sprite wrote:
Human beings are always adicted to feelings that they are used to having. If you spend too much time thinking and feeling bad things than you are feeding yourself into more of thinking and feeling bad. If you only forced your self to try and bring in good thoughts, believe in them as much and as intensely as you do when you are down then you will START bringing in good feelings. Thes steps are 1 thinking, 2 feeling, 3 awareness of feeling (and acting upon it) and there goes the cycle again. The confusion is found in the misconception that feelings come first...
Sprite - your thoughts are so on point. But is anyone else like me in that, you don’t want to think good thoughts? I feel so mired in misery that I can’t even imagine wanting to try and feel positive - the thought makes me feel sick. Like, I half want this to be over, but another part of me doesn’t think I could function trying to fake myself into being positive. How twisted is that? I mean, really - who wants to stay depressed?
Side note and one bright spot in my life: I suffer from trichotillomania, but today will be my 14th day pull-free.
Side note and one bright spot in my life: I suffer from trichotillomania, but today will be my 14th day pull-free.
I have never hard of that but it sounds like your doing well.
Sometimes you have to be depressed to work fro shit, Then you can become happy again. After all how do we know what happy is if we have never felt unhappy?
It’s Christmas in Thailand.
As usual I’ll be spending it alone.
But I’d like to give a warm HUG to all those feeling lonely tonight...
Merry Christmas!!!!!!! May you all believe that you are a part of something, if only we look beyond ourselve. May all of you find happiness tonight.
To my friends in here...hi guys...its been a while but doesn’t mean I haven’t been thinking of you.....*Brian*...just saying your name makes me smile.....*the_pain*....we’ll talk soon....*pls*...how are things...and *dancingclayman*, *mimi*, *etain*...missed you....*bord/pluto*.....*Tyreaus*..*hannah*...*mezza*....wish you all a very Merry Christmas....live the moment.
Christmas time is here again!
Christmas time is here again!
Christmas time is here again!
Christmas time is here again!
Its been 'round since you know when..
Christmas time is here again...
O-U-T spells out
wow, how random.. other people who feel a bit lonely too..
Granted its christmas day here in the uk, and its the worst time ever to feel lonely but my god, at least i aint alone in that sence!
I got friends, but never seem to see them, My gf just finished me at the start of december to get with someone else.. totally sucks.
pretty much the worst year of my life so far 2007 has been..
I got finished last christmas by a girl i travelled the world to be with, then i was in a car crash feb and totally destroyed my pride and joy which i had spent thousands oing up.. then i spent all year un employed and with rejection after rejection for work.. then i meet a great girl and start seeing her on my birthday.. finally i say to myself, things are looking up.. then december she dumps me to start seeing this other guy! great!
so here I am, christmas day and im sat on my own thinkin one thing.. i.. am.. lonely!
Ell wrote:
wow, how random.. other people who feel a bit lonely too..
Granted its christmas day here in the uk, and its the worst time ever to feel lonely but my god, at least i aint alone in that sence!
I got friends, but never seem to see them, My gf just finished me at the start of december to get with someone else.. totally sucks.
pretty much the worst year of my life so far 2007 has been..
I got finished last christmas by a girl i travelled the world to be with, then i was in a car crash feb and totally destroyed my pride and joy which i had spent thousands oing up.. then i spent all year un employed and with rejection after rejection for work.. then i meet a great girl and start seeing her on my birthday.. finally i say to myself, things are looking up.. then december she dumps me to start seeing this other guy! great!
so here I am, christmas day and im sat on my own thinkin one thing.. i.. am.. lonely!
sucks!
got some chocolates... .. you want some?
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Etain wrote:
Cid Highwind wrote:
Moderator record hun, ..yada yada yada ..I was talking about, dearest.
Hello to everyone.
I know that the holidays can be especially tough on those of us who are having a hard time to begin with, but I just wanted you to know that my thoughts are with you all. And I’m gonna go ahead and say it, “Merry Christmas!"
2008 is right around the corner. Time to make a fresh start.
There’s hope, people. Hang in there.
Peace. Love. Compassion.
Jimmi Blue
On-Topic 
Remember its only for a few days.
