A lot is going on right now with me, and I just need to vent.. even though I know a lot of you will have nothing nice to say. I need to get it all out of my head.
I am scared.. I don’t think I am pregnant but I don’t know.. I don’t know what to do.. If I was, the guy that would be the father would want nothing to do with the kid I am sure... Or he would deny it being his even though I hadnt had sex with anyone in a year in a half untill him. It is just the kind of person he is.. He used me and cheated on me.. If I miss my period I guess then I will know.. I hope to god I am not.. I am not ready for a kid.. I have been showing some 'signs' I guess.. I feel so lost..
And alone.. I feel like I really have no one.. I can’t tell my parents I only would if I knew for sure I was.. I feel like I got no one to talk to.. And I feel so stupid.. How I could allow myself to be so used. My head is just so confused.. I don’t know anymore
Skeetles wrote:
A lot is going on right now with me, and I just need to vent.. even though I know a lot of you will have nothing nice to say. I need to get it all out of my head.
I am scared.. I don’t think I am pregnant but I don’t know.. I don’t know what to do.. If I was, the guy that would be the father would want nothing to do with the kid I am sure... Or he would deny it being his even though I hadnt had sex with anyone in a year in a half untill him. It is just the kind of person he is.. He used me and cheated on me.. If I miss my period I guess then I will know.. I hope to god I am not.. I am not ready for a kid.. I have been showing some 'signs' I guess.. I feel so lost..
And alone.. I feel like I really have no one.. I can’t tell my parents I only would if I knew for sure I was.. I feel like I got no one to talk to.. And I feel so stupid.. How I could allow myself to be so used. My head is just so confused.. I don’t know anymore
I am going through this right now with my girlfriend, al though she is 100% pregnant.
Your first step is to be 100% sure that you are pregnant. Until you know for sure, stop panicking. Panicking will alter your hormones and cause you to stress and prolong your period and perhaps cause symptoms from “stress” that are similar to pregnancy.
If you haven’t had your period for a week after your scheduled date, I would highly recommend you go to the nearest drug market and buy a pregnancy test. Buy two or three actually and make sure you drink a lot of water and use them in the morning (different days).
IF you are pregnant, make sure you have a plan. Are you going to keep it? If so.. start eating healthy, tell your parents (you need to..) and start reading up hun! If you don’t want to keep it then look for the nearest abortion clinic and meet the doctor before you perform any operation (make sure he is licensed). Bring a trusted friend, (your parents don’t need to know as you are of age to do this on your own).
If you want to have sex, then you have to be aware and accepting of the consequences.
I wont be on here again, but you know my msn Sarah if you want to talk.
Good luck.
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Skeetles wrote:
A lot is going on right now with me, and I just need to vent.. even though I know a lot of you will have nothing nice to say. I need to get it all out of my head.
I am scared.. I don’t think I am pregnant but I don’t know.. I don’t know what to do.. If I was, the guy that would be the father would want nothing to do with the kid I am sure... Or he would deny it being his even though I hadnt had sex with anyone in a year in a half untill him. It is just the kind of person he is.. He used me and cheated on me.. If I miss my period I guess then I will know.. I hope to god I am not.. I am not ready for a kid.. I have been showing some 'signs' I guess.. I feel so lost..
And alone.. I feel like I really have no one.. I can’t tell my parents I only would if I knew for sure I was.. I feel like I got no one to talk to.. And I feel so stupid.. How I could allow myself to be so used. My head is just so confused.. I don’t know anymore
I am going through this right now with my girlfriend, al though she is 100% pregnant.
Your first step is to be 100% sure that you are pregnant. Until you know for sure, stop panicking. Panicking will alter your hormones and cause you to stress and prolong your period and perhaps cause symptoms from “stress” that are similar to pregnancy.
If you haven’t had your period for a week after your scheduled date, I would highly recommend you go to the nearest drug market and buy a pregnancy test. Buy two or three actually and make sure you drink a lot of water and use them in the morning (different days).
