i am lonely will anyone speak to me

I’m yet another that was feeling deep blue, and googled for 'I am lonely'. What an odd convergence.

All One Kewl!

yay.. i typed in 'i am lonely' in google too.. am nt e onli one who thinks this way.. sometimes we focus too much on ourselves..

If ya like, email me and we can chit chat if someone is lonely.

The best cure for loneliness is to become involved with helping others. Volunteer places, if you’re not outgoing in group situations, do things one on one with people. We’re basically only here for one reason and that is to help each other. (I learned this after a spiritual experience.)

are we patheitc, or are we the majority?

i used google as well. eek.

Friends;
Once again I prove to myself I am not the only lonely soul on Earth. But always remember you are not the loneliest. There is some one out there in worst shape than you, and they might be handling it.
I am so lonely right now, that my only inspiration is to help others. I saw an old lady last Saturday, who was obese, and had to use a cane to walk. It was 90 degrees. She look miserable. I asked her if I could help her. She said she was going to the Latino store (she spoke Spanish), to buy batteries for her radio. I realized she came from very poor and humble background. I ask her if she could wait five minutes in the shade, while I went to buy her the batteries at the nearest gas station (did not want to scare her by asking her if she needed a lift). She said ok.
When I came back, she was so pleased and happy that I forgot I was lonely.
I know I am not right, but doctors want to give me drugs to fight whatever is killing me. I don’t like drugs.
Maybe tomorrow I can help some one else, and for a moment, not feel so low.
Hang in there my friend. It cannot get any worst, only better.
Leave the house, even though you don’t want to.

My wife told me she isn’t in love with me anymore and that I spend to much time “playing”. I have two jobs and all I want to do is go home and play with my 3 young children, I don’t get to see them everyday now and that is why I am now so lonely. It’s been about six weeks now and I am still awaking at three in the morning crying. It’s really hard and I know I will get through it but right now I am lonely, and that’s ok because it’s my feeling and I think a lot of you also feel the same way and we are all going to feel better one day at a time, thanks for allowing me to validate my feeling here.

you are not the only one: what anice thing to do. It does help to help others... i definately have found that to bring great satisfaction. I’d suggest getting more involved by volunteering... hospitals, libraries, shelters, kids clubs, are always looking for good people to help others in need. You’ll find it rewarding, it sounds like you really enjoy working with people.... that is a skill hard to master... don’t let it go untouched. Of course before you can truly let go of being lonely, you have to gain a better self acceptance and realize, you have many great qualities, and by helping that lady that shows you cared enough to say hey.... most people won’t do that. so be proud of yourself, and remember its your actions and self accomplishments that should make you feel complete, not who you “hang” with.

kelly, breakups are terrible and messy, don’t beat yourself up about it, and realize some people actually have things a lot worse than you, your kids are still alive. not that your situation doesn’t hurt but just that you and your family can learn from this. Your kids know you love em, and i’m sure you’ll value your time with them. try to get out and meet people by going to clubs, library groups, volunteering. you’ll find you can grow stronger.
remember, you are the ONLY person you HAVE to wake up with in the morning.... take care of yourself, then you’ll be strong enough to help your kids transition.

I know this is redundant on this thread, but damn, I can’t believe there are actually people who also typed “I am lonely” on Google. Quite interesting to see that many of us are in the same state emotionally.

I am an introvert and I find it extremely difficult to approach people and start conversations, which is probably why I am typing on a message board and googling “I am lonely” instead of doing something constructive with my life. I am a student in college, and I feel somewhat helpless in that I don’t know what to do in life, and my only true friends went to seperate out of state colleges. My ineptitude with women is of epic proportions. Lately, I seem to have as much luck of finding a woman as Jessica Simpson does of correctly answering a Jeopardy question. That’s not good.

Maybe some volunteer work is the right way to go. At least then I’ll be doing something to help others, instead of feeling sorry for myself. I’ve actually contemplated either coaching a little league team or starting up a league for youths. Being a baseball player was my absolute dream as a youngster, and I went as high as little league, but like most of my life, I chickened out because of my fear of failure, and here I am. Helping kids reach the goals that I never could would be satisfying for me, as I feel I am actually in my element with baseball (seriously, I live and I’ll die for this game!).

Oh well, I don’t expect this to help me, but it’s good to get all of this out. Thanks for reading...if you actually lasted long enough to do so.

