i am lonely will anyone speak to me

black rose

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i am lonely only when i want that!i do not like to be lomely,i like to talk with friends,to saty in touch with what is new in this world and to see if somebody cares about me.i love this world and the people in it!

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10 to 70 .. you find them all .. im 21 btw

Just a lonely guy

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I’m new here ^^...lol..... I read some posts and they are very touching and true.....and yes i feel lonely too ..in fact im solo...and it’s not that great...i wish i could let go of all ....just let go ....i wish it was that easy but it’s not ..and while i was reading “Weezer’s " post at the end ...there is a Post Scriptum....and i started readind it ....and once i did my eyes went wet and i started crying .....because ....maybe what he is saying is actually true ...maybe..(((

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come on man dont cry .. its alright. just take a nap, listen to music, eat some chocolate, watch a movie or someit on the tv .. ... heck smoke some pot .. whatever .. just distract urself

Just a lonely guy

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Thanks Pain ..but it’s not that easy ....I can’t distract myself....heck i was feeling to lonely and to sad so i tiped on google “Why am I so lonely”...lol ...I can’t live another day like this ...I feel like im the only one who is expandable ....the one that no one cares of ...I wonder how people will feel when they realize im not there anymore ???I would want to see the look from their faces

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0140 am . i cant sleep . no one gives a fuck EVER ..

listen up.. if you cant treat urself good .. NO ONE ELSE WILL


when you die .. the closest of folks 'may' miss you for a year or more maybe .. the others .. even lesser .. some others.. not even that

BUT . if u sucked it all in .. kept that chin high and socialised more.. earned more friends.. fought up the social ladder

PERHAPS .. the day you die.. a couple hundred MORE may mourn for you .. tell tales of your wondrous persona.. and the good times they shared et al...

think abt it


i gtg .. sleep now. laters . god bless.

Just a lonely guy

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Yeah well the funny thing is..... that i kept inside all these years the pain and sorrow, the grieff and sadness.. fuck i feel like a fool saying all this ...i don’t know man...maybe im destined to be solo...be that one guy without a girl :the loser type ....who knows...and sorry for keeping u awake ...PS:thanks for the support man

vedder

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im shocked to see so many people on here by just typing into google im lonely

i seem to feel lonely even when i have a partner and lots of friends...im not sure why..i just do

i get angry very easy and i think thats why, i hear they are linked....i think i am living proof

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I get that way alot. Sometimes I feel that it is all hopeless and I don’t have a friend in the world.
Other times it doesnt look that bad.

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I get that way alot. Sometimes I feel that it is all hopeless and I don’t have a friend in the world.
Other times it doesnt look that bad.

Just a lonely guy

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yeah

Just a lonely guy

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yeah

Just a lonely guy

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yeah

faith

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reading these posts has made me feel a little better — knowing that how I feel is not uncommon.

someone on here said that by looking at her you’d never think she felt that way b/c she is usually the one to cheer people up. I’m the same way. i am always the one to make people feel better, but i have no one to make me feel better. if i died today id have nothing to show for my life. im basically not worth anything. i don’t think i deserve to live the loser lifestyle that i have now, but there’s not much i can do about it.
... if you asked anyone I knew they’d say i was 'chipper.' haha. i feel like i put up a front every day b/c no one wants to hear about my problems anyway. even now i think it is stupid for me to be writing this and i feel lame. and still lonely... =(

