| 08 Sep 2006 05:16 am |
Regular Rep: 0  Joined: 02 Sep 2006 Posts: 833 OFFLINE | Christine wrote:
Hey people.
Your opinion would be very helpful.
Ive been with my bf now for 2 years and 4 months. We never argue about anything and our relationship has been perfect the whole time. Only time we have argued has been when we have both been drunk.
1 night we got very drunk (too drunk) and was walking home when he basically beat me up. Hes never ever done anything like this before. Hes recently moved and been stressed out. Think everything just built up and we was agueing t the time.
Someone called police but i didnt press charges in the end.
Hes said how sorry he is and i know that he is.
Apart from this the relationship has been perfect and we love each other so much. But i dont think i could be with someone whos done that to me. i.e black eye and bruises on face ect...
Should i speak to him or just leave it how it is?
Thanks 4 ya help
have u ever cosidered taking it to tha ring?
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| 08 Sep 2006 11:47 am |
UBER 1337 Poster Rep: 1 Joined: 27 Apr 2005 Posts: 2,116 OFFLINE | You should dump him. Being drunk does not mean you will get mad. When I am drunk, I’m happy and I still have the state of mind to keep my hands to myself.
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| 09 Sep 2006 11:28 am |
Regular Rep: 0Joined: 14 Aug 2005 Posts: 742 OFFLINE | Xtrm Liability ur advice is very helpful indeed! Thank you As is every1s opinion. Ive spent the week listening to what people think and what they would do ect...
There is 2 sides to every story this is true. And i admit i am not totally blameless. We both were drunk and no doubt i was being annoying. Is still no excuse, will always be inexcusable but i did play my own part. Though I didnt deserve that I know!
2 years is a long time to throw away on a night neither of us were ourselves- through drink-. We have since spoken and decided to give it another go. I know it wont happen again and we wont get in that situation again. Drinking that much i mean and walking so far in the middle of the night. All started trying to get home and stuff from a club. I know how much stress hes been under as well coz hes just got his own first house and i know its stresseful moving. Not making excuses as said coz there isnt any.
I love this guy so much and i know he loves me. And as i said, we can either give it another go now or it will be too late forever when 1 of us gives up. Its been perfect the whole time we’ve been together. Can probably count on 1 hand the amount of arguements we’ve had since we met. And i’d say thats xcellent.
To walk away would have ended something so special i know i’d never get with anyone else.
All in all: I think we what we been going through in this last week is enough punishment for both of us to learn from, and apprishiate each other even more than we do.
I didnt think id ever be able ta get back with him coz i’ve always said if ne1 laid finger on me wrongly it would be over. Is like what i stand for, not to be my mum.-treaten badly. So for me, that shows how much we really do have together.
Noone could believe any of this coz it is out of character and shouldnt have happened.
We are gonna meet next week and try to get back on track. The week apart has done us good, and i hope we can get back to how it was- perfect. Mayb in time it will make us stronger. I hope so
And we wont be drinking that much anymore! :P
Thanks everyone again 
Last edited 09 Sep 2006 11:34 am by Christine | |
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