Nick, there’s this thing called behaving like an adult. You aren’t doing a very good job of it. Telling people to fuck off and butt out isn’t something big boys do.
Kyrie wrote:
Nick, there’s this thing called behaving like an adult. You aren’t doing a very good job of it. Telling people to fuck off and butt out isn’t something big boys do.
When someone is trying to butt into your personal life, then I’d say I have the right to, especially seeing as I have told him nicely on several thousand occasions over the last couple years to mind his own.
Frankly, I don’t give a shit anymore, I just want him to leave me be.
Kyrie wrote:
Nick, there’s this thing called behaving like an adult. You aren’t doing a very good job of it. Telling people to fuck off and butt out isn’t something big boys do.
When someone is trying to butt into your personal life, then I’d say I have the right to, especially seeing as I have told him nicely on several thousand occasions over the last couple years to mind his own.
Frankly, I don’t give a shit anymore, I just want him to leave me be.
Unfortunately if you share information about your personal life here then you can’t really tell people to “butt out”.
I’d be nice if people weren’t jerks, but realistically a conversation is always a two-way street.
Notice that some people never get “flamed”? There’s a reason for that.
Kyrie wrote:
Nick, there’s this thing called behaving like an adult. You aren’t doing a very good job of it. Telling people to fuck off and butt out isn’t something big boys do.
When someone is trying to butt into your personal life, then I’d say I have the right to, especially seeing as I have told him nicely on several thousand occasions over the last couple years to mind his own.
Frankly, I don’t give a shit anymore, I just want him to leave me be.
Unfortunately if you share information about your personal life here then you can’t really tell people to “butt out”.
I’d be nice if people weren’t jerks, but realistically a conversation is always a two-way street.
Notice that some people never get “flamed”? There’s a reason for that.
For the bolded: Actually you can. Though it primarily depends on the person her/himself. Simply due to someone sharing personal information does not mean that one should make it their own business.
Kyrie wrote:
Nick, there’s this thing called behaving like an adult. You aren’t doing a very good job of it. Telling people to fuck off and butt out isn’t something big boys do.
When someone is trying to butt into your personal life, then I’d say I have the right to, especially seeing as I have told him nicely on several thousand occasions over the last couple years to mind his own.
Frankly, I don’t give a shit anymore, I just want him to leave me be.
Unfortunately if you share information about your personal life here then you can’t really tell people to “butt out”.
I’d be nice if people weren’t jerks, but realistically a conversation is always a two-way street.
Notice that some people never get “flamed”? There’s a reason for that.
For the bolded: Actually you can. Though it primarily depends on the person her/himself. Simply due to someone sharing personal information does not mean that one should make it their own business.
Yea man, I could like totally sit back and watch the dude throw his life away. And its too bad that, I believe I went at it too hostile, because that was definitely not my intent. I have been through every type of relationship plausible, online, long distance etc.. and I have TONS of personal experience with women. Unfortunately, whenever I actually express my knowledge on a topic.. I happen to have a history of being a loose character on this site.. people look at it as flaming or insulting.
There are a few things that I KNOW that I KNOW and dealing with chicks is one of them.
A relationship counselor could send you a detailed email on what to do but following it won’t teach you the lessons you need to be taught. He will have to experience them himself in which he can then look back at this thread and perhaps look past my judgmental characteristics and maybe see that I am not as stupid as you think. Just maybe.
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Kyrie wrote:
Nick, there’s this thing called behaving like an adult. You aren’t doing a very good job of it. Telling people to fuck off and butt out isn’t something big boys do.
When someone is trying to butt into your personal life, then I’d say I have the right to, especially seeing as I have told him nicely on several thousand occasions over the last couple years to mind his own.
Frankly, I don’t give a shit anymore, I just want him to leave me be.
Unfortunately if you share information about your personal life here then you can’t really tell people to “butt out”.
I’d be nice if people weren’t jerks, but realistically a conversation is always a two-way street.
Notice that some people never get “flamed”? There’s a reason for that.
For the bolded: Actually you can. Though it primarily depends on the person her/himself. Simply due to someone sharing personal information does not mean that one should make it their own business.
(sorry for the slight off-topicness)
When you comment on what other people have shared is that making it your own business?
If you don’t want anyone to comment then don’t share...it’s as simple as that. Forums exist for the sole purpose of commenting on what others have written.
Nobody has a problem when the commenting is positive...it’s the negative stuff that people see as “butting in”. (obviously the negative can go to far and that’s why we have rules about flaming).
If I want to talk about my own relationship and how it’s dealt with long-distance issues, I am well aware that others may have an opinion on it, and I wouldn’t share that information unless I was comfortable enough to hear what others had to say.
