i am lonely will anyone speak to me

I frequently google “I’m lonely," and frequently find this. Tonight I’m actually posting.

Has anyone yet found the cure for a broken heart? Just wondering.

Friends come over, but then they leave. I remain alone, feeling forgotten and invisible while time stands still.

Via Google as well.

I’m a nice 23 y/o guy. I keep a smile on my face, despite...
My best friend of 8 years has cut me off permanently with no explanation.
My GF dumped me. She was my first.
I’m still a virgin.
I met a girl who is great but she’s married.
I started talking to a new girl I like and she ignored me.
I’m jobless and $6000+ in debt.
I live with my parents who loathe my presence.
I was arrested under suspicion of shoplifting.
I can’t sleep at night.
I’m stuck living in a small town.
I’m balding prematurely.
I still have acne (folliculitis).
I’m out of shape.
My life is going nowhere fast.
I’m lonely.

Any challengers?

I also did that just for fun but then I realized I don’t have a girlfreind

why can’t I have love too? i’ve never even held a girl’s hand (2)... i just want someone to talk to and feel close to.

Forlate depressed me. But also made me realize that things aren’t bad at all for me.

habibtou wrote: I frequently google “I’m lonely," and frequently find this. Tonight I’m actually posting.

Has anyone yet found the cure for a broken heart? Just wondering.

Not that I know of

Nothing but time....it’s the slowest most painful cure....but it’s the only way to come out whole again.

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CoughSuppressant wrote: Friends come over, but then they leave. I remain alone, feeling forgotten and invisible while time stands still.

I know that feeling.
I hope you’re feeling better now.

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lone and forgotten wrote: Via Google as well.

I’m a nice 23 y/o guy. I keep a smile on my face, despite...
My best friend of 8 years has cut me off permanently with no explanation.
My GF dumped me. She was my first.
I’m still a virgin.
I met a girl who is great but she’s married.
I started talking to a new girl I like and she ignored me.
I’m jobless and $6000+ in debt.
I live with my parents who loathe my presence.
I was arrested under suspicion of shoplifting.
I can’t sleep at night.
I’m stuck living in a small town.
I’m balding prematurely.
I still have acne (folliculitis).
I’m out of shape.
My life is going nowhere fast.
I’m lonely.

Any challengers?

Nope, not at all.

But I liked the smile on my face part.
'Cause honestly, the only way to get through all that is just to keep going...
When you start to loose hope, you start that cycle donwards.
I hope you believe that things will get better...beacause they can and they will.
Just from your post I feel as though you’ve got some resiliance to you...a little strengh?

I like small towns...but I know that if it’s too small meeting people can be a problem.

Good luck to you!

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Johnathan wrote: I also did that just for fun but then I realized I don’t have a girlfreind

Well, although companionship is a wonderful thing. I hope you don’t feel lesser for not having one. These things can’t be forced, and when you’re happy with yourself and life...that’s when you start to make great connections with people

forlate wrote: why can’t I have love too? i’ve never even held a girl’s hand (2)... i just want someone to talk to and feel close to.

Then I’m sure you will...I think those are great feelings to have

Sc4 wrote: Forlate depressed me. But also made me realize that things aren’t bad at all for me.

Perspective is great thing insn’t?

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There are two ways of meeting difficulties. You alter the difficulties or you alter yourself to meet them.

I’ve lived in the same place for four years and never talk to anyone local in a friend-like manner on a regular basis (besides my housemates, who, as it turns out, despise me). It’s my fault: I’m painfully shy. The people who I consider to be my true friends are so far away. I just wish I didn’t feel so alone when it’s obvious that there are people around me.

forlate wrote: why can’t I have love too? i’ve never even held a girl’s hand (2)... i just want someone to talk to and feel close to.

I feel the same way forlate. I’m 22. I live alone. I rarely make human contact. I’ve never had a girlfriend, nevermind hold a girls hand. I just want a best friend. Someone to understand me and someone I can understand. What’s worse is my insanity. I’ve always struggled with clinical depression and chronic anxiety, giving me no motivation to do anything at all. But my obsessive compulsive disorder twists my brain into knots, knots of things that aren’t even close to being real, leaving me to feel like a disgusting freak. Sometimes I feel like I don’t deserve anything or anyone’s attention.

But it’s easy to list off all the bad in anonymous fashion, feeling free of the guilt of my self-indulgence. The truth is, in a lot of ways God has blessed me greatly. Which frustrates me that I can’t enjoy the fruit of his blessings. Because life could be beautiful for me if my brain worked. But it seems so hopeless a lot of the time. I’m suffocating right now and I feel hopeless. I’m so very alone. I love you all

you are lonely

I wish I had a friend. I’ve felt alone my entire life. I’m 25 years old and I’m a single mom doing it all on my own. I wish I could meet someone special. Sometimes it gets to be too overwhelming.. on days like today I just want to curl up in a ball and dissipate. If this short letter speaks to you, email me — lootornool@aol.com

I feel so alone, but I guess that doesn’t surprise anyone considering the forum we’re on.

I’m not a shy or introverted person at all. I don’t really seem to have a problem making friends, I usually have plenty of people I consider friends and who consider me their friend. I just seem have a problem with picking the wrong people to put my trust in, and it has been broken over and over and over. I wish I could just stop trying be okay being a loner so I didn’t have to get hurt again, but I just can’t do that. I really think I like myself, but I cannot seem to make the opposite sex agree that I am a worthwhile person.

My best friend has decided that her boyfriend is more important than me and that means that she can’t talk to me at all.

I am 22 and have never been on a date, and never even had anyone express interest. I’m pretty sure I’m invisible to guys.

I’ve been on meds for depression for over 2 years now, but when life just keeps kicking your butt over and over again it’s hard not to slip back into that thinking.

It’s sad to see there are so many other lonely people out there, but it’s good to know that I’m not the only one. Anyone want to chat? ktr626@hotmail.com

I hear you! Believe me, I hear you!! Been there done that - still doing it! Believe me it does get better though! You are still young and you seem like the type that men would be attracted to. Sometimes they are just scared to approach woman who are outgoing, but I am sure if you keep being yourself it will happen.

As for your friend, that will change too. If you have been true friends, then this is just a temporary thing. Give her some space and let her know that you are there when she needs a friend, and she will.

Good Luck!

Thanks Agent Turtle for the Sig!

nicely said

well, im new to this thing...but i guess i’ll share my feelings...

i am super lonely.. my husband is deployed and my daughter is getting older and doesnt need me anymore..I feel like I dont know who i am anymore??? I cant talk to my husband about it because his problems are worse than mine. I really dont have anyone to talk to, i feel selfish telling my problems to anyone because i know everyone has there own issues to deal with. Im just so lonley that i cant take it anymore..I often wonder if i ust dissapear..would anyone even notice?"?