Do long distance relationships work?

Pagemaster wrote:

oh harrow wrote: Man, I have been with Brittany for a year and a half. It is a serious relationship, I don’t think I have even once thought about kids, a house and what not. I don’t even know how you can think about that when you JUST met her? What? You have been dating for what? a Week? And you already have plans on a house, a job, kids and what not?

Oookkaaayyy dude.

And no the “Some of us want to get to know our significant other more. To understand them at a deeper level” is complete horse tard, please.. you are not speaking to a idiotic kindergarden currently drop that bullsh*t.

*sigh* so naive at times, Chris.
Maybe you haven’t talked about kids because you are unsure of whether or not you want them. I don’t have plans for a house with her, I have plans for a house that I already own that I would let her decide if we use or not when it gets more serious. Yeah it’s been a week, but some of us move faster than others. Just because I am a different person who moves at different speeds, doesn’t mean it is wrong. Just different from what you are use to.

Oh, I hope one day you get a reality check. I thought your last girlfriend would do that but apparently not. I already have an apartment, I haven’t thought about kids and what not because I am not clingy. You have to understand something;

You JUST turned 18 years old, you haven’t completed highschool, have no college degree, no job, no money, no car, no knowledge of relationships, no knowledge of retail, no experience in dealing with money.. you have nothing.. Yet you have this plan layed out to buy a friggin house! And have your girlfriend of 6 days move in with you, get married, have kids and live happily ever after?" How old are you? I mean, puppy love and day dreaming is fun.. but I think you are pushing it bro.

But tell me how that works out for you.

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I honestly agree with Chris. You seem to get a bit too serious way too quick with a girl you haven’t met in person yet.

mines worked out fine, but that’s just me ask him later, when he comes on if you want..

drummergirl92 wrote: mines worked out fine, but that’s just me ask him later, when he comes on if you want..

Maybe I’m wrong. Maybe multiple failures has made me pessimistic. I do tend to be negative sometimes.

Maggot Face wrote:

drummergirl92 wrote: mines worked out fine, but that’s just me ask him later, when he comes on if you want..

Maybe I’m wrong. Maybe multiple failures has made me pessimistic. I do tend to be negative sometimes.

that’s okay. I was just commenting I like to put my point in, if I can

drummergirl92 wrote:

Maggot Face wrote:

drummergirl92 wrote: mines worked out fine, but that’s just me ask him later, when he comes on if you want..

Maybe I’m wrong. Maybe multiple failures has made me pessimistic. I do tend to be negative sometimes.

that’s okay. I was just commenting I like to put my point in, if I can

I’d like to think you’re right though. I’d rather things be more positive.

Maggot Face wrote:

drummergirl92 wrote:

Maggot Face wrote:

drummergirl92 wrote: mines worked out fine, but that’s just me ask him later, when he comes on if you want..

Maybe I’m wrong. Maybe multiple failures has made me pessimistic. I do tend to be negative sometimes.

that’s okay. I was just commenting I like to put my point in, if I can

I’d like to think you’re right though. I’d rather things be more positive.

yeah. mine’s worked for 20 months now, but that’s because of the sort of people we both are...

drummergirl92 wrote:

Maggot Face wrote:

drummergirl92 wrote:

Maggot Face wrote:

drummergirl92 wrote: mines worked out fine, but that’s just me ask him later, when he comes on if you want..

Maybe I’m wrong. Maybe multiple failures has made me pessimistic. I do tend to be negative sometimes.

that’s okay. I was just commenting I like to put my point in, if I can

I’d like to think you’re right though. I’d rather things be more positive.

yeah. mine’s worked for 20 months now, but that’s because of the sort of people we both are...

You’ve beaten my record, online or offline. Most I’ve made it is six months.

What’s a relationship “working out” anyway?

Is it just staying together?

'Cause honestly, there are lots of relationships with the kind of dynamics I could never live with...but work for other people (or they can’t seem to end it when one or both think they should).


I suppose if online dating is really a couples thing...and seeing the person often doesn’t matter...all the power to them. If they stay together, fine, I might think the relationship is stupid but it’s not my relationship so what does it matter?

Personally, I think the best part of a relationship is the time you spend together. There is no substitute for that.

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Maggot Face wrote:

drummergirl92 wrote:

Maggot Face wrote:

drummergirl92 wrote:

Maggot Face wrote:

drummergirl92 wrote: mines worked out fine, but that’s just me ask him later, when he comes on if you want..

Maybe I’m wrong. Maybe multiple failures has made me pessimistic. I do tend to be negative sometimes.

that’s okay. I was just commenting I like to put my point in, if I can

I’d like to think you’re right though. I’d rather things be more positive.

yeah. mine’s worked for 20 months now, but that’s because of the sort of people we both are...

You’ve beaten my record, online or offline. Most I’ve made it is six months.

lol, it’s hard sometimes, and don’t get me wrong, we’ve had disagreements, but we’re still together. it’s not so bad.

lol, I’d love to see his comment on this point

(NOTE TO TEH DRAGON: you better comment, even if it’s a 'I have no comment ')

drummergirl92 wrote:

Maggot Face wrote:

drummergirl92 wrote:

Maggot Face wrote:

drummergirl92 wrote:

Maggot Face wrote:

drummergirl92 wrote: mines worked out fine, but that’s just me ask him later, when he comes on if you want..

