Booooo - I loved you before when your post was happy. Now it’s not so much. It’s not necc. about getting laid - I find that for those seeking emotional stability, that can often be to their detriment if the act is of an inconsequential nature. And it’s so hard not to focus on the negativity when you’re depressed ... trying to find your way out a dark tunnel with no map is not an easy feat. I agree that focusing on it is the worst, worst, worst thing ever, but there has to be a little compassion ... look at me - my reasons for being depressed as so much more trivial than say, so sad’s (reference above), but I still can’t get my head above water.
pls don’t take offense, just wanted to share my thoughts
Booooo - I loved you before when your post was happy. Now it’s not so much. It’s not necc. about getting laid - I find that for those seeking emotional stability, that can often be to their detriment if the act is of an inconsequential nature. And it’s so hard not to focus on the negativity when you’re depressed ... trying to find your way out a dark tunnel with no map is not an easy feat. I agree that focusing on it is the worst, worst, worst thing ever, but there has to be a little compassion ... look at me - my reasons for being depressed as so much more trivial than say, so sad’s (reference above), but I still can’t get my head above water.
pls don’t take offense, just wanted to share my thoughts
booooo wrote:
i think the common denominator in this group is a lack of getting layed........... THINK about it...
and also.... maybe stop constantly focusing on how shitty your life is and instead put your energy into other things.. like.. for example..... getting layed??
dont take this in a bad way. i am JUST as socially fucked up as allllllllll you but im just sayin that focusing on it is the WORST possible thing you can do.
I would say that the best thing you could do is to take matters in hand but yea I get where your coming from.
PS I don’t think any one well take offense to what you say.
booooo wrote:
who the fuck is this itachi coochy uchi FOOL .. are you fucking dumb? “deserve to vanished” ...??? and what does being barbaric have to do with homosexuality u stupid fuck. my LORD you must be really unhappy with yourself !! ......(dickhead)....
ps.. “their same sexual” doesnt make sense either
Let me explain, You have a lot off teenage lads on this sight that have never been laid and a lot have to call gays so they don’t come across as gay. Its cos there insecure about there own sexuality. When they get laid they wont give a shit about who is and who’s not gay as long as there not the one getting touched up by the gay. Get me. But your post did make me lol’s
oh yeah and that reminds meanother thing is taking everything so seriously..... that is the SECOND worst thing you can possibly do.... and constantly using long words and psycological terms
it uhhhhhhhhh..... doesnt really help in my opinion
why is it that sooo many ppl who have a sickness think they are psycologists?
am i the only one who can see a therapist and NOT start thinking i a m one? honestly most of the shit they say is crap, then they prescribe you antidepressents that you become hooked on for the rest of your life that in the long run fuck you up evenmore if you try to get off them
alllll im sayin is that the answer is not always a fucking complex mathematical equation.. sometimes just listening to an upbeat song or eating doritoes or Breyers low fat double fudge chocolate ice cream can help brighten the day
if you expect things to be complicated they always will be
Who knew a site like this existed- I normally would never do anything like this-I guess thats why they say you should never say never b/c you just might end up doing it. I feel so lonely this season even though I am blessed with lovely family and friends- its just been a rough year and now the holidays are here. My father recently died and I am single mom with 2 kids and I am searching for the joy again. It all feels so routine-I keep looking around the corner hoping for some wonderful surprise but instead nothing- nothing at all. The ironic thing is if you ever met me you would never know b/c I am the one everyone turns to when they are down-I am the cheerer upper Now-nothing-Anyway I pray it gets better soon
yardy wrote:
Who knew a site like this existed- I normally would never do anything like this-I guess thats why they say you should never say never b/c you just might end up doing it. I feel so lonely this season even though I am blessed with lovely family and friends- its just been a rough year and now the holidays are here. My father recently died and I am single mom with 2 kids and I am searching for the joy again. It all feels so routine-I keep looking around the corner hoping for some wonderful surprise but instead nothing- nothing at all. The ironic thing is if you ever met me you would never know b/c I am the one everyone turns to when they are down-I am the cheerer upper Now-nothing-Anyway I pray it gets better soon
good to have you here. goodluck to you and god bless
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Etain wrote:
Cid Highwind wrote:
Moderator record hun, ..yada yada yada ..I was talking about, dearest.
