manonfire wrote:
i’m so lonely. i don’t have a summer job because of this economy. my girlfriend dumped me. i have no friends for support and to take my mind of being dumped.
I’m sorry to hear that
I know what you mean about finding work...I’m without a summer job as well right now, it’s tough.
Break ups are tough, maybe try to reach out to someone you know...you can always become friends with someone.
almost girl wrote:
It’s late, and I’m tired, but not in the way I want to be.
You sound a lot like me.
And I wish I had some great advice to give...but that’s the trouble when you’re trying to find solutions to your own problems .
As I get older though, I am trying to come to grips with the idea that there will be up years after the down ones (and vise versa).
I’m just trying to barrel through this section of my life...doing the best I can.
I hope everyday you can find a few things that make you happy, and remember those for days when you can’t.
kagome..8417 wrote:
I am tired of always doing everything wrong.
That’s tough, it really is. I don’t know what I would do in your situation.
I think you should stay true to yourself. Think about the goals you want in life...focus on that. Stay clean, finish school...and then move out
And relationships with siblings go up and down...don’t worry, you’ll always stay close.
thanks to everyone who replied to me, I really appreciate it! to Kagome- I hope things work out better for you. Remember to stay strong and hang in there girl! Not everything is your fault! Just do the best you can in your day to day situations. It takes a lot of love and maturity to love your folks even if they don’t treat you the best, or how parents should, and i really respect that! Maybe you can talk to that aunt of yours more, she sounds really cool.
I’m not usually upset and depressed, it just strikes once in a blue moon. And to that guy who replied to me and made no sense, I’m not a girl who gives a shit about money. I’m like Mimi, who doesn’t get hit on as much because I don’t play games and I REFUSE to partake in them. Sometimes that can get lonely, you know? But Mimi, you’re awesome! It takes courage and guts to do the right thing, and sometimes/more often the better path is much much harder!
When you start to feel bad for yourself, the longer you wallow the harder it is to pull yourself back together- it’s almost seductive. There are always reasons to feel angry or sorry for yourself, or depressed. That’s because life is hard, life is full of pain, and almost nothing happened the right way or the way that it should. However it’s always worth it to fight back and not let yourself lose. Remember, the people in your life that you admire are the ones that work hard and rise above everything, no matter how the odds were stacked against them, right? So keep trucking everyone!
you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.
I’ve learned that no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
Well, lets see.
My girlfriend is really down right now.
She is on her period, and she is extremely emotional this time.
I am going down to visit her in 5 days,
And it is our 2 month anniversary on Sunday.
I have been helping her out a lot.
Making her feel better and what not..
But without me being right there for her, it doesn’t feel like enough.
I really want to be there for her.
Just felt like I needed to get that out.
I know everything is going to be okay.
I just wish time would hurry up and pass through my senior year so that I can get down there and be with her every day.
Is that too much to ask?
lonely. It is so strange to me to think of how many people there are in the world and yet how many of us fail to find someone special. Or fail to be able to fill that void that cuts straight into our souls. Maybe if everyone would let their true selves come out and stop trying to be cool we would all be better off. But it sucks when you try to let your walls down and find out it is never good enough for the people around you. man am I lonely.
Hi Everyone, this reminded me of Message in a bottle by the Police in the early 80’s I think “seems I’m not alone in being alone' you could probably watch on you tube. Any way GOD is always there and he answers prayers. Ask for forgiveness ask the LORD JESUS into your life and ask for the gift of the HOLY SPIRIT. you will never be really lonely again, only temporarily bored. I was suicidal 21 years ago and did this, its true and real just give it a try and you will see, I have never felt that down since. And I know that GOD helped me to escape from hell because suicide is a form of murder. listen to third day 'call my name' also probably on you tube. Much Love to you all Clairah xxx
And it’s not loneliness that I have rather than that I create. I have so many friends but very few that I can really bare & trust. So frustrated these days ...
I have been on my own for 14 yrs. met this guy recently in a men’s department store. He is intriguing. Like him. don’t know if he is interested. don’t know how to approach him.!!!!!
I am a male homosexual
When you start to feel bad for yourself, the longer you wallow the harder it is to pull yourself back together- it’s almost seductive. There are always reasons to feel angry or sorry for yourself, or depressed. That’s because life is hard, life is full of pain, and almost nothing happened the right way or the way that it should. However it’s always worth it to fight back and not let yourself lose. Remember, the people in your life that you admire are the ones that work hard and rise above everything, no matter how the odds were stacked against them, right? So keep trucking everyone!
oh skully...you’re really into every moment which is good...but can sometimes take away from the bigger picture. It’s nice you’re taking care of your girl
mana...cars eh? I date a mechanic..lol, and I don’t even like cars
HGK...good friends are hard to come by, but I think DLs advice is good..be yourself, because in the end the best friends are the ones who like who you really are the most.
Fer..soooo, did you talk to him? Get a number? Good luck!
Treenymph wrote:
oh skully...you’re really into every moment which is good...but can sometimes take away from the bigger picture. It’s nice you’re taking care of your girl
yeah, i care for her more than anything, and i want her to be the happiest ever.
she is everything to me
i think i finally figured out what im going to get her for her birthday too
just have to get half of it okayed with her mom and stepdad, which should be okay, since it would also be from them
Treenymph wrote:
oh skully...you’re really into every moment which is good...but can sometimes take away from the bigger picture. It’s nice you’re taking care of your girl
yeah, i care for her more than anything, and i want her to be the happiest ever.
she is everything to me
i think i finally figured out what im going to get her for her birthday too
just have to get half of it okayed with her mom and stepdad, which should be okay, since it would also be from them
Bithdays are fun!
Mmmm..mine’s comeing up sorta soon
Treenymph wrote:
oh skully...you’re really into every moment which is good...but can sometimes take away from the bigger picture. It’s nice you’re taking care of your girl
yeah, i care for her more than anything, and i want her to be the happiest ever.
she is everything to me
i think i finally figured out what im going to get her for her birthday too
just have to get half of it okayed with her mom and stepdad, which should be okay, since it would also be from them
Bithdays are fun!
Mmmm..mine’s comeing up sorta soon
my gfs is August 11th.
just need to get a job so i can afford it...
thinking of getting her a promise ring. she said she would love one, i told her id probably get her one around spring-time, but that was just a cover up lol
other half of it is being able to stay down there for a week or 2 around her birthday.. just gotta get her parents to agree..
then im thinking of getting her a used 360 for christmas, since thats what she keeps asking for lol.
I’m having a day like this after a long long time and it’s bad.. My problem are my friends..so called “bff”
& I’m sure U all know what I’m talking about.. I have so many people around me & the feeling of emptyness is still there and it’s tearing me inside out...
I’m not asking for a friend,I’m not looking for a conversation..I’m just sayin'
If life is full of ups and downs..When do the ups come?
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