Maybe I’m wrong. Maybe multiple failures has made me pessimistic. I do tend to be negative sometimes.

that’s okay. I was just commenting I like to put my point in, if I can

I’d like to think you’re right though. I’d rather things be more positive.

yeah. mine’s worked for 20 months now, but that’s because of the sort of people we both are...

You’ve beaten my record, online or offline. Most I’ve made it is six months.

lol, it’s hard sometimes, and don’t get me wrong, we’ve had disagreements, but we’re still together. it’s not so bad.

lol, I’d love to see his comment on this point

(NOTE TO TEH DRAGON: you better comment, even if it’s a 'I have no comment ')

lol. I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t impressed.

Treenymph wrote: What’s a relationship “working out” anyway?

Is it just staying together?

'Cause honestly, there are lots of relationships with the kind of dynamics I could never live with...but work for other people (or they can’t seem to end it when one or both think they should).


I suppose if online dating is really a couples thing...and seeing the person often doesn’t matter...all the power to them. If they stay together, fine, I might think the relationship is stupid but it’s not my relationship so what does it matter?

Personally, I think the best part of a relationship is the time you spend together. There is no substitute for that.

I agree with the no substitute for spending time together, it sucks not see him every day, but you get by.

Maggot Face wrote:

drummergirl92 wrote:

Maggot Face wrote:

drummergirl92 wrote:

Maggot Face wrote:

drummergirl92 wrote:

Maggot Face wrote:

drummergirl92 wrote: mines worked out fine, but that’s just me ask him later, when he comes on if you want..

Maybe I’m wrong. Maybe multiple failures has made me pessimistic. I do tend to be negative sometimes.

that’s okay. I was just commenting I like to put my point in, if I can

I’d like to think you’re right though. I’d rather things be more positive.

yeah. mine’s worked for 20 months now, but that’s because of the sort of people we both are...

You’ve beaten my record, online or offline. Most I’ve made it is six months.

lol, it’s hard sometimes, and don’t get me wrong, we’ve had disagreements, but we’re still together. it’s not so bad.

lol, I’d love to see his comment on this point

(NOTE TO TEH DRAGON: you better comment, even if it’s a 'I have no comment ')

lol. I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t impressed.

it’s not that impressive really, but thanks

drummergirl92 wrote:

Maggot Face wrote:

drummergirl92 wrote:

Maggot Face wrote:

drummergirl92 wrote:

Maggot Face wrote:

drummergirl92 wrote: mines worked out fine, but that’s just me ask him later, when he comes on if you want..

Maybe I’m wrong. Maybe multiple failures has made me pessimistic. I do tend to be negative sometimes.

that’s okay. I was just commenting I like to put my point in, if I can

I’d like to think you’re right though. I’d rather things be more positive.

yeah. mine’s worked for 20 months now, but that’s because of the sort of people we both are...

You’ve beaten my record, online or offline. Most I’ve made it is six months.

lol, it’s hard sometimes, and don’t get me wrong, we’ve had disagreements, but we’re still together. it’s not so bad.

lol, I’d love to see his comment on this point

(NOTE TO TEH DRAGON: you better comment, even if it’s a 'I have no comment ')

Why must I be dragged in?! T_T

lol

It depends... I would say that it is suuper hard to have succes. Maybe a long distance relation ship has a 20% posibility of succes. I understand what Maggot means. I have not been very lucky too...

One time I knew a nice girl that said she loved me. We had this thing for over two year. But in the end she by herself said that we should stop the thing, becasue she felt sad that it was virtually impossible for us to meet us in person. So now we are only close friends.

So unless you really have a way to meet that person, you have a better chance of succes.

Out of that.... it is really really hard. Not a good idea at all... trust me.

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Tyreaus Dreacon wrote:
Why must I be dragged in?! T_T

lol

cause I said so you have a comment on it, I’m sure.

Yes Ty, comment!

drummergirl92 wrote:

Tyreaus Dreacon wrote:
Why must I be dragged in?! T_T

lol

cause I said so you have a comment on it, I’m sure.

Well, m’lady, the beautiful one who knows how to shine light on me days and nights, how would you like me to comment?

Tyreaus Dreacon wrote:

drummergirl92 wrote:

Tyreaus Dreacon wrote:
Why must I be dragged in?! T_T

lol

cause I said so you have a comment on it, I’m sure.

Well, m’lady, the beautiful one who knows how to shine light on me days and nights, how would you like me to comment?

Damn, that made ME swoon.

Maggot Face wrote:

Tyreaus Dreacon wrote:

drummergirl92 wrote:

Tyreaus Dreacon wrote:
Why must I be dragged in?! T_T

lol

cause I said so you have a comment on it, I’m sure.

Well, m’lady, the beautiful one who knows how to shine light on me days and nights, how would you like me to comment?

Damn, that made ME swoon.

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