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05 Sep 2006 08:50 pm
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That was profound neopet-999 - nice to see something like that from you smiley Although I wouldn’t say “every woman will get the life she has dreamed about..." - emphasis mine - because that isn’t always possible. However, I think every woman (and every man) should strive towards the life he or she dreams of.

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07 Sep 2006 01:44 pm
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Someone said to me today that every1 is entited to 1 mistake. Does anyone agree with that? Not saying that I do just asking.

What about the couples who get through stuff like this together though.

I give up

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07 Sep 2006 02:12 pm
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No christine . Nooott worth it .

Ask yourself if you deserve to get beaten ?

If you agree then sure , get back with the guy and what not .

But seriously .. have enough respect for yourself to know you don’t deserve that .

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07 Sep 2006 02:20 pm
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Everyone make’s a mistake at some point in life! Some mistakes are bigger than others. My own opinion is that we all deserve a second chance, but sometime we don’t always get what we want! Hey just my opinion! And like always, Opinions on here count for nothing. Have a nice day smiley

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07 Sep 2006 02:22 pm
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The Chosen Cunt wrote: Everyone make’s a mistake at some point in life! Some mistakes are bigger than others. My own opinion is that we all deserve a second chance, but sometime we don’t always get what we want! Hey just my opinion! And like always, Opinions on here count for nothing. Have a nice day smiley


Yes ofcourse everyone makes mistakes at some point in their life .
Whats she saying by taking him back ? He’ll probably do it again .
Guys who hit girls are scummmmm

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07 Sep 2006 02:30 pm
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GOOOGLE_QUEEN wrote:
The Chosen Cunt wrote: Everyone make’s a mistake at some point in life! Some mistakes are bigger than others. My own opinion is that we all deserve a second chance, but sometime we don’t always get what we want! Hey just my opinion! And like always, Opinions on here count for nothing. Have a nice day smiley


Yes ofcourse everyone makes mistakes at some point in their life .
Whats she saying by taking him back ? He’ll probably do it again .
Guys who hit girls are scummmmm




Yes he is a piece of shit! And it will serve the scum bag right if she don’t take him back. But like they say - LOVE CONQUERS ALL! Oh! And IT’S A FUCKED UP WORLD! LOL - She can listen to all the advice she is given! But at the end of the day, if she still loves that piece of shit, SHE WILL TAKE HIM BACK! LOL if my gurl gave me a hiding (IF) I would most probably take her back. WHY! Because i love her smileyBut she’s a woman! Known fact: THEY CANT FIGHT lol smiley

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07 Sep 2006 02:32 pm
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The Chosen Cunt wrote:
GOOOGLE_QUEEN wrote:
The Chosen Cunt wrote: Everyone make’s a mistake at some point in life! Some mistakes are bigger than others. My own opinion is that we all deserve a second chance, but sometime we don’t always get what we want! Hey just my opinion! And like always, Opinions on here count for nothing. Have a nice day smiley


Yes ofcourse everyone makes mistakes at some point in their life .
Whats she saying by taking him back ? He’ll probably do it again .
Guys who hit girls are scummmmm




Yes he is a piece of shit! And it will serve the scum bag right if she don’t take him back. But like they say - LOVE CONQUERS ALL! Oh! And IT’S A FUCKED UP WORLD! LOL - She can listen to all the advice she is given! But at the end of the day, if she still loves that piece of shit, SHE WILL TAKE HIM BACK! LOL if my gurl gave me a hiding (IF) I would most probably take her back. WHY! Because i love her smileyBut she’s a woman! Known fact: THEY CANT FIGHT lol smiley


Them’s fightin' words lol. Seriously though - don’t underestimate a woman.

The ONLY reason a guy would have the right to hit a woman is if it were in self-defense (i.e. she was beating him up). Otherwise he has no excuse.