IF you are pregnant, make sure you have a plan. Are you going to keep it? If so.. start eating healthy, tell your parents (you need to..) and start reading up hun! If you don’t want to keep it then look for the nearest abortion clinic and meet the doctor before you perform any operation (make sure he is licensed). Bring a trusted friend, (your parents don’t need to know as you are of age to do this on your own).
If you want to have sex, then you have to be aware and accepting of the consequences.
I wont be on here again, but you know my msn Sarah if you want to talk.
Good luck.
I agree, do you really want to bring a child into the world with out a father? Imagine all the hard ships it might go through with only a mother to take care it.
But like Oh Hai said, be sure before you take any imediate action.
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Skeetles wrote:
A lot is going on right now with me, and I just need to vent.. even though I know a lot of you will have nothing nice to say. I need to get it all out of my head.
I am scared.. I don’t think I am pregnant but I don’t know.. I don’t know what to do.. If I was, the guy that would be the father would want nothing to do with the kid I am sure... Or he would deny it being his even though I hadnt had sex with anyone in a year in a half untill him. It is just the kind of person he is.. He used me and cheated on me.. If I miss my period I guess then I will know.. I hope to god I am not.. I am not ready for a kid.. I have been showing some 'signs' I guess.. I feel so lost..
And alone.. I feel like I really have no one.. I can’t tell my parents I only would if I knew for sure I was.. I feel like I got no one to talk to.. And I feel so stupid.. How I could allow myself to be so used. My head is just so confused.. I don’t know anymore
I am going through this right now with my girlfriend, al though she is 100% pregnant.
Your first step is to be 100% sure that you are pregnant. Until you know for sure, stop panicking. Panicking will alter your hormones and cause you to stress and prolong your period and perhaps cause symptoms from “stress” that are similar to pregnancy.
If you haven’t had your period for a week after your scheduled date, I would highly recommend you go to the nearest drug market and buy a pregnancy test. Buy two or three actually and make sure you drink a lot of water and use them in the morning (different days).
IF you are pregnant, make sure you have a plan. Are you going to keep it? If so.. start eating healthy, tell your parents (you need to..) and start reading up hun! If you don’t want to keep it then look for the nearest abortion clinic and meet the doctor before you perform any operation (make sure he is licensed). Bring a trusted friend, (your parents don’t need to know as you are of age to do this on your own).
If you want to have sex, then you have to be aware and accepting of the consequences.
I wont be on here again, but you know my msn Sarah if you want to talk.
Good luck.
I do not remember your SN..
Also.. I do not agree with abortions..
And you are right I need to stop panicking but I cant seem to get it off my mind..
Skeetles wrote:
A lot is going on right now with me, and I just need to vent.. even though I know a lot of you will have nothing nice to say. I need to get it all out of my head.
I am scared.. I don’t think I am pregnant but I don’t know.. I don’t know what to do.. If I was, the guy that would be the father would want nothing to do with the kid I am sure... Or he would deny it being his even though I hadnt had sex with anyone in a year in a half untill him. It is just the kind of person he is.. He used me and cheated on me.. If I miss my period I guess then I will know.. I hope to god I am not.. I am not ready for a kid.. I have been showing some 'signs' I guess.. I feel so lost..
And alone.. I feel like I really have no one.. I can’t tell my parents I only would if I knew for sure I was.. I feel like I got no one to talk to.. And I feel so stupid.. How I could allow myself to be so used. My head is just so confused.. I don’t know anymore
Aww -big hugs for Skeetles- I wish I could be there to help you. Well... the true is that one else loves you more than your parents... Yea I know that it is hard to get the enought courage to tell something like that to your parntes. But asking help like friends or us is not going to help you at all :/. I wish we could help you more. But the true is that most of us and your friends are people that lack of experience and do not know exactly what to do.The best is to confese about your fear to your fathers. No one can help you better than your own family.
And skeetles there is people we care about you and we have lot of things we want to say and do to help.
