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07 Sep 2006 04:46 pm
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GOOOGLE_QUEEN wrote: I laughed at that.. “im a guy” im macho wink haha..


Well it’s true in a way. I obviously know a 115 pound woman is not going to do much damage. Typically men are larger and stronger then women (note: typically). But you would be surprised how much damage a little woman can do with the use of other objects lying around.

And no, she would never touch my boy.


No I totally agree with you .
When people talk about abuse in relationships people generally think the guy beats up the girl .
I am sure it happens alot to guys but they are afraid to speak up . And in that situation , the minute they defend themselves from the crazed girl she will go off and tell everyone you abused her . Typically they would believe her . - but not in your case thank goodness .

No seriously , girls can get bitchy and have some wild cat fights . Pretty scary stuff ..
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07 Sep 2006 04:50 pm
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You know what I never got? Women go on and on fighting for equal rights. They want to be men’s equals. Equal wages, equal this, equal that. But yet when it comes to the whole fighting thing they get special treatment. Even if a woman abused a man in a relationship she wouldn’t get that bad of a punishment as if it was the man who abused the woman. Not to mention there’s the whole “don’t hit girls” thing.
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07 Sep 2006 04:57 pm
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Atresac wrote: You know what I never got? Women go on and on fighting for equal rights. They want to be men’s equals. Equal wages, equal this, equal that. But yet when it comes to the whole fighting thing they get special treatment. Even if a woman abused a man in a relationship she wouldn’t get that bad of a punishment as if it was the man who abused the woman. Not to mention there’s the whole “don’t hit girls” thing.


yeah thats true ... but who is it that wants equal rights ?? Not alllll women ..
Its just how it is .. its the nature between male and female . No matter if the females don’t like it , males will always have this natural dominance of them (excpet if they’re gay). I mean since adam and eve it has always been like that .. him providing for her and what not .

Its not like you’re going to go up to your girlfriend , give her a black eye and be like, “here punch me back , we will be even !! We have even rights !" Because im pretty sure she wouldn’t want to be in a relationship like that .

I believe relationships are supposed to be loving .. with absolutely no violence . There shouldn’t be any excuse for the guy beating up the girl , or the girl beating up the guy .
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07 Sep 2006 04:58 pm
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GOOOGLE_QUEEN wrote:
Xtrm Liability wrote:
GOOOGLE_QUEEN wrote: I laughed at that.. “im a guy” im macho wink haha..


Well it’s true in a way. I obviously know a 115 pound woman is not going to do much damage. Typically men are larger and stronger then women (note: typically). But you would be surprised how much damage a little woman can do with the use of other objects lying around.

And no, she would never touch my boy.


No I totally agree with you .
When people talk about abuse in relationships people generally think the guy beats up the girl .
I am sure it happens alot to guys but they are afraid to speak up . And in that situation , the minute they defend themselves from the crazed girl she will go off and tell everyone you abused her . Typically they would believe her . - but not in your case thank goodness .

No seriously , girls can get bitchy and have some wild cat fights . Pretty scary stuff ..



Well in my case she had a flawed story, many witnesses, physical evidence, and she’s the dumbass that called the cops and SHE went to jail. Anyhow, in Christine’s case, I think if they’ve been together for 2 years and this is the first time it happened (also there’s ALLWAYS two sides of the story) then I think they should give it another try if they truly love each other. 2 years is a long time and basically that’s the man he is with one exception of being drunk one night and lost control. I’m sure it won’t happen again and if she leaves him, who knows what could have been.
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Xtrm Liability wrote:
GOOOGLE_QUEEN wrote:
Xtrm Liability wrote:
GOOOGLE_QUEEN wrote: I laughed at that.. “im a guy” im macho wink haha..


Well it’s true in a way. I obviously know a 115 pound woman is not going to do much damage. Typically men are larger and stronger then women (note: typically). But you would be surprised how much damage a little woman can do with the use of other objects lying around.

And no, she would never touch my boy.


No I totally agree with you .
When people talk about abuse in relationships people generally think the guy beats up the girl .
I am sure it happens alot to guys but they are afraid to speak up . And in that situation , the minute they defend themselves from the crazed girl she will go off and tell everyone you abused her . Typically they would believe her . - but not in your case thank goodness .

No seriously , girls can get bitchy and have some wild cat fights . Pretty scary stuff ..



Well in my case she had a flawed story, many witnesses, physical evidence, and she’s the dumbass that called the cops and SHE went to jail. Anyhow, in Christine’s case, I think if they’ve been together for 2 years and this is the first time it happened (also there’s ALLWAYS two sides of the story) then I think they should give it another try if they truly love each other. 2 years is a long time and basically that’s the man he is with one exception of being drunk one night and lost control. I’m sure it won’t happen again and if she leaves him, who knows what could have been.



Yes there are two sides to every story... two sides to the coin . I wonder what his story is ?

