| 09 May 2008 11:02 pm |
That is REAL Guest | do you know how the word “I” invent? while we seeking the form we perceive it and so call perception of the form.“And why do I call it 'perception'? Because it perceives, thus it is called 'perception.' What does it perceive? It perceives blue, it perceives yellow, it perceives red, it perceives white. Because it perceives, it is called perception.so we perceive the particular form as “I” so that is the perception of the form.izzit perception constant or inconstant?answer is inconstant.izzit inconstant things can regard as what am I? answer is NO.So how we cognizes ? we see the photo and then say “oh this person is “I”“And why do I call it 'consciousness'? Because it cognizes, thus it is called consciousness. What does it cognize? It cognizes what is sour, bitter, pungent, sweet, alkaline, non-alkaline, salty, & unsalty. Because it cognizes, it is called consciousness.“And is it fitting to regard what is inconstant, stressful, subject to change as: 'This is mine. This is my self. This is what I am'?“answer is NO.
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| | 09 May 2008 11:11 pm |
That is REAL Guest | then we say 'My name is XXX” or “I am XXX” all is perception of the form. then do you know how the word “my"and “mine” invent?And why do I call it 'feeling'? Because it feels, thus it is called 'feeling.' What does it feel? It feels pleasure, it feels pain, it feels neither-pleasure-nor-pain. Because it feels, it is called feeling.There are three kinds of feeling: pleasant feeling, painful feeling, & neither-pleasant-nor-painful feeling... Whatever is experienced physically or mentally as pleasant & gratifying is pleasant feeling. Whatever is experienced physically or mentally as painful & hurting is painful feeling. Whatever is experienced physically or mentally as neither gratifying nor hurting is neither-pleasant-nor-painful feeling... Pleasant feeling is pleasant in remaining and painful in changing. Painful feeling is painful in remaining and pleasant in changing. Neither-pleasant-nor-painful feeling is pleasant when conjoined with knowledge and painful when devoid of knowledge."
So why we say it is “MINE” because we wanna increase pleasant feeling and we wanna reduce the painful feeling,or we wanna increase neither-pleasant-nor-painful feeling and we wanna reduce the painful feeling.
| | | 09 May 2008 11:13 pm |
The one and forever only... Rep: 36  Joined: 11 Feb 2008 Posts: 10,620 OFFLINE | Philosophy...
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God is evil God is pure God is neither God is God
Don’t FUCK with my insanity I’ll warp your REALiTY | | | 09 May 2008 11:21 pm |
That is REAL Guest | Everythings we think in our mind will Arise persist and cease!
we say “SOUL is eternity this is TRUE"this sort of idea will confirm 100% cease in your mind! and we say “SOUL is always eternity even it cease in my mind this is also TRUE!“this sort of idea will also confirm 100% cease in your mind! so whatever we think that is TRUE or FALSE that particular idea will also CEASE in OUR MIND.So izzit possible we conclude anythings as ETERNITY TRUE??????we can’t pin down anythings as the TRUTH OR
REALITY because anythings we try to pin down as constant will cease in our mind! So there have no constant at inconstant.
we cannot perceive constant at inconstant!so the inconstant things is always stressful!
| | | 09 May 2008 11:22 pm |
The one and forever only... Rep: 36Joined: 11 Feb 2008 Posts: 10,620 OFFLINE | Dude philosophy is not lonlyness
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God is evil God is pure God is neither God is God
Don’t FUCK with my insanity I’ll warp your REALiTY | | | 09 May 2008 11:25 pm |
That is REAL Guest | so izzit possible we not try to increase and reduce and this kind of feeling?pleasant feeling, painful,AVERSION feeling, & neither-pleasant-nor-painful feeling.Izzit possible to stop the stress? while we AVERSION that is stressful.
| | | 09 May 2008 11:37 pm |
That is REAL Guest | So how the word “myself” invent? (used when the speaker and writer also the person affected by an action)speaker=“I am”
I am is the perception of the form.
| | | 10 May 2008 05:08 am |
That is more REAL Guest | I am human, John, boy, girl, Son of God, XXXname.......infinite right???Do you know how the word “I am” invent? Whilewe see the form we perceive it and it so call perception of the form. And whydo I call it 'perception'? Because it perceives, thus it is called’perception.' What does it perceive? It perceives blue, it perceives yellow, itperceives red, it perceives white. Because it perceives, it is calledperception. “Is perception constant or inconstant?" Is form constantor inconstant?" “Is consciousness constant or inconstant?