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07 Sep 2006 02:38 pm
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The Chosen Cunt wrote:
GOOOGLE_QUEEN wrote:
The Chosen Cunt wrote: Everyone make’s a mistake at some point in life! Some mistakes are bigger than others. My own opinion is that we all deserve a second chance, but sometime we don’t always get what we want! Hey just my opinion! And like always, Opinions on here count for nothing. Have a nice day smiley


Yes ofcourse everyone makes mistakes at some point in their life .
Whats she saying by taking him back ? He’ll probably do it again .
Guys who hit girls are scummmmm




Yes he is a piece of shit! And it will serve the scum bag right if she don’t take him back. But like they say - LOVE CONQUERS ALL! Oh! And IT’S A FUCKED UP WORLD! LOL - She can listen to all the advice she is given! But at the end of the day, if she still loves that piece of shit, SHE WILL TAKE HIM BACK! LOL if my gurl gave me a hiding (IF) I would most probably take her back. WHY! Because i love her smileyBut she’s a woman! Known fact: THEY CANT FIGHT lol smiley


Yes love conquers all...

but LOVE IS BLIND TOO .


.. and if your girl cheated on you would you just take her back ? Yes right ? Because you love her ? And she keeps doing it then what ? Put up with it years to come simply because you love her ?

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07 Sep 2006 02:40 pm
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Etain wrote:
The Chosen Cunt wrote:
GOOOGLE_QUEEN wrote:
The Chosen Cunt wrote: Everyone make’s a mistake at some point in life! Some mistakes are bigger than others. My own opinion is that we all deserve a second chance, but sometime we don’t always get what we want! Hey just my opinion! And like always, Opinions on here count for nothing. Have a nice day smiley


Yes ofcourse everyone makes mistakes at some point in their life .
Whats she saying by taking him back ? He’ll probably do it again .
Guys who hit girls are scummmmm




Yes he is a piece of shit! And it will serve the scum bag right if she don’t take him back. But like they say - LOVE CONQUERS ALL! Oh! And IT’S A FUCKED UP WORLD! LOL - She can listen to all the advice she is given! But at the end of the day, if she still loves that piece of shit, SHE WILL TAKE HIM BACK! LOL if my gurl gave me a hiding (IF) I would most probably take her back. WHY! Because i love her smileyBut she’s a woman! Known fact: THEY CANT FIGHT lol smiley


Them’s fightin' words lol. Seriously though - don’t underestimate a woman.

The ONLY reason a guy would have the right to hit a woman is if it were in self-defense (i.e. she was beating him up). Otherwise he has no excuse.



LOL! I’m not saying what he done was right! MEN SHOULDN’T HIT WOMEN FULL STOP! If she love’s this scum bag, Then she already knows what she’s gunna do! She just want’s to feel better about her choice that she’s gunna make! And i’ll tell you this! SHE WILL GIVE HIM A SECOND CHANCE. I already know that! smiley

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.. yes that being a pure example of “love is blind” .. or just stupidity .

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07 Sep 2006 02:51 pm
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GOOOGLE_QUEEN wrote: .. yes that being a pure example of “love is blind” .. or just stupidity .



LMAO I can’t argue with that! So i’m not even gunna try! smiley

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07 Sep 2006 02:53 pm
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lol ahh its good to be good wink -joking... smiley

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07 Sep 2006 03:18 pm
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The Chosen Cunt wrote:
Etain wrote:
The Chosen Cunt wrote:
GOOOGLE_QUEEN wrote:
The Chosen Cunt wrote: Everyone make’s a mistake at some point in life! Some mistakes are bigger than others. My own opinion is that we all deserve a second chance, but sometime we don’t always get what we want! Hey just my opinion! And like always, Opinions on here count for nothing. Have a nice day smiley


Yes ofcourse everyone makes mistakes at some point in their life .
Whats she saying by taking him back ? He’ll probably do it again .
Guys who hit girls are scummmmm




Yes he is a piece of shit! And it will serve the scum bag right if she don’t take him back. But like they say - LOVE CONQUERS ALL! Oh! And IT’S A FUCKED UP WORLD! LOL - She can listen to all the advice she is given! But at the end of the day, if she still loves that piece of shit, SHE WILL TAKE HIM BACK! LOL if my gurl gave me a hiding (IF) I would most probably take her back. WHY! Because i love her smileyBut she’s a woman! Known fact: THEY CANT FIGHT lol smiley


Them’s fightin' words lol. Seriously though - don’t underestimate a woman.

