Last Son of Earth wrote:
Im lonely too, I just registered and Everyone thinks i am a n00b not worth talking to... How can I get any sort of good reputation with such biased people wandering around this site? (not to mention totalitus...)
Know that cid,firewolf,squipple,nervin,me,and anybody in the whos on here at the moment thread ,
are freinds and will try to help you cid i believe is the nicest
Thank you. I am gratefull. want to Join my friends list? I could use a few. btw, good to know that there are people who are nice on this site. It is poorer for the presence of moderators who let power go to their head- but made richer for the presence of people like you.
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Wow I just typed i am lonely in google... i guess its gotten old now, but this was the first time i did it. My girl friend of 3 years broke up with me, and what i miss most is the connection we had, she said that she wanted to date other people, but i didn’t. I wanted what we had to last, and i honestly thought that we could work out whatever problems we had. Now I am so lonely
little sparrow girl wrote:
I fell into the google trap too.
why do we all think typing it into google will help?
anyway. i’m so down right now it’s pathetic. i recently (two months ago) broke up with my long term boyfriend of what would hae been three years this christmas, because he wasn’t making me happy anymore and his negativity was affecting me badly. i know i did the right thing. trouble is, i see him at college near everyday, and he has a new girlfriend now, and i’m still single. and it’s hard. my very best friend goes to a different college. my other supposed very best friend just told me she “didn’t want to be best friends” with me anymore because she “doesn’t have the time” (yes, it’s bizarrely childish and primary school of her, but i’m heartbroken frankly, i thought she loved me).
so i’m sat here alone in the house - my parents are out - and my friends were supposed to be coming over, but they’re all ill or had to go to an emergency birthday party. :\ lame, right?
so i’m your average pathetically lonely seventeen year old girl, venting her bad feelings on the net. college is hard, life is harder, and i miss feeling loved. but i guess so many people are in the same boat, especially here.
so...all of you, i hope you feel less lonely soon. i’m sure we all will. well, i hope so.
OMG... we are in exactly the same boat.. i broke up with my girlfriend of what would have been 3 years in march 08!! she told me that i wasn’t making her happy anymore, and she wasn’t making me happy either. But now its been 2 weeks and she already has new a boyfriend and i feel soo lonely, especially when i see everyone in the festive season happy in and around college.
just ask wrote:
sorry for this being late
but thanks for the response
but yeah
cant really slow down the working
already only work weekends
plus im trying to get about $2000 for july
i suppose i am overworking a bit, but i cant really slow down
already at the minimum
im hoping i find a good friend as well
but were i live seems to be all stoners and drunks
just looking for money or someone to bum off of
anyway- im too tired to continue with this tonight, worked a 18 hour weekend, il edit it tomorrow if i get time
so how did your drive go?
Oh no need to apologias mate. Am a bit ready for bed now but I had the drive to day for the first time and went about 35 mails all together and loved every minute of it. I love driving. All catch you later. oh Am I right in thinking you live in the UK are do I remember wrong? Just wondering.
Each and every word written by quite a few authors here resemble “exactly” what I’m going through. I’ve been feeling so lonely for the last few weeks that I can’t concentrate on my work properly. I have a few friends, but they are not so close that I can share my pain with them. Internally I’m feeling totally devasted. I’m trying to get back to a normal state and trying to keep myself busy. I’ve joined classes and do things to free my mind. But haven’t made much progress. I just hope that something happen that pulls me out of this state.
hello
i am a 20 yr old girl, in university and i am totally fucking depressed and lonely all the time. i dont know if it is some sort of social anxiety but it is so hard for me to connect with people and i feel like everyone i talk to is so fucking fake and superficial. i hate it. i dont trust any one, my bf of 4 yrs who was emotionaly and physically abusive left me after isolating me from my best friend who has also left me behind and now i have absolutely no one. my parents call me a loner and a loser and i feel like i have so miuch pressure on me to associate with people which makes it even more difficult for me. i really wish i had some one real to talk to who could relate but i feel like everyone is always judging me and no one cares enough to listen. fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuckkkkkk i am so sick of feeling like shit
well....i guess im one of you people cuz i sure as hell feel lonely, my grades are bad, i have no gf, etc. etc. everuthing just seems going downhill for me and well i mjust trying to get through it, it wont be like this forever......i just wish i had someone i could talk to....
loooooonelyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
i need lovveeee
its amazing how quickly peopple can forget the good things in life and just drop someone they’ve known for 6 years on a whim. really makes someone feel worthless. it makes me sometimes question whether being lonely is actually that bad compared to being constantly shit on by people..??/
I didn’t type in I am Lonely in google! I typed I’m lonley!LOL still ended up here. 6 years of hard labor trying to make it work with a girl I loved so much. She was always depressed and sad,and lonely — -we drove each other nuts and here feelings grew on me — -now I’m lonely and never was before- been strong my whole life. Till now.. I’m in for a lonely singles party. Im here in Ohio, north end! 32M Let’s party!!!!!
Sigh... Seems like every time I find a girl who likes me and I like her as well, she ends up running away because I am too nice. but she will not say that to my face, or say anything at all. just quits calling. The last one I was talking to... well lets just say it was the first time my heart hurt. I didn’t talk to anyone for three days. And thats hard when I live in a frat house which is full of drunk guys everyday. Will I find my soul mate, is she even at this college, my hometown, etc? These slow sad country songs I’m listening to are not helping much either. I can’t help but be nice, its how I was raised. open doors for anyone, love to cook (wine and dine), polite, and patient most of the time.
You all have assburgers. Just like me. Meaning you’re screwed, UNLESS you have really good parents who arrange for you to spend time with people and go to group organizations like Boy scouts which might get you friends. My 2 best friends are from my mom always having me at one of their houses, and from boy scouts. me and the one from boy scouts have A LOT in common — both have mental illnesses, girlfriends, like the same stuff etc — and the other is a very good friend since about 6th grade when we stopped fighting (we always would fight on playdates which we had since infancy)
But i have a feeling that if i knew any of them in school, i’d hate them.
The 3rd is from boy scouts in ny.
so you’ll have few friends but the ones you have will be very good friends.
join groups.
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