“oh ya i was drunk so I beat her up”
.. regardless of his story there shouldn’t be any excuses for him beating up his girlfriend of two years .

Yes you’re right .. two years is a long time to be with someone .. so why did he beat her up ? Wouldn’t that be the last thing you’d ever want to do after being in a realtionship with someone for two years ? Thats not a way to show someone you truly love them ..

What could have been ? who knows .. they could get married , then he could be doing it all again and then she would have a even harder time getting out of it .
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07 Sep 2006 05:07 pm
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or even wors she could have kids with this guy, and they could be witnesses to the violance or even seperation hurts alote for a child to
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mimi38 wrote: or even wors she could have kids with this guy, and they could be witnesses to the violance or even seperation hurts alote for a child to


Yeah or he could get high and beat the kids up for no apparent reason either .. wonder what his excuse would be then too ? What .. “ohh whhopps , sorry . "
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07 Sep 2006 05:15 pm
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GOOOGLE_QUEEN wrote:
Yes there are two sides to every story... two sides to the coin . I wonder what his story is ?

“oh ya i was drunk so I beat her up”
.. regardless of his story there shouldn’t be any excuses for him beating up his girlfriend of two years .

Yes you’re right .. two years is a long time to be with someone .. so why did he beat her up ? Wouldn’t that be the last thing you’d ever want to do after being in a realtionship with someone for two years ? Thats not a way to show someone you truly love them ..

What could have been ? who knows .. they could get married , then he could be doing it all again and then she would have a even harder time getting out of it .


I say two sides to every story because she could have been egging the situation on, really getting under his skin and pushing all the right buttons. Maybe he was very stressed and didn’t need to deal with a drunk psychotic woman constantly barking like a rabid f*cking Terrier. Perhaps she was hitting him knowing she’s “the woman” and she “allowed” to do that. I’m not saying this is what happened but rather stating possibilities.

I don’t care what you say... Male or Female, a “person” can only take so much before they snap. And yes 2 years is a long time incident free.
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PUSSY!!!!
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07 Sep 2006 05:18 pm
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GOOOGLE_QUEEN wrote:
mimi38 wrote: or even wors she could have kids with this guy, and they could be witnesses to the violance or even seperation hurts alote for a child to


Yeah or he could get high and beat the kids up for no apparent reason either .. wonder what his excuse would be then too ? What .. “ohh whhopps , sorry . “


You’re too quick to judge and don’t know the whole story.
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07 Sep 2006 05:24 pm
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i guess, i do not know the whole story, but still i am not saying she shouldent give a chance i am just saying to be sure before there are kids involved
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07 Sep 2006 05:33 pm
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Xtrm Liability wrote:
GOOOGLE_QUEEN wrote:
Yes there are two sides to every story... two sides to the coin . I wonder what his story is ?

“oh ya i was drunk so I beat her up”
.. regardless of his story there shouldn’t be any excuses for him beating up his girlfriend of two years .

Yes you’re right .. two years is a long time to be with someone .. so why did he beat her up ? Wouldn’t that be the last thing you’d ever want to do after being in a realtionship with someone for two years ? Thats not a way to show someone you truly love them ..

What could have been ? who knows .. they could get married , then he could be doing it all again and then she would have a even harder time getting out of it .


I say two sides to every story because she could have been egging the situation on, really getting under his skin and pushing all the right buttons. Maybe he was very stressed and didn’t need to deal with a drunk psychotic woman barking like a rabidd dog constantly. Perhaps she was hitting him knowing she’s “the woman” and she “allowed” to do that. I’m not saying this is what happened but rather stating possibilities.

I don’t care what you say... Male or Female, a “person” can only take so much before they snap. And yes 2 years is a long time incident free.



No I know what you mean though .

But there just shouldn’t be an excuse .

thats the bottom line .

So what if she was egging him on , so what if she was throwing crap at him , so what if she was pissing him off .. there just isn’t any excuse . - for him or her .


Ah well its her decision anyway .

I’m not too quick to judge really .. maybe Im so against this because my sister was in a physcially abusive realtionship and it killed me to see her go through it . Ofcourse he was drunk too ..
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Damn drunk people. Now where did I set my beer. Haha
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yes i’ll drink to that .. cheers !
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GOOOGLE_QUEEN wrote: yes i’ll drink to that .. cheers !


Cheers mate smiley

(will you be?) lol
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lol ... (you never know..wink)
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GOOOGLE_QUEEN wrote: lol ... (you never know..wink)


lol I just find it funny calling someone “mate”.


Mate.

lol *Laughs like an immature little boy*
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Xtrm Liability wrote:
GOOOGLE_QUEEN wrote: lol ... (you never know..wink)


lol I just find it funny calling someone “mate”.


Mate.

lol *Laughs like an immature little boy*
whats up....howya doin mate?
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Well I gotta go.

C-ya M8

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