I don’t know one girl who won’t date a good guy, even if he’s not the most attractive individual, if they know him well enough. And there are plenty of girls that will date a horrible person because he is so attractive that they almost cream themselves when looking at him, but still would rather him be a good person as opposed to what he is, but that is a very rare combo.
Don’t become a bad person to impress a girl, even if you are OMG! Dreamy like me.
Etain wrote:
I can’t speak for all women...but there can be a number of reasons.
If by a “nice guy” you mean someone who is a total pushover...that doesn’t tend to be attractive. Especially since being with someone who has no backbone can cause for a lot of problems.
Some guys who complain that “I’m a nice guy and no girls want me”...well that’s their problem. They complain so much that they become unattractive to women.
And then some guys who say they’re “nice guys” aren’t really as nice as they think they are.
Don’t get me wrong...I’m not directing this at you and I’m not trying to insult you. Just mentioning a few things I’ve observed.
And lastly, some “not nice guys” know how to be very charming in the beginning of a relationship. And some women have a very hard time leaving a relationship once they’re emotionally attached. Even if the guy is treating them badly. In your case I’m guessing this is the situation you’re running into.
Combine this response with mine, and you’ve got your answer.
Knight_Of_Steel wrote:
I don’t know one girl who won’t date a good guy, even if he’s not the most attractive individual, if they know him well enough. And there are plenty of girls that will date a horrible person because he is so attractive that they almost cream themselves when looking at him, but still would rather him be a good person as opposed to what he is, but that is a very rare combo.
Don’t become a bad person to impress a girl, even if you are OMG! Dreamy like me.
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