should a mom work

If you don’t work, where are ya gonna get money.

from your sugar daddy ?

nah j/k...i think moms should work...maybe not with a 6 month old - 3 years then they can go to pre-school whilst you work

pardon my interruption but i believe a more apt question would be “Can a mom work ?"

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Cid Highwind wrote:
Moderator record hun, ..yada yada yada ..I was talking about, dearest.

Cid - don’t call me “hun” or “dearest” thanks.

of course a mom can work

whats stopping her as i said unless you have a very young child there is no reason not to work.

well the government gives what they call family allowances to help with the kids but alone its not enought

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Dante666 wrote: of course a mom can work

whats stopping her as i said unless you have a very young child there is no reason not to work.

being a mom is a FULL TIME job i believe .. and even more so when there is no father around.

lets about PRODUCTIVITY .. given the days kids fall sick, school summons, and other contingencies.. would YOU .. as an EMPLOYER .. pay the same , or give a position thats vital to the company.. to a single working mom ?

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Cid Highwind wrote:
Moderator record hun, ..yada yada yada ..I was talking about, dearest.

Cid - don’t call me “hun” or “dearest” thanks.

and as i have said in some earlier posts,,i have a metal rod holding my spine so i can’t stay up or sat for very long i also cant pick any heavy stuff,,i cant bend,,cause my rod unlike kyles or plutos is from the neck down,,,

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yeah well my girlfriend is pregnate and we have 2 children but we both still work...she’ll have to leave work for a while soon though.

thats the hole thing i wanted to debate Pain you are right,,,who will do the homework with them who will be there to see them go to school in the morning and who will be there for them, at night who will do all the housework,,,plus theirs something else i am almost 40 too its not easy for a 40 year old to get a job

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mimi38 wrote: thats the hole thing i wanted to debate Pain you are right,,,who will do the homework with them who will be there to see them go to school in the morning and who will be there for them, at night who will do all the housework,,,plus theirs something else i am almost 40 too its not easy for a 40 year old to get a job

doesnt mean you CANT .. if you want it .. you WILL get it .. but you gotta rationalise about it. discuss with your family and friends around. scout and look wot openings are you gonna be offered.. wot pay would you be getting etc... knowmsayn ?


i was just trying to say its not gonna be easy, but then again, who says life is easy. and at 40, you MOST DEFINITELY know it better than me hon

Etain wrote:

Cid Highwind wrote:
Moderator record hun, ..yada yada yada ..I was talking about, dearest.

Cid - don’t call me “hun” or “dearest” thanks.

mimi38 wrote: and as i have said in some earlier posts,,i have a metal rod holding my spine so i can’t stay up or sat for very long i also cant pick any heavy stuff,,i cant bend,,cause my rod unlike kyles or plutos is from the neck down,,,

you got that thing too ! .. man thats bad. how long has it been there for ?

and kyle .. you mean .. ?

Etain wrote:

Cid Highwind wrote:
Moderator record hun, ..yada yada yada ..I was talking about, dearest.

Cid - don’t call me “hun” or “dearest” thanks.

THE_PAIN wrote:

mimi38 wrote: and as i have said in some earlier posts,,i have a metal rod holding my spine so i can’t stay up or sat for very long i also cant pick any heavy stuff,,i cant bend,,cause my rod unlike kyles or plutos is from the neck down,,,

you got that thing too ! .. man thats bad. how long has it been there for ?

and kyle .. you mean .. ?

OOOOOOPS sorry kyle!!!!!!!!

well i was operated when i was 15 and now i have arthritis in it

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mimi38 wrote:

THE_PAIN wrote:

mimi38 wrote: and as i have said in some earlier posts,,i have a metal rod holding my spine so i can’t stay up or sat for very long i also cant pick any heavy stuff,,i cant bend,,cause my rod unlike kyles or plutos is from the neck down,,,

you got that thing too ! .. man thats bad. how long has it been there for ?

and kyle .. you mean .. ?

OOOOOOPS sorry kyle!!!!!!!!

well i was operated when i was 15 and now i have arthritis in it

*immeadiately stops slacking on the chair*


if postures could give that.. id be having these conditions twice and more times over .



since 15 eh. almost same as Jono i guess.. ironic i dunno any such folks IRL

Etain wrote:

Cid Highwind wrote:
Moderator record hun, ..yada yada yada ..I was talking about, dearest.

Cid - don’t call me “hun” or “dearest” thanks.

anyways i gtg now .. its 2.30 am .. and i havent had good sleep for long. laters mimi. bye and take care.

Etain wrote:

Cid Highwind wrote:
Moderator record hun, ..yada yada yada ..I was talking about, dearest.

Cid - don’t call me “hun” or “dearest” thanks.

you to friend

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