My roomate at my new dorm school has decided to switch rooms with one of his friends due to my actions. Apparently, Im terrible at being a roomate and are personalities don’t fit together.
He also posted all of my mistakes on Facebook, before talking to me, so.........Im not sure about that one. He didn’t put my name there at least.
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“When in doubt, assume the person is undead and kill him."
I put my alarm on early and kept hitting snooze. Im really deep sleeper, while he is a light sleeper. He never told me that it was bothering him and he was losing sleep over it.
I also am scatterbrained, and I lost the key to my room.
I accidently blocked his side of the closet.
I talk to myself sometimes on accident.
The mouse for my laptop makes an annoying click sound, that I didn’t really notice.
I accidentaly forgot to close the door while going to the bathroom.
And some other things.
Im apologized to him, but I still feel guilty. Also, I asked him a question about getting books, He said they were close, but I went to check anyways. He said he got a vibe of hard headiness from me. I feel ashamed of my lack of social etiquite.
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“When in doubt, assume the person is undead and kill him."
Blame the school for assigning you and your former roommate in the same room without looking over the application carefully. (Assuming you filled the roommate preference form with honesty)
Shadow Archon wrote:
I put my alarm on early and kept hitting snooze. Im really deep sleeper, while he is a light sleeper. He never told me that it was bothering him and he was losing sleep over it.
I also am scatterbrained, and I lost the key to my room.
I accidently blocked his side of the closet.
I talk to myself sometimes on accident.
The mouse for my laptop makes an annoying click sound, that I didn’t really notice.
I accidentaly forgot to close the door while going to the bathroom.
And some other things.
Im apologized to him, but I still feel guilty. Also, I asked him a question about getting books, He said they were close, but I went to check anyways. He said he got a vibe of hard headiness from me. I feel ashamed of my lack of social etiquite.
Wow your roommate sounds really...like he was spoiled too much somewhere in early life. Ok I can see how the alarm thing would be annoying if you’re a light sleeper. But I’m sure if he had mentioned it to you, you would have found some way of working it out (such as setting your alarm a little later and not hitting snooze).
As for the rest...people do dumb things by accident. There are a lot worse qualities in a roommate (like one of my housemates 1st year who would blast his music at 3 am).
If you’re sharing a space with someone both parties have to learn to give and take. And it sounds like he’s not willing to compromise the least bit.
Shadow Archon wrote:
I put my alarm on early and kept hitting snooze. Im really deep sleeper, while he is a light sleeper. He never told me that it was bothering him and he was losing sleep over it.
I also am scatterbrained, and I lost the key to my room.
I accidently blocked his side of the closet.
I talk to myself sometimes on accident.
The mouse for my laptop makes an annoying click sound, that I didn’t really notice.
I accidentaly forgot to close the door while going to the bathroom.
And some other things.
Im apologized to him, but I still feel guilty. Also, I asked him a question about getting books, He said they were close, but I went to check anyways. He said he got a vibe of hard headiness from me. I feel ashamed of my lack of social etiquite.
Wow your roommate sounds really...like he was spoiled too much somewhere in early life. Ok I can see how the alarm thing would be annoying if you’re a light sleeper. But I’m sure if he had mentioned it to you, you would have found some way of working it out (such as setting your alarm a little later and not hitting snooze).
As for the rest...people do dumb things by accident. There are a lot worse qualities in a roommate (like one of my housemates 1st year who would blast his music at 3 am).
If you’re sharing a space with someone both parties have to learn to give and take. And it sounds like he’s not willing to compromise the least bit.