Guys...if you are intelligent, there are many things you can do that can save your life. I will tell you some actual things you can do that I often tell my “clients”.
— -
Top 3 Things You Want to Try to Obtain:
1. Women (really, all you need is love to live)
2. Money (this sounds like greed, but it encompasses success, direction, and status)
3. Popularity (this includes true friends, expendable friends, social proof, etc.)
— -
The three help each other reach higher levels. For example, higher social proof will help you get women. I don’t have much time, so I will be brief here and give you a general to-do list in no particular order:
1. Start your makeover plan: go to the gym 4 times a week with solid workouts, eat well based on your body type, and get at least 7 hours of sleep. If you’re afraid of the gym, suck it up, you only live once. I was scrawny 120 lbs when i first went in.
2. Get a new trendy wardrobe...this is not just to look good, it is so you can see you are revamping your life...the main idea is you want to look better than mainstream...for men, you do not have to be naturally attractive
3. Join Stylelife Academy: http://www.stylelife.com/phase2xl/about/ yes it costs money but it is worth it. If you have other ways of getting this sort of advice, go for it, but this in my opinion is CRUCIAL..probably the most helpful of ALL these comments
4. Use bittorrent to download Mystery’s Venusian Arts Handbook and also all his DVD’s
5. Go out with whatever friends you have...seriously...go out 4 nights a week if you have the time to. Make it something you gotta do more often but do NOT think of it as a chore. Your mission is just to go have FUN.
6. Talk to girls you don’t care about as much as you can. If you talk to girls you’re attracted to, your mission is to become FRIENDS with them
7. To pay for your new lifestyle, GET A COLLEGE DEGREE that will make you a consistent, above-average salary at the very least. This is likely the hardest part since no one has a secret to making a fortune. This requires extensive career counseling, but here is not the location. Anyways, forget buying a house and other items that do not help you make over your lifestyle, at least for now.
8. Pick up new hobbies and new challenges outside of your comfort zone. Think of it as an adventure. Think of things that you MIGHT love to do. Lifelong friendships are built because people have gone through a lot of tough shit together. If you add more experiences in your life with different people, the higher chance you will have true friends.
9. Make small changes everywhere that make you a DISTINCTIVE person. For example, decorate your apartment with a certain theme. Ride a motorized scooter everywhere. Wear a cowboy hat all the time. Buy a pet parrot. Take up yoga or forms of meditation or taichi. The key is making yourself interesting. Just avoid whatever everyone else is doing. That is the mundane.
10. Smile. Chill out. Don’t take things so seriously.
— -
These are very basic 10 tenets. These do not absolutely apply to every single person, but if you can follow all of these you will become happy.
If you made a checklist today of all your goals and wants, wouldn’t you want to see a lot more checks than empty boxes 10 years from now? So get up and do something. There is no use waiting around and criticizing the world. We were all given the same plate. Many people are fake, but guess what a majority of them are happy.
If you need to contact me, post here. My anon email is anti_kkk999@yahoo.com. But i will likely not read it there.
