (e.g purposely bending over to give him a nice view) , then you were not raped.
3- If you come to the conclusion that you did consent to it, then you cheated on your boyfriend and you need to tell the truth. Don’t lie to yourself and him. You went too far and fucked yourself over.
4- If you come to the conclusion that you were raped, which I highly doubt because you minimize the term and claim to have been raped like 10 times, then go to the authorities immediately.
and also this guy is telling all his friends that we had sex and I dont want him to, cuz it might get around to my boyfriend. I am never gonna see that guy again and I just dont know what to do... I just need some advice please.