Lonely Chris

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I hear you faith when you say that you are the one that usually cheers others up but you have no one to cheer you up. I have put on a face for so long that people know me as a perkey outgoing guy always making people smile and laugh with my humor. Although on the inside I am withering away with loneliness. I go to church on a regularly basis hoping to meet friends at the college group but no one seems to be there but for themselves. I try to get peoples phone numbers and even attemp to call them during the week, but everyone always says they are to busy or yeah they would love to but... it’s always but this or that. I go months coming home after work because no one other than my parents care about me. I am a good looking 22 year old guy that works out and has good charm. I love the Lord, Jesus Christ with all my heart and yet my satisfaction for feeling accepted is no where near to be found. I sit in front of my computer right now wondering is there a single soul out there that cares to get to know me. I have tried and tried so long to make friends but no one cares to listen. It is 6 days before Christmas and the people I look forward to the most seeing every day are my co-workers, but that soons to be over every day I walk to my car to drive home. Even tonight I asked one of my co-workers if he wanted to hang out. He said sure give me a call. I gave him a call after I got off work and no answer. I am giving up. I think I will go to sleep and cry for an hour like I do every night before I cry my eyes to sleep. Goodnight all.

Danfeelinglonely lyk u

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Man, I agree with Isi that friendships are harder to form as you get older. I moved to a new country a few years ago and thought that I would adjust. I did for awhile but everytime I did frens just keep going out of my life. I think poeple are a bit biased. They seem to think that you can only have good frens if you have known them for a long time. Everyone I noe seems to have a long time fren but I still feel like a newbie everyday cos all of my old classmates have lost contact with me. I was only 10 when I left my old country. Man I feel so lonely and no one is making an effort to be good frens with me. I’m the one trying to get to know poeple. It’s like they think I am not good enough for them.. Whew... That got things off my chest. Well anyway, what little advice I can giv to other lonely poeple is study hard, make people look up to you. Then they will know how selfish they’ve been but too late for them. They wanted to be cool in school and not know the sweet, innocent guys like me. Sucks for them. Soon I will finish yr 12 and show them what they lost out on. (Flaunt my degree at them):P

Danfeelinglonely lyk u

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Hey Chris dont be sad. Man I feel lyke I have so much in common with you accept i’m abt 6 years younger. Life in my school is tough especially when peer pressure made me seem uncool in my school. I was popular at first but then people saw how christian I was and I was cast aside for not acting like those rebels! I’m sure I’ll be rewarded justly though when I return to meet the lord. This world is only a trial. Even myself sometimes feel lyke life is not worth living. Right now the only time poeple are interested with talking to me is to ask me abt my result in school. I just had the worst year of my life but before I had the best year! Talk about going through a roller coaster in your life! Hey maybe we can be frens and talk abt stuff. I like it when people share their opinions. Other people who feel lonely can join in too. We can all work together to diminish this loneliness in all of us. After all we were not meant to be alone.

Danfeelinglonely lyk u

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So anyway, I just wanted to clear up why I was really lonely. This year was my worst year in my life as I said in my earlier post. I only received a B+ for English and the rest barely pass and fails. I have to repeat many subjects next year and to top it off I am asian! Think of how much pride and reputation I have lost! Not to mention maybe what little frens I have might actually feel ashamed of me and leave me! I am so nervous abt the future. Fortunately though, nearing the end of this year I got one of my results from a unit I was doing one year earlier than others. I managed to rack up a 39 out of 50 which gets bumped up to abt 45! I was so shocked and happy! Well thats a bit of positiveness from me.. I hope to hear more stories abt all u lonely ppl lyk me. Both positive and negative. It beats having no one talking to you.

Lonely Chris

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I have to run to work I will post a longer reply later on telling you how my day went... 10-4? Thanks Dan, hang in there because God loves you and me both and everyone else out there. He is our strength and our shield. proverbs 3:5-6 says Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and he will direct your path. That has been a verse that has comforted my heart in these times. Also Romans 8:28 says And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. This encourages me today because I know that God is working in my life right as I type this because I love him and he loves me more to work out all in his ways. So keep your chin up and remember that when life might seem hard and cruel, that Christ came and understands all that you are going through. Christ went through the worst death for you and me and everyone in this world because he knew our pain and sufferings. Trust in Him and he will direct you.

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iv said these very same words to myself so many times.. well .. when its been a bad day .. you just gotta live it thru man .. in hope .. PERHAPS the new day will bring a better dawn .. well who knows.. some day.. it probably will!