TO A YOUNG LADY OUT THERE THAT MIGHT BE LONELY NAME IS TAMIKA Y. FENTON DO NOT KNOW WHAT NICK NAME OR SCREEN NAME USEING, THIS IS YOUR AUNTIE IN MA. WHERE YOUR GRANDMOTHER ALSO LIVES STILL IN HER OLD BUILDING WE ARE OUT HERE LOOKING FOR YOU, WE KNOW THAT YOU ARE SOMEWHERE IN NYC BUT HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR YOU FOR A FEW YEARS NOW WE MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU. YOU HAVE FAMILY COME BACK TO US, WE PRAY FOR YOU ALWAYS. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE ALONE PLEASE CONTACT THIS E-MAIL IF YOU ARE MY NEICE BORN MAY 30,1983. psouth1405@yahoo.com SO WE CAN BRING YOU HOME WE DO NOT CARE WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN THROUGH OR DONE WE JUST WANT YOU WITH YOUR FAMILY. LOVE AUNTIE
TO A YOUNG LADY OUT THERE THAT MIGHT BE LONELY NAME IS TAMIKA Y. FENTON DO NOT KNOW WHAT NICK NAME OR SCREEN NAME USEING, THIS IS YOUR AUNTIE IN MA. WHERE YOUR GRANDMOTHER ALSO LIVES STILL IN HER OLD BUILDING WE ARE OUT HERE LOOKING FOR YOU, WE KNOW THAT YOU ARE SOMEWHERE IN NYC BUT HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR YOU FOR A FEW YEARS NOW WE MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU. YOU HAVE FAMILY COME BACK TO US, WE PRAY FOR YOU ALWAYS. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE ALONE PLEASE CONTACT THIS E-MAIL IF YOU ARE MY NEICE BORN MAY 30,1983. psouth1405@yahoo.com SO WE CAN BRING YOU HOME WE DO NOT CARE WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN THROUGH OR DONE WE JUST WANT YOU WITH YOUR FAMILY. LOVE AUNTIE
KJax wrote:
Guys...if you are intelligent, there are many things you can do that can save your life. I will tell you some actual things you can do that I often tell my “clients”.
— -
Top 3 Things You Want to Try to Obtain:
1. Women (really, all you need is love to live)
2. Money (this sounds like greed, but it encompasses success, direction, and status)
3. Popularity (this includes true friends, expendable friends, social proof, etc.)
— -
The three help each other reach higher levels. For example, higher social proof will help you get women. I don’t have much time, so I will be brief here and give you a general to-do list in no particular order:
1. Start your makeover plan: go to the gym 4 times a week with solid workouts, eat well based on your body type, and get at least 7 hours of sleep. If you’re afraid of the gym, suck it up, you only live once. I was scrawny 120 lbs when i first went in.
2. Get a new trendy wardrobe...this is not just to look good, it is so you can see you are revamping your life...the main idea is you want to look better than mainstream...for men, you do not have to be naturally attractive
3. Join Stylelife Academy: http://www.stylelife.com/phase2xl/about/ yes it costs money but it is worth it. If you have other ways of getting this sort of advice, go for it, but this in my opinion is CRUCIAL..probably the most helpful of ALL these comments
4. Use bittorrent to download Mystery’s Venusian Arts Handbook and also all his DVD’s
5. Go out with whatever friends you have...seriously...go out 4 nights a week if you have the time to. Make it something you gotta do more often but do NOT think of it as a chore. Your mission is just to go have FUN.
6. Talk to girls you don’t care about as much as you can. If you talk to girls you’re attracted to, your mission is to become FRIENDS with them
7. To pay for your new lifestyle, GET A COLLEGE DEGREE that will make you a consistent, above-average salary at the very least. This is likely the hardest part since no one has a secret to making a fortune. This requires extensive career counseling, but here is not the location. Anyways, forget buying a house and other items that do not help you make over your lifestyle, at least for now.
8. Pick up new hobbies and new challenges outside of your comfort zone. Think of it as an adventure. Think of things that you MIGHT love to do. Lifelong friendships are built because people have gone through a lot of tough shit together. If you add more experiences in your life with different people, the higher chance you will have true friends.
9. Make small changes everywhere that make you a DISTINCTIVE person. For example, decorate your apartment with a certain theme. Ride a motorized scooter everywhere. Wear a cowboy hat all the time. Buy a pet parrot. Take up yoga or forms of meditation or taichi. The key is making yourself interesting. Just avoid whatever everyone else is doing. That is the mundane.
10. Smile. Chill out. Don’t take things so seriously.
— -
These are very basic 10 tenets. These do not absolutely apply to every single person, but if you can follow all of these you will become happy.
If you made a checklist today of all your goals and wants, wouldn’t you want to see a lot more checks than empty boxes 10 years from now? So get up and do something. There is no use waiting around and criticizing the world. We were all given the same plate. Many people are fake, but guess what a majority of them are happy.
If you need to contact me, post here. My anon email is anti_kkk999@yahoo.com. But i will likely not read it there.