“And is it proper to regard what isinconstant, stressful, subject to change as: 'This is mine. This is my self.This is what I am'?" so how we cognize? For example we see photo (thephoto got many person) and then we point particular image in the photo say “ohthis person is I am!” What does it cognize? It cognizes what is sour, bitter,pungent, sweet, alkaline, non-alkaline, salty,. Because it cognizes, it iscalled consciousness.
| | | 10 May 2008 05:09 am |
That is more REAL Guest | How the word “my” and “mine” invent?
And why do I call it 'feeling'? Because it feels, thus it iscalled 'feeling.' What does it feel? It feels pleasure, it feels pain, it feelsneither-pleasure-nor-pain. Because it feels, it is called feeling. There arethree kinds of feeling: pleasant feeling, painful feeling, &neither-pleasant-nor-painful feeling... Whatever is experienced physically ormentally as pleasant & gratifying is pleasant feeling. Whatever isexperienced physically or mentally as painful & hurting is painful feeling.Whatever is experienced physically or mentally as neither gratifying norhurting is neither-pleasant-nor-painful feeling... Pleasant feeling is pleasantin remaining and painful in changing. Painful feeling is painful in remainingand pleasant in changing. Neither-pleasant-nor-painful feeling is pleasant whenconjoined with knowledge and painful when devoid of knowledge."
So why we say it is “MINE” because we wanna increasepleasant feeling and we wanna reduce the painful, Aversion feeling we wanna increaseneither pleasant nor painful feeling and wanna reduce the painful feeling. Aversionmeans strong dislike. Izzit possible we not to reduce or increase any three kindof this feeling? Izzit possible to stop the stress.
| | | 10 May 2008 05:11 am |
That is more REAL Guest | Everything’s we think in our mind will Arise persist and cease!
we say “SOUL and GOD is eternity this is TRUE” this sort of idea will confirm 100% cease in your mind! and we say “SOUL and GOD is always eternity even it cease in my mind this is also TRUE!“this sort of idea will also confirm 100% cease in your mind! so whatever we think that is TRUE or FALSE that particular idea will also CEASE in OUR MIND. So izzit possible we conclude anything’s as ETERNITY TRUE??????answer is NO.we can’t pin down anything’s as the TRUTH OR REALITY because anything’s we try to pin down as constant will cease in our mind! So there have no constant at inconstant.
we cannot perceive constant at inconstant! so the inconstant things is always stressful!
| | | 10 May 2008 09:06 pm |
devilwoman Guest | im divorced 43 and so lonely, never thought that no one and i mean no one calls me to talk or go out to a movies i have no friends my only true one died in a car crash i miss her badly is anyone out there to talk
| | | 10 May 2008 11:24 pm |
Trepid Guest | I was here a couple months ago, feeling lonely.
Thought I’d come back and check up on the site.
Things do get better guys, work through it. Fight through it. Do whatever you have to to survive.
I am having a down moment right now, I feel like garbage.
I met this really cool new girl last week, so I called her to see if she wanted to hang out tonight
and she said she had plans, which is fine, and she said another time
But I am an idiot, and said... “Another time? Do you mean that?"
and Awkward silence prevailed.
haha, ive been feeling like crap all day since. But...
Fight through it kids, a million fish in the sea.. yada yada
| | | 11 May 2008 12:58 am |
moppet20 Guest | I was sitting on the couch crying not sure how to deal with this void I felt in my soul. Hoping that I could find something, anything, online I typed I’m so lonely into google and I got this. Just telling someone I’m lonely makes it a little bit better. Maybe someday I’ll find a person who isn’t online to tell I’m lonely to.
| | | 11 May 2008 03:26 am |
Lonelyallday Guest | Loneliness is searching and searching and not finding anything or anyone. It is the most empty feeling in the world. If Sartre meant to say hell is other people, he was obviously never lonely. I am an empty vessel, a ghost ship. No one gives a damn about me, not even my boyfriend to whom I’ve given my whole heart. This is the worst feeling.
| | | 11 May 2008 03:08 pm |
TakumiVK Guest | if loneliness is just a chemical of needing, then who can i satisfy it with?
Hi, I am not as lonely as maybe a lot of people are here, but I’m sure not to happy. I’m only 18, and have a lot of life to experience, but ive also since my early teens experienced a form of loneliness.
