So Google has brought me here. Weird. So yeah, I am lonely.
I am in my first year of college, home for the holidays. Most of my high school friends are not friends any more. Some just sketched out on me, some are just not the same, and a few dislike me because I was a D-Bag and didn’t really manage damage control of the situation that well. I’m a moron at relationships in that manner, but regardless.
I feel like life is so meaningless without those people around you who you can depend on to forgive you no matter what. I have not really had that since April - when I d-bagged up two of my best friendships.
The hole left behind was pretty big. And it’ll be awhile before I can stop tearing myself up for not thinking of a way to fix it and (hopefully) save the friendship.
It’s kinda funny how many of us found this through Google. Me too, for the record - plugged in “I’m very lonley”, and here I am. I kinda thought I was the only one odd-ball enough to do things like that.
So what do you do when you’re lonley and it’s late at night, too late to go out, too late to phone anyone?
Elski wrote:
It’s kinda funny how many of us found this through Google. Me too, for the record - plugged in “I’m very lonley”, and here I am. I kinda thought I was the only one odd-ball enough to do things like that.
So what do you do when you’re lonley and it’s late at night, too late to go out, too late to phone anyone?
Hey....22 year old lady here. I’ve been called attractive (previous model), funny, and kind but also paranoid and clingy.... my boyfriend says i nag alot which i do but i find it so hard to stop...he has so many friends he can go out with wheneva he wants, he loves me very much and puts up with my PMT and alot of my contstant phone calls but i dont want him to hav to put up with it anymore.... I have 2 friends...1 i met up with just b4 xmas but she is busy with many ova friends she dosnt have time for regular meetings..plus shel b goin back to uni soon and the other is my so-called best friend but she spends most her time working or with her boyfriend who she argues with most the time anyway...so she is like my only friend who il c about 1nc every 2 wks.... she used to wanna go out loads but now its only really on occasions cos she worrys about bein too hungover for work...
I feel bored and unsatisfied with life....im lonely
I c my boyfriend a fair amount as he divides it between me and his mates and thats fine...i like my space in relationships....its more friends that i want! i wanna be goin out or havin girly nights in and generally havin fun!
My boyfriends ex ex ex girlfriend kept askin me to com out with her and she is really nice but she is a real party animal and knos lots of guys and my boyfriend would b insecure of me hangin out with her...so i made no effort to go out with her after many of her attempts to get me out! but then again its probably not the atmosphere i would want anyway...ending up at som flat after club chilin with a bunch of drunked up ppl i barely kno...
my sister has her bf who she lives with and spends loads of time with....
a few girls i used to go school with r always out and they r quite nice...i somtimes txt my old friend donna to c wen they out and she always makes me feel welcome to join but i neva go cos they r all so closeknit already& id feel stupid...plus they r all in to a completely different type of music to me...i beeen out with them a couple of times but it just felt slightly borin and awkward....
so all i hav is my 1 best mate who i feel is not there enuf? i wanna live and be crazy im not ready to settle down like she seems to b doin....wot do i dooooo???? mayb i should join som after work classes??? or college course?? i wanna travel and meet new and different ppl....ppl like me who have same interests and beliefs...
as much as i lov certain ppl in my life....most of them i just dont follow there way of life anymore....my best friend pisses me off most time cos of her boring, materialistic, (self absorbed nature)...i find myself biting my toungue... but then we hav such a laugh together somtimes and we hav been friends for years....
My Man is great....im happy with him...its me thats the problem or my life rather....
I need a drastic change....i feel sooooooooooo bored
i hope all of u guys find someone ....to get rid of this lonelyness.....I kinda gave up on the idea (to be with someone)guess im the loser type after all .....take care bye
I can’t sleep because I feel so lonely..
My girlfriend is in the other side of the country with family, and was supposed to be coming back in a month. She just told me today that she’ll probably stay now until August.
She is my best friend, and when everyone heads back to university in a week, I’ll be all alone for the next 5 months.
Mcleanmi wrote:
I can’t sleep because I feel so lonely..
My girlfriend is in the other side of the country with family, and was supposed to be coming back in a month. She just told me today that she’ll probably stay now until August.
She is my best friend, and when everyone heads back to university in a week, I’ll be all alone for the next 5 months.
To some extent.. I know how you feel. My girlfriend is also on the other side of the country, about 2000 miles away. Some nights, I sleep just fine.. But it’s probably because I stay up so late that I literately pass out. When I try to sleep early, I lie awake thinking about her for hours..
It hard.. But hey, at least we know somebody loves us, right? Even though she’s so far away.. It helps me to get through the day just knowing we’ll be together someday. She’s my everything, I get through the loneliness because of her.
I wish the best of luck with it man. Don’t feel too bad though, she’ll be back soon.
goingnowhere wrote:
Am still lonely, well you talk to me tuscan
Of cause i will just make an account on here and we can talk on pm ok...........
lol tuscan, I did
Dhem92 wrote:
Has anyone saw the ad “A Lonely Life”?
yes
jp-fan wrote:
why are people still here?
ppl come hear from all over the place and at this time of the year ppl feel it that much moor Its one of the sad things in life that some ppl well struggle with this feeling of isolation and feeling that there not wonted by the world and that makes you feel lonely. Well that’s why it makes me feel that way,, Yes this is how I fist found this sight. I don’t feel like that all the time but I do live alone and don’t work and am not the most popular guy hear in the real world and sometimes being alone gets to me. Sometimes that makes me sad and sometimes I look for fights and act a jerk when that happens. Most of the time am a happy go lucky kinda guy and I don’t feel sad That’s how it works for me anyway. I hope that helped you understand a bit moor.
BLEH wrote:
arrggghh!!!!
I hate this time of year!!!!
I hate the last day of December
i’m alone! I’m bored!! and i have no where to go!!!!!!
I HATE MYSELF
Your not on your own dude, Well I think your a dude
This is the last day of it tho. I am at me mum and dads to night, Going to watch a dvd, order some take away and have a drink. Not the most kicking new years eve I have ever had but I just had a OP not so long ago so even if I did have anyone to go out with I would not be able to ye anyway. But my B day is coming up in a few weeks and I intend to make up for it in a big way Peace to you and keep as well as you can,, nearly over.
cid, you really got it going on with GN, WOW, I had no idea that things where getting that serears for you two. Hope you get it together someday. ps I am correct in saying its GN lol Am not as up on thing around hear as I use to be. That could be a joke that the two of you made up are something But WTF your both cool peeps so deserve to find love.
Its one of the sad things in life that some ppl well struggle with this feeling of isolation and feeling that there not wonted by the world and that makes you feel lonely. Well that’s why it makes me feel that way,, Yes this is how I fist found this sight. I don’t feel like that all the time but I do live alone and don’t work and am not the most popular guy hear in the real world and sometimes being alone gets to me. Sometimes that makes me sad and sometimes I look for fights and act a jerk when that happens. Most of the time am a happy go lucky kinda guy and I don’t feel sad 
That’s how it works for me anyway. I hope that helped you understand a bit moor.