If someone feels they need to be a jerk about what I wrote...I ignore it and move on.
oh harrow wrote:
There are a few things that I KNOW that I KNOW and dealing with chicks is one of them.
And someone with more experience then you can turn around and tell you how little you know.
What you KNOW is whatever you’ve been through...not how that applies to other people. Nor can your experiences act as a template for others. They are an example and that’s all.
Pagemaster wrote:
lol, I love it how like 95% of this topic is bashing me. Wow, since Josh and Chillyman are gone, you decide that I am the next contestant for bashing.
Oi, you guys are just hilarious. I love it, truly do. Unlike the other 2 and all those before them, it will take a lot to break me. So give up while you still can.
Actually, nobody broke me. Chilly was probably broken and shoved into a meat grinder. I just decided to show my disaffection for everyone.
oh harrow wrote:
There are a few things that I KNOW that I KNOW and dealing with chicks is one of them.
And someone with more experience then you can turn around and tell you how little you know.
What you KNOW is whatever you’ve been through...not how that applies to other people. Nor can your experiences act as a template for others. They are an example and that’s all.
No, my experience does not come from strictly what I HAVE experienced, it comes from a vast group of people who have shared their stories and it comes from being rational and watching how couples communicate. And yes, there will always be someone who knows more then you do about something, but for know.. I KNOW what I KNOW.
Long distance relationships CAN workout, but rarely do.
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Kyrie wrote:
Nick, there’s this thing called behaving like an adult. You aren’t doing a very good job of it. Telling people to fuck off and butt out isn’t something big boys do.
When someone is trying to butt into your personal life, then I’d say I have the right to, especially seeing as I have told him nicely on several thousand occasions over the last couple years to mind his own.
Frankly, I don’t give a shit anymore, I just want him to leave me be.
Unfortunately if you share information about your personal life here then you can’t really tell people to “butt out”.
I’d be nice if people weren’t jerks, but realistically a conversation is always a two-way street.
Notice that some people never get “flamed”? There’s a reason for that.
For the bolded: Actually you can. Though it primarily depends on the person her/himself. Simply due to someone sharing personal information does not mean that one should make it their own business.
Well really they shouldn’t complain because they made it public.
Kyrie wrote:
Nick, there’s this thing called behaving like an adult. You aren’t doing a very good job of it. Telling people to fuck off and butt out isn’t something big boys do.
When someone is trying to butt into your personal life, then I’d say I have the right to, especially seeing as I have told him nicely on several thousand occasions over the last couple years to mind his own.
Frankly, I don’t give a shit anymore, I just want him to leave me be.
Unfortunately if you share information about your personal life here then you can’t really tell people to “butt out”.
I’d be nice if people weren’t jerks, but realistically a conversation is always a two-way street.
Notice that some people never get “flamed”? There’s a reason for that.
For the bolded: Actually you can. Though it primarily depends on the person her/himself. Simply due to someone sharing personal information does not mean that one should make it their own business.
Well really they shouldn’t complain because they made it public.
True, it’s done at their own risk. They do leave themselves wide open for massive trolling. But people should have some decent courtesy to not interfere with other people’s business unless they asked for help/advice…. Or they should not state anything personal in the first place.
Kyrie wrote:
Nick, there’s this thing called behaving like an adult. You aren’t doing a very good job of it. Telling people to fuck off and butt out isn’t something big boys do.
When someone is trying to butt into your personal life, then I’d say I have the right to, especially seeing as I have told him nicely on several thousand occasions over the last couple years to mind his own.
Frankly, I don’t give a shit anymore, I just want him to leave me be.
Unfortunately if you share information about your personal life here then you can’t really tell people to “butt out”.
I’d be nice if people weren’t jerks, but realistically a conversation is always a two-way street.
Notice that some people never get “flamed”? There’s a reason for that.
For the bolded: Actually you can. Though it primarily depends on the person her/himself. Simply due to someone sharing personal information does not mean that one should make it their own business.
Well really they shouldn’t complain because they made it public.
True, it’s done at their own risk. They do leave themselves wide open for massive trolling. But people should have some decent courtesy to not interfere with other people’s business unless they asked for help/advice…. Or they should not state anything personal in the first place.
depends where they got it as in where searching for it.
Serris0809 wrote:
If you don’t want to get trolled then don’t post any personal information. Basically that’s it.
True, but I was/am simply NOT trolling him in any way plausible.
I was/am offering sound advice, from a perspective that his mother, brother or best friends cannot dictate or produce.
He won’t take my advice because he is ignorant and too self associated. It is his loss, I do not lose or gain anything if his relationship is a failure or not.
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