Proud 2 be well Me wrote:
Theres this girl in my class. She has a boyfriend, my friend likes her and i do. She flirts with the others but when im with different guyz she talks to me not them then she smiles at me and laughs for no reason. When i turn around because i feel like someones watching me, I turn around and see her looking at me then she turns away. When the teacher told us who we had to sit next to the next week she looked at me and when her name was called it wasnt my name called with her she. umm went sad. and dropped her head in her hands.Does she like me
Now im screwed because 2day i found out im not in her class which really pissed me off but i kept asking my friends if they’d swich classes with me so i could be in her class but they all said no.
What should i do. *bangs head against wall*
Last edited 12 Dec 2007 01:06 am by Proud 2 be well Me
Rogue wrote:
WHat about if a girl just always smiles at me a lot and says hi...
But I shouldn’t care, I have a girlfriend.
i would first think if me and my girl are geting along right now if not maybe thats your mined telling you its time to move on to some one els but i dont know if thats hoe you feel
I like my current girlfriend but as she’s 3000 miles away i need to make out with someone. lol. i really wouldn’t cheat on her, but still would be nice to know if anyone likes me.
oh man i know exactly how you feel theres a girl at my school always nice always hanging out with me being real nice to eachother and i can always catch eye contact with her make sure lay ypur head down and watch her if she looks at you alot then she probaly does because i always see her taking short glances at me well wish you luck man
Hi, I’m kinda having some issues with my heart and head right now -.- .....I’m a 17yr old guy who’s a Jr. in High School and I’ve known this girl since freshman year. She’s smart, funny, has amazing eyes, and the word beautiful would be an understatement to describe her. Now even though I’ve known her since my freshman year, we’ve only really become friends this year because she’s in my 5th period + I see her around school a lot more. Now you know the basics of my interestingly gay dilemma. My problem is that I don’t know if she fully feels the way I feel about her. I constantly flirt with her and she flirts back, when we see each other in the hallways or outside on our way to class we always hug each other (except she normally runs up to me to hug me), and she calls me babe or baby a lot. Now I’m sure anyone reading this is thinking she likes me (or at least I’m pretty sure) but then I get some signs that would say different.
1 -Talks about how much she misses or cared about her ex a bit.
2 -I’ve tried to make plans with her saying something simple like “Whatcha gonna do this weekend? Cause if you don’t have plans we should hangout." but end up finding out she does have plans or I end up getting screwed out of going anywhere...(and I’ve tried to hang with her quiet a few times -.- but consider it Murphy’s law by now)
3 -It seems (not saying she does) but it seems like every time I try to talk to her about “us” she seems to some how jump into a different conversation with someone else, or one of her friends will interrupt me before I really get a chance to say anything. (again Murphy’s law)
I just need some opinions, both male and female, because I’m at this point stuck between a rock and a hard place.
That’s the issue with my heart, that I’m having (and a long and annoying issue it is) but the one with my head is more about the fact that I’ve had some really bad relationships in the past with immature girls who couldn’t even began to comprehend what the words, “I love you” truly mean, and yet would still say it as if it was the first words they could say. Now I’m not able to even fully put myself in a relationship without questioning if they really do like me, and I’m done wasting my time and my love on people who don’t even want to try and be honest with themselves or me.
SO WHAT DO I DO!!! If anyone reading this has some advice or an opinion on the situation, I would love to hear it, because right now my heart and head are at an impasse.
Thanks to anyone for taking the time to read this long ass sob story of mine lol and if you do have some advice for me or just want to say something you can reach me at www.myspace.com/llamaisthe1 just in case I forget about this, and thanks to anyone for taking the time to help me out.
Yeah I left out quiet a bit of what I was trying to say when I accidentally sent it without pre-reading it, but it’s already long as hell, so I won’t really add anymore. The point is we’ll have moments where she wants to be right next to me just resting her head on my lap, or avoiding me all together, and I’m tired of trying to get my brain sack to figure out if she feels the way I do, so I know that I won’t be wasting my time or my love on someone who keeps me constantly thinking about her and how much I want to be with her...
So if anyone feels like they can help, or has something they want to say then please, by all means, reply to this message, Whether it’s on here or on myspace.
I think she likes you as really has a crush on you,because my mom told me what girls would do if she likes you,if she teases you or something thats a good sign of that she likes you as a crush,but if she asks you like am I a good friend,that means she likes you cuz she will always try her best to impress you,yo dude,believe me I am an expert
Okay, This is what I’ve learned.
If you like a girl, never become her best friend. If you are the female’s “Best Friend” this is not a good sign. Becoming this figure usually means she used to like you but now she is just friends with you. The way to win her is to stop being the nice-guy best friend, and start being the cool guy she wants to be with. If you stop being best friends for awhile, then start talking to her, she will probably fall for you.
Rogue wrote:
I like my current girlfriend but as she’s 3000 miles away i need to make out with someone. lol. i really wouldn’t cheat on her, but still would be nice to know if anyone likes me.
PIMPMuda fucka!!!
--- "It feels great when alot of losers are around.."
Last edited 24 Dec 2007 11:17 pm by .R.E.A.L.l.T.Y.
dude... She doesnt like u. U cant be a girls friend and expect that everything will fall into place. Just because she thinks ur a better friend than some other dude means that u are less threatening. U have to be threatening. Show her that ur the alpha dog and stop making her think ur not into her that way because i guarantee thats what shes thinking
Yeah so I got tired of all the games and flat out told her everything....and now were going out. I’m a fucking moron is all I can say, because I’ve been stressing out about it for nothing. She’s felt the same way I have, but didn’t want to break the friendship we had, so she never did anything about it....sounds like the same thing I did lol but anyways thanks for the help and advice, and coming from someone who has probably felt or thought about the same things you have. DON’T WAIT!!! The girl/guy you want probably feels the same way you do, and if they don’t, what’s the worst that is gonna happen? They’ll say no, end of story. So take that chance and just go for it, because trust me the feeling is amazing!
Yep there is a girl at my school that i do everything with and I went out with her once and she broke up wit me but yet she flirts with me. I asked her out again and she said no. wat should I do?
ok guys, listen at your age, all this is normal. Girls are gonna toy around with you, that’s what they do. They like the attention, doesn’t really mean that they like you, they like your attention. And guys, well most guys are dogs. I’m a guy, and I’m not saying what I’m like, but notice how I said most guys, not all. A girl will act like that because she’s in constant battle with other girls for guys attention, nothing more. In school, it’s nuthing more than crushes, which is nice and all, but it’s only temporary. If it lasts, it’s a really cool thing though.
OMEGA 088 wrote:
Yep there is a girl at my school that i do everything with and I went out with her once and she broke up wit me but yet she flirts with me. I asked her out again and she said no. wat should I do?
ask her why. and then if she doesnt have a good reason tell her to stop flirting with you
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