The ONLY reason a guy would have the right to hit a woman is if it were in self-defense (i.e. she was beating him up). Otherwise he has no excuse.



LOL! I’m not saying what he done was right! MEN SHOULDN’T HIT WOMEN FULL STOP! If she love’s this scum bag, Then she already knows what she’s gunna do! She just want’s to feel better about her choice that she’s gunna make! And i’ll tell you this! SHE WILL GIVE HIM A SECOND CHANCE. I already know that! smiley


There are some cases where the woman needs a good, hard, reality smack. Take my experience for example:

My ex was what they call a “black out drunk”. She only drank on weekends, however, when she did drink... watch out buddy! She got very, very violent and everybody knew this. Her family, my family and all our friends know how she truly is and have seen her wailing her fists at me on many occasions as I held her down to the ground. In fact when she’s sober, you would never guess she’s a violent person or even drinks at all which is very deceiving when she lies and tells all her little friends I beat her up when it’s not true.

One night she was very intoxicated and started digging up the past, pushing my buttons and would not let it go. She basically egged herself on in her own mind which caused her to get violent. Next thing you know she’s throwing fists at me like the dumb drunk bitch that she is! I let it slide and the neighbor held her back. Well she calms down then out of nowhere starts throwing the patio chairs at me. She missed of course then behind my back, she jump kicked me and hit my lower back which hurt because I wasn’t expecting it. I turned around then bitch slapped her soo freaking hard I think it knocked her out. She snapped out of it and called the police but by then her mom showed up because I called her to come take my son (he did not need to see any of this). Well she told the police I hit her over and over with a frying pan and did a Mortal Combat video game move on her. Guess what? The police laughed at her and took her ass to jail. I was the only one with evidence of abuse on my body and I admitted I slapped her but the cops knew from her state of mind and intoxication that she was obviously the problem.

When it came time for her to go to court, her own mother requested to the judge that she stays in jail for 60 days then go to an in-house alcohol rehab center so she learns her lesson! The judge did just that wink

Oh, and just so you know, I begged the prosecuting attorney not to press charges. The state did however because there was a child present. It was beyond my control. But I do have full custody of my boy and we’re doing great.

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07 Sep 2006 03:46 pm
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My advise to Christine:

If he’s truly sorry and you two love each other... Forgive and live on.
If it should ever happen again... Know that it won’t stop and leave. But be honest with yourself and understand “who” the problem really is. In a lot of these cases the man is usually the one who takes the fall while the woman gets away with murder. wink

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Xtrm Liability wrote: My advise to Christine:

If he’s truly sorry and you two love each other... Forgive and live on.
If it should ever happen again... Know that it won’t stop and leave. But be honest with yourself and understand “who” the problem really is. In a lot of these cases the man is usually the one who takes the fall while the woman gets away with murder. wink


and what if it does happen again ?? And he was drinking extra extra that night and oops, accidently throws her down the stairs , breaks her neck and she be then paralysed for life ? Would it be worth giving him that second chance ?

How will she know if he is TRULY sorry ??

Sure give him a second chance , but him getting away with it this easily will not tell what he is capable of doing if , and its more than likely , it happens again .


Xtrm - oi that sucks about that girl . She had no right to treat you like that . Now she was the one abusing you . Sounds like she kinda deserved that slap . Now where does she live so that I can beat her ass ? haha !

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07 Sep 2006 04:17 pm
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GOOOGLE_QUEEN wrote:
Xtrm Liability wrote: My advise to Christine:

If he’s truly sorry and you two love each other... Forgive and live on.
If it should ever happen again... Know that it won’t stop and leave. But be honest with yourself and understand “who” the problem really is. In a lot of these cases the man is usually the one who takes the fall while the woman gets away with murder. wink


and what if it does happen again ?? And he was drinking extra extra that night and oops, accidently throws her down the stairs , breaks her back and she be then paralysed for life ?