God is love,
KJax
Thats just bloody wonderful .. you’ve really made your point there.. Thanks mate
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Etain wrote:
Cid Highwind wrote:
Moderator record hun, ..yada yada yada ..I was talking about, dearest.
who the fuck is this itachi coochy uchi FOOL .. are you fucking dumb? “deserve to vanished” ...??? and what does being barbaric have to do with homosexuality u stupid fuck. my LORD you must be really unhappy with yourself !! ......(dickhead)....
KJax wrote:
Guys...if you are intelligent, there are many things you can do that can save your life. I will tell you some actual things you can do that I often tell my “clients”.
— -
Top 3 Things You Want to Try to Obtain:
1. Women (really, all you need is love to live)
2. Money (this sounds like greed, but it encompasses success, direction, and status)
3. Popularity (this includes true friends, expendable friends, social proof, etc.)
— -
The three help each other reach higher levels. For example, higher social proof will help you get women. I don’t have much time, so I will be brief here and give you a general to-do list in no particular order:
1. Start your makeover plan: go to the gym 4 times a week with solid workouts, eat well based on your body type, and get at least 7 hours of sleep. If you’re afraid of the gym, suck it up, you only live once. I was scrawny 120 lbs when i first went in.
2. Get a new trendy wardrobe...this is not just to look good, it is so you can see you are revamping your life...the main idea is you want to look better than mainstream...for men, you do not have to be naturally attractive
3. Join Stylelife Academy: http://www.stylelife.com/phase2xl/about/ yes it costs money but it is worth it. If you have other ways of getting this sort of advice, go for it, but this in my opinion is CRUCIAL..probably the most helpful of ALL these comments
4. Use bittorrent to download Mystery’s Venusian Arts Handbook and also all his DVD’s
5. Go out with whatever friends you have...seriously...go out 4 nights a week if you have the time to. Make it something you gotta do more often but do NOT think of it as a chore. Your mission is just to go have FUN.
6. Talk to girls you don’t care about as much as you can. If you talk to girls you’re attracted to, your mission is to become FRIENDS with them
7. To pay for your new lifestyle, GET A COLLEGE DEGREE that will make you a consistent, above-average salary at the very least. This is likely the hardest part since no one has a secret to making a fortune. This requires extensive career counseling, but here is not the location. Anyways, forget buying a house and other items that do not help you make over your lifestyle, at least for now.
8. Pick up new hobbies and new challenges outside of your comfort zone. Think of it as an adventure. Think of things that you MIGHT love to do. Lifelong friendships are built because people have gone through a lot of tough shit together. If you add more experiences in your life with different people, the higher chance you will have true friends.
9. Make small changes everywhere that make you a DISTINCTIVE person. For example, decorate your apartment with a certain theme. Ride a motorized scooter everywhere. Wear a cowboy hat all the time. Buy a pet parrot. Take up yoga or forms of meditation or taichi. The key is making yourself interesting. Just avoid whatever everyone else is doing. That is the mundane.
10. Smile. Chill out. Don’t take things so seriously.
— -
These are very basic 10 tenets. These do not absolutely apply to every single person, but if you can follow all of these you will become happy.
If you made a checklist today of all your goals and wants, wouldn’t you want to see a lot more checks than empty boxes 10 years from now? So get up and do something. There is no use waiting around and criticizing the world. We were all given the same plate. Many people are fake, but guess what a majority of them are happy.
If you need to contact me, post here. My anon email is anti_kkk999@yahoo.com. But i will likely not read it there.
God is love,
KJax
You are a fucking genius.
To the rest of you, I am the only living member of my immediate family, and I am paralyzed from the waist down (result of Iraq for only being there 1 year). I don’t think most of you are in worse situations than this. It took me about 5 years to turn my life around. I attempted a startup company that tried to make tanks more accessible to handicapped people. The startup failed, but because of it, I got into the Wharton school, the number 1 ranked undergrad business school. I graduated last May. I have a job that I love, and I have a girlfriend. It took me the entire 5 years to revamp myself. It wasn’t just going to school, it was changing my entire personality after my depression. It was the toughest thing in the world. But, are you just going to sit around while the world fucks you over?
On-Topic 
but yea I get where your coming from.
