i have noticed in todays society how increasingly acceptable it is for men to treat women like objects and with no respect.
im not saying all guys are sexist by any means, and to all the guys that appreciate whats on the inside, and not inside the bra, i thank you.
but the way men nearly always comment on a womans bra size or physcial features as soon as they meet someone, and make rude and offensive suggestions is not acceptable.
on the same token, it is also unbelievably frustrating the way in which some people still believe that virginity for women is necessary and a sign of purity (and if you are not a virgin you are 'cheap'), while when men 'score' it is 'another notch on the belt' and something to be commended.
Alot of 'popular' music often promotes the idea of womens bodies being something to be judged and won by spineless comments made by men. this is not something to be teaching guys as a way to impress a girl.
it seems men can get away with offensive, rude or predjudist remarks because 'boys will be boys', while womean are expected to behave like 'ladies'.
i am very interested to think wat u guys think so pls reply with ur opinions =P
Guys that do what you said piss me off. I’m always nice and respectful to girls (and usually a little shy), but it don’t matter because they all seem to turn me down anyway.
I understand what your saying 100% cindi. Most other guys at my school treat girls as an object in which they stick their penises in... it makes me mad. I believe in love and friendship, not sex and lust. Sadly most men DO indeed go the way of sex and lust and lie and say that they arent players and then they either cheat on you or fuck you and dump you. That is completely disrespectful and downright terrible.
When I see a girl I look at the person that they are and I look for whats inside of them. I look for a friend.
Im a shy guy but im always looking for friends. Im 15 years old so having sex with a girl is the last thing on my mind until I get married. Friendship is much better than any sex will ever be. Friendship lasts forever, sex only lasts one night.
Last edited 19 Oct 2006 06:50 pm by Deathspartan117
.cindi. wrote:
i have noticed in todays society how increasingly acceptable it is for men to treat women like objects and with no respect.
im not saying all guys are sexist by any means, and to all the guys that appreciate whats on the inside, and not inside the bra, i thank you.
but the way men nearly always comment on a womans bra size or physcial features as soon as they meet someone, and make rude and offensive suggestions is not acceptable.
on the same token, it is also unbelievably frustrating the way in which some people still believe that virginity for women is necessary and a sign of purity (and if you are not a virgin you are 'cheap'), while when men 'score' it is 'another notch on the belt' and something to be commended.
Alot of 'popular' music often promotes the idea of womens bodies being something to be judged and won by spineless comments made by men. this is not something to be teaching guys as a way to impress a girl.
it seems men can get away with offensive, rude or predjudist remarks because 'boys will be boys', while womean are expected to behave like 'ladies'.
i am very interested to think wat u guys think so pls reply with ur opinions =P
DARKSLAYER07 wrote:
how about u turn gay little homo
okay...will you go out with me?
you suck! get your butt hole outta this topic call someone who cares
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--- *To do something, however small, to make others happier and better, is the highest ambition, the most elevating hope, which can inspire a human being. -John Lubbock* Music defines my life *