Girl you are a wonderful person. So I can tell your parents are good persons that will hear you. They probably get shocked by the news, but they are not monsters or anything like that. Yes one does not want to tell this kind of stuff to dad and momy... but as I said the best people to help you is your own family.
Just relax, be prepared but fight against your fears and tell your fathers the true.
This is the best advise I can give you.
I would be an idiot or a moron if I tried to tell you
!! I know what you can do you can go to x place and blablba... no that would be a bad adivse.
The best is to go with your own family.
I hope it helps you.
And keep in mind no matter what you are still a great person and the daugther your parents love.
I will hope with all my strenght everything gets better for you.
Calm down relax close your eyes count from one to ten and think with YOUR HEART how you are going to tell the things to your dads. Do not plan it just let if flow.
By the way people with all respect... do not give ideas like abortion..... that is baaad idea. A kid is a bless and as well doing something like that is terrible for health. You should ask a doctor or study a little bit about that. Skeetles do not ever do that and do not worry everything is going to be fine.
Skeetles wrote:
A lot is going on right now with me, and I just need to vent.. even though I know a lot of you will have nothing nice to say. I need to get it all out of my head.
I am scared.. I don’t think I am pregnant but I don’t know.. I don’t know what to do.. If I was, the guy that would be the father would want nothing to do with the kid I am sure... Or he would deny it being his even though I hadnt had sex with anyone in a year in a half untill him. It is just the kind of person he is.. He used me and cheated on me.. If I miss my period I guess then I will know.. I hope to god I am not.. I am not ready for a kid.. I have been showing some 'signs' I guess.. I feel so lost..
And alone.. I feel like I really have no one.. I can’t tell my parents I only would if I knew for sure I was.. I feel like I got no one to talk to.. And I feel so stupid.. How I could allow myself to be so used. My head is just so confused.. I don’t know anymore
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Skeetles wrote:
A lot is going on right now with me, and I just need to vent.. even though I know a lot of you will have nothing nice to say. I need to get it all out of my head.
I am scared.. I don’t think I am pregnant but I don’t know.. I don’t know what to do.. If I was, the guy that would be the father would want nothing to do with the kid I am sure... Or he would deny it being his even though I hadnt had sex with anyone in a year in a half untill him. It is just the kind of person he is.. He used me and cheated on me.. If I miss my period I guess then I will know.. I hope to god I am not.. I am not ready for a kid.. I have been showing some 'signs' I guess.. I feel so lost..
And alone.. I feel like I really have no one.. I can’t tell my parents I only would if I knew for sure I was.. I feel like I got no one to talk to.. And I feel so stupid.. How I could allow myself to be so used. My head is just so confused.. I don’t know anymore
use the old coat hanger trick, sends babies to heaven faster
What is gods name is wrong with you?????!!!
I do not agree with it, it seems like murder to me, even if it does not count as a human being yet, it still is to me.
MikeUN wrote:
By the way people with all respect... do not give ideas like abortion..... that is baaad idea. A kid is a bless and as well doing something like that is terrible for health. You should ask a doctor or study a little bit about that. Skeetles do not ever do that and do not worry everything is going to be fine.
Would you want to bring in a fatherless basterd child into this world or wouldn’t you? Cause I just don’t know if there’s a heaven or Hell.
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MikeUN wrote:
By the way people with all respect... do not give ideas like abortion..... that is baaad idea. A kid is a bless and as well doing something like that is terrible for health. You should ask a doctor or study a little bit about that. Skeetles do not ever do that and do not worry everything is going to be fine.
Would you want to bring in a fatherless basterd child into this world or wouldn’t you? Cause I just don’t if there’s a heaven or Hell.
A life is a life and I beleive every child deserves a shot at life.
MikeUN wrote:
By the way people with all respect... do not give ideas like abortion..... that is baaad idea. A kid is a bless and as well doing something like that is terrible for health. You should ask a doctor or study a little bit about that. Skeetles do not ever do that and do not worry everything is going to be fine.
