Hi everyone, its truly amazing what you find on google just by typing how you feel.
Well Guess im not the only lonely person ou there.
I`m lonely now because of relationship breakup after 14 years, i really miss my kids to, i live a few hundred miles away from them, not through choice. But it was either live near my dad or life on the streets.
I have no one, friends drift away as you get older, the only person in the world i ever wanted let me down.
I have my dad, but its not the same, i really want my family back.
Wish i was someone else right now, my lifes crap and lonely and nobody or nothing can replace what i had, guess ill always feel this way, i don`t have a life no more!!
Anyway thanks for reading my thoughts i hope reading it can make someone feel better by knowing your not alone..
lonelybloke wrote:
Hi everyone, its truly amazing what you find on google just by typing how you feel.
Well Guess im not the only lonely person ou there.
I`m lonely now because of relationship breakup after 14 years, i really miss my kids to, i live a few hundred miles away from them, not through choice. But it was either live near my dad or life on the streets.
I have no one, friends drift away as you get older, the only person in the world i ever wanted let me down.
I have my dad, but its not the same, i really want my family back.
Wish i was someone else right now, my lifes crap and lonely and nobody or nothing can replace what i had, guess ill always feel this way, i don`t have a life no more!!
Anyway thanks for reading my thoughts i hope reading it can make someone feel better by knowing your not alone..
I’m in the same situation your in buddy. I’m halfway around the world though. My wife and Son are at the military base where I left them and I miss them alot. I’m always in contact with them though and thanks to the satelite uplink I can talk to them almost anytime I feel like it. Its not the same though and at time I feel like I made the wrong choise, but I’m doing it for the best.
Look, I didn’t have a father all my life and the at least I know that he loved me growing up. So my advise to you is always stay strong and always let your kids know how much you love them. Never give up though, no matter how hard it gets never give up, ever.
Not really, but it gets really repetative and predictable.
Yup, just a tribute to human nature I supose...lots of different people saying almost the same things.
Just goes to show how not-so-alone lonely people are...I suppose...
See, thats just it. people who have depression or are just plain lonely oftan dont realise that they have freinds around them and that some of them have the same feeling as they do. So they walk around feeling sad and alone, like they are the only person who feels this way. that just adds to the feeling of isolation and emptiness they feel inside. This continues until the emptiness either drives them to one of 3 sollutions.
Solution #1. they wander around the rest of their life hollow and uncaring. they will often not get a job, become homeless and constitute a reasonable persentage of the homeless people in major cities of America, Australia, Japan ECT forever doomed to be in a situation they cant be bothered changing cause they dont feel.
Solution#2 Their lonelyness drives them to end it all. You know...SUICIDE. This can directly follow on from #1 or can be a solution in its own right. Some people feel so alone and empty, that they think it is better to just NOT EXIST, han to take one more breath. Sometimes this can lead to a period of self harming if a suicide atempt was unsucessful. They do this inorder to FEEL something, not necisarily to get attention.
Sollution #3. They seek help, either by registared help groups like beyond blue, or BY GOOGLING something like im lonley. This is a person seeking help and should NOT be RIDULCLED, because quite oftan, if this stage fails, then one of the others can follow on as a result.
IF YOU DONT HAVE SOMETHING NICE TO SAY, well DONT SAY SOMETHING!!!
These people come here for help and freindship, not ridicule and patrinisatioin.