All my friends come and go, I haven’t seen or spoken to anyone from primary school, and only talk to one from secondary. I am currently in college and still feel lonely, I have one friend.
I spent most my teens playing on computer games and electronics, trying to feel the friendship void, talking on chartrooms, games etc. though the only thing i want from life is someone i can hold on my bus journeys, someone to kiss, and just someone i can love and feel, that they feel the same way.
I am not hideous looking, and far from not being scared to enter a relationship, I just can never find one... I think a girl i want is out of my reach or maybe doesn’t exist in the first place. I feel so lonely inside that i typed, “I am lonely”. into Google, what does that tell you? I know I’m not alone in loneliness.
I just hope one day (hopefully soon) I will find someone. Lately all the things i used to do seemed pointless, without someone to be with. Computer games have now become boring, and my soul purpose for coming on the internet now is mainly for social networking, and interacting with people.
my MSN is: Vladislaushehe@hotmail.com, if anyone wants to chat.
Maybe some of this is my own fault, my own barrier has allowed things to pass by that barrier keeping indoors too long, but has ultimately been my undoing.
Everything gets better in the end but right now it isn’t helping me.
I just hope the future improves for me on this side.
| | | 11 May 2008 09:38 pm |
alongday Guest | Its all so confusing isnt it?
unlike many others here, i am lucky enough to have friends, i am lucky enough to have company, but something is horribly wrong - there’s so much missing in most days i carry on through.
one thing has destroyed the simply lonely person i used to be. i fell in love, and it has destroyed who i once was. its made me hurt as i never thought possible, its made me leave most of my friends behind, and it does feel as though i have gone to hell and back for little more reason than to see the view 
the person i fell for, is still around me, as a living taunting person, who cheats, ignores, creates pain, and casualy uses as she sees fit.
And the weakness in feeling love, still pounds away at me, in some fictional attempt to hang on to what i was tricked into even though i know its stupid and finished long ago.
How i wish i had never allowed myself to be seduced, to feel, and to think one person cared as i had waited so long for.
I can honestly say, it would have been better to have lived alone thru this life, than to have ever got involved in such a thing as this.
im far too old to be still feeling like a messed up teenager
if it helps anybody else to know one thing, i must say this. Be very very careful what you wish for. Hold on to your ability to love, until you are as sure as you can be. Let yourself give it with caution, steady yourself, dont rush away with happiness into it.
we really cannot know just what another is contemplating in their own possibly screwed up mind.
i’ll feel better again in a day or two, as it all comes and goes. just needed to type something somewhere to get through the day.
End Of Ranting.
| | | 12 May 2008 09:57 pm |
Entree Rep: 0 Joined: 12 May 2008 Posts: 1 OFFLINE | This just can’t be happening!!! Googled for “i am lonely” too.
I guess loneliness will never ever end in this world of ours. I’ve read some posts and i felt twice as lonely. I don’t know but i might be the only one from Bulgaria posting in this thread. Anyone else... anyone else who from a side view looks like he/she haves everything that a man can need... and feels so f*cking lonely as i do? 5:00am here ... ahhh i just can’t continue writing... life sometimes sucks a lot but the thing is , the more i get surrounded by people/ friends the more lonely i feel. Just imagine going to an audition (yeah am..umm used to be.. an actor) with a damn sad face and trying hard to smile and look fresh! The man who said: lonleyness haves its beauty should go kill himself. Aint nothing beautiful about this. It’s destroing my life. And do you know how i cover up my lonelyness? If you ask peopele about me, they’ll say am the mos funny guy they’ve met. That’s how... am just being funny to others....... God damn it, i don’t know even why am posting here.......
Oh, sorry for my English.......
| | | 12 May 2008 11:36 pm |
vebulid Guest | Part of me feels better that I’m not the only one, the other part of me says this world is a harsh place for so many to have found this one spot. I live in the past, I know this. It’s been 7 years since I broke up with Her. Every time I meet a new girl, she just gets compared to Her and I stay alone...
| | | 13 May 2008 04:40 am |
Entree Rep: 0Joined: 13 May 2008 Posts: 2 OFFLINE | Hey! I am lonely too.. Have just had all this shit happen to me and my life has totally blown out of control.. Up to now everything that has happened to me I have taken it and dealt with it.. But now something