Would you want to bring in a fatherless basterd child into this world or wouldn’t you? Cause I just don’t if there’s a heaven or Hell.
A life is a life and I beleive every child deserves a shot at life.
I suppose... just be prepared for the worst and hope for the best!
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Stretch your domain, stretch your own pride, stretch your bastion and watch as they die...
MikeUN wrote:
By the way people with all respect... do not give ideas like abortion..... that is baaad idea. A kid is a bless and as well doing something like that is terrible for health. You should ask a doctor or study a little bit about that. Skeetles do not ever do that and do not worry everything is going to be fine.
Would you want to bring in a fatherless basterd child into this world or wouldn’t you? Cause I just don’t if there’s a heaven or Hell.
A life is a life and I beleive every child deserves a shot at life.
I suppose... just be prepared for the worst and hope for the best!
MikeUN wrote:
By the way people with all respect... do not give ideas like abortion..... that is baaad idea. A kid is a bless and as well doing something like that is terrible for health. You should ask a doctor or study a little bit about that. Skeetles do not ever do that and do not worry everything is going to be fine.
Would you want to bring in a fatherless basterd child into this world or wouldn’t you? Cause I just don’t know if there’s a heaven or Hell.
Dude father or non, heaven or non heaven. Everyone has the right to live. And Skeetles is a nice person. I am sure she could be a great mother.
I have a friend that his father abandoned her when she was still a baby. Her mother raised her alone. And I can tell she is one of the most wonderful persons I have ever known. And now she has a boyfriend and lot of friends. I can tell she is happy.
Even if you have a husband having a kid is not easy. WIthout a father sure it is harder but not impossible and I belive in Skeetles. I belive she can do it.
Skeetles wrote:
A lot is going on right now with me, and I just need to vent.. even though I know a lot of you will have nothing nice to say. I need to get it all out of my head.
I am scared.. I don’t think I am pregnant but I don’t know.. I don’t know what to do.. If I was, the guy that would be the father would want nothing to do with the kid I am sure... Or he would deny it being his even though I hadnt had sex with anyone in a year in a half untill him. It is just the kind of person he is.. He used me and cheated on me.. If I miss my period I guess then I will know.. I hope to god I am not.. I am not ready for a kid.. I have been showing some 'signs' I guess.. I feel so lost..
And alone.. I feel like I really have no one.. I can’t tell my parents I only would if I knew for sure I was.. I feel like I got no one to talk to.. And I feel so stupid.. How I could allow myself to be so used. My head is just so confused.. I don’t know anymore
use the old coat hanger trick, sends babies to heaven faster
LALZ! LIKE MAN, THATS FUCKED! Might as well have said just abourt the sucker.
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MikeUN wrote:
By the way people with all respect... do not give ideas like abortion..... that is baaad idea. A kid is a bless and as well doing something like that is terrible for health. You should ask a doctor or study a little bit about that. Skeetles do not ever do that and do not worry everything is going to be fine.
Would you want to bring in a fatherless basterd child into this world or wouldn’t you? Cause I just don’t if there’s a heaven or Hell.
A life is a life and I beleive every child deserves a shot at life.
I suppose... just be prepared for the worst and hope for the best!
I know having a kid is not easy...
I find it kind of sick knowing that you could take your own childs life before it even began..
MikeUN wrote:
By the way people with all respect... do not give ideas like abortion..... that is baaad idea. A kid is a bless and as well doing something like that is terrible for health. You should ask a doctor or study a little bit about that. Skeetles do not ever do that and do not worry everything is going to be fine.
Would you want to bring in a fatherless basterd child into this world or wouldn’t you? Cause I just don’t if there’s a heaven or Hell.
A life is a life and I beleive every child deserves a shot at life.
I suppose... just be prepared for the worst and hope for the best!
I know having a kid is not easy...
Do what you like, but remember this... somtimes, the parents are the ones who have to bury their children.
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