Fact: we are all lonely. I don’t know if the world feels less lonely ore more lonely. I just have one question: Does anyone know how to have fun anymore?

I think this threaqd should be kept alive... i typed i am lonely as well!!!!!


So everyones lonely.. how sad

I hope all who are lonely find a way to fill this void.

cant believe i typed in this message and found so many people feeling same way.i find it hard to find new friends as i move a lot and getpissed off explaining my complexlife to all and sundry,

Unbelieveble but true i typed the same thing seconds ago in google and here i am on this thread- yeah i guess we all feel lonely for one reason or another but we should not let our problems to keep letting us down. Right now i am lonely because i have no girl friend i never had one i am kind of a pathetic about that cuz i never showed myself to the world because i was scared of teh results or i was scared that i wont be accepted by whoever that is and another thing for my loneliness is those freaking computers i am 19 yaers old fella who has been wrokign on computer since age of 12 i am not a geek or anything like that ti just happend to have my computer as my best friend since i wasnt that socially related to the outer world but now i realized how much i had missed during these (7) yaers all the friend that i could make all the experience that i could of get and all these crappy stuff that some people just happens to be born with.. so it all started few years ago when i started to feel depressed and i lost excitement of everything i didnt want to go to school i ddint want to play computer games i didnt even want to see my friend i just didnt want to do anything not even eat my last week that just passed by was all spend by sleeping all day i go to sleep at 4am and wake up at 6pm and i just got totaly messed up and now its time to redeem my self for what a lost and do during my past years-i wish to start a new life because i cant live that way no more-not that i have a choice-suicide is a stupid thing and must not be even though -you got one life to live dotn waste it-its no use-just live to whenever you can-why end it-keep on living and you might meet your dreamed wish if not you dont loose anything you will be still along the mortals watching the progress of life and showing your best of yourself no matter how much that is.

For those really out of hope -get a grip to your life-go outside go in the park or on the street look around your self look at those people that are around you-and especially the one that show some respect that you are there along them see that you are not no one-you are part of the life cycle part of the community- and if feel that you wanna talk to someone just poke some random people and ask them question-like whats the time and shit-you never know what relationship can get out of it. And most importantly find something to do-find yourself a hobby , a job or anything that will keep you out of regular thinking habits

I recently find something on the internet about depression which could be an effect of loneliness or vice versa so here it is http://www.nimh.nih.gov/publicat/friend.cfm

I am sorry that i wrote that shit some people might thing that is total non sense and useless crap but whatever i dont really give a shit for what those people think-its important what you think about your deeds-however atleast i well wasted my time typing it not that i really know what i typed but well who cares -now i am happy and less lonely dont know why but i am -so beat it

chickatola bye

I feel ya, I am very lonely. I used to have a big family and now down to a few aunts and uncles only 2 of which live in my area and they have their own life. The friends I have had moved on got married and Ive lost touch. The only people I do anything with are a couple of people I work with and that is rare. But the way I look at it I must have done something to deserve this so I dont really feel I have the right to complain. I have to play the cards I was dealt as the old cliche goes. Love life wise, I have a hot women I work with that really likes me but as my luck goes, shes involved and feels loyal even though she isnt happy. So what I really do is thank God I have a good job, I have a house my 2 cats and just try to keep myself busy which pretty much is sitting home every weekend but like I said I must deserve it or it wouldnt be so

I typed “I am lonely” in google, up this came. Seems many others did the same. Surely everyone should be entitled to a group of friends who love them, and maybe a partner too? Someone to snuggle up to at the end of the day? I ahve few friends, and have never had a girlfriend. I help out at homeless shelters, befriend elderly people and have a very keen interest in human rights. What am I doing wrong? Shoudl I be spending all my money on nice clothes and going out to meet people rather than giving it to charity? Why don’t girls like me?

Also, I am studying maths and physics at the University of London, have a part-time job to support myself, go down the gym, can run three miles in under eighteen minutes... What more am I supposed to do? I try so hard but get no where. I aim to teach maths at secondary school level in a poor country. I know blokes who are complete idiots but are funny and/or good-looking who have no problem finding a girl. I look average so am condemned to... ah stuff it.

boy, misery oves company. I too typed “I am lonely” into google. now I don’t feel so pathetic, almost amused.