How will she know if he is TRULY sorry ??

Sure give him a second chance , but him getting away with it this easily will not tell what he is capable of doing if , and its more than likely , when it happens again .


Xtrm - oi that sucks about that girl . She had no right to treat you like that . Now she was the one abusing you . Sounds like she kinda deserved that slap . Now where does she live so that I can beat her ass ? haha !



LOL check the Davis County Jail. Haha

Well, you’re right in a way because I absolutely do NOT think it’s okay to close fist and slug a woman to where it would give her a black eye. That’s just chicken shit to me but an open hand slap is sometimes deserved. I’m not saying it’s okay for guys to go around pimp slapping ho’s but it’s not right for the woman to feel the same either. Also, if a woman knows she could possibly get her ass beat she shouldn’t be egging the situation on and pushing the man’s buttons. They both need to take a walk or separate and cool off for a while.

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LOL check the Davis County Jail. Haha

Well, you’re right in a way because I absolutely do NOT think it’s okay to close fist and slug a woman to where it would give her a black eye. That’s just chicken shit to me but an open hand slap is sometimes deserved. I’m not saying it’s okay for guys to go around pimp slapping ho’s but it’s not right for the woman to feel the same either. Also, if a woman knows she could possibly get her ass beat she shouldn’t be egging the situation on and pushing the man’s buttons. They both need to take a walk or separate and cool off for a while.


Its not okay for guys to go around pimp slapping the hos ?? How else are they supposed to keep them in line then ? haha

Yeah well theres times where theres not even egging on or pushing buttons... someone could drink and turn violent and thats that ! But even if there was buttons being pushed thats still not an excuse for a guy beating their girlfriend up..

You said that everyone knew that she turned violent when she was drunk .. so I spose then a small part of you knew what you were getting yourself into , right ?

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GOOOGLE_QUEEN wrote:

You said that everyone knew that she turned violent when she was drunk .. so I spose then a small part of you knew what you were getting yourself into , right ?


Well I’m a guy and I can take a few hits from her (unless she starts throwing chairs, forks, kitchen appliances, etc.). I actually felt embarrassed to say my girlfriend is beating my ass. LOL. No but seriously, guys really don’t know what to do in this situation to save from embarrassment. But yes I did egg her on a few times because she was completely wrong and it’s hard to stop and cool off in a heated argument sometimes. Basically it’s the alcohol that makes people say things they normally wouldn’t and it heats up fights.

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Xtrm Liability wrote:
GOOOGLE_QUEEN wrote:

You said that everyone knew that she turned violent when she was drunk .. so I spose then a small part of you knew what you were getting yourself into , right ?


Well I’m a guy and I can take a few hits from her (unless she starts throwing chairs, forks, kitchen appliances, etc.). I actually felt embarrassed to say my girlfriend is beating my ass. LOL. No but seriously, guys really don’t know what to do in this situation to save from embarrassment. But yes I did egg her on a few times because she was completely wrong and it’s hard to stop and cool off in a heated argument sometimes. Basically it’s the alcohol that makes people say things they normally wouldn’t and it heats up fights.



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Xtrm Liability wrote: Well I’m a guy and I can take a few hits from her


I laughed at that.. “im a guy” im macho wink haha..


Xtrm Liability wrote: Basically it’s the alcohol that makes people say things they normally wouldn’t and it heats up fights.


Yes thats true .. and yet people still drink . They say ones true character shines through when they’re drunk .

In a way you could be thankful that she didn’t beat up your son .

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GOOOGLE_QUEEN wrote: I laughed at that.. “im a guy” im macho wink haha..


Well it’s true in a way. I obviously know a 115 pound woman is not going to do much damage. Typically men are larger and stronger then women (note: typically). But you would be surprised how much damage a little woman can do with the use of other objects lying around.

And no, she would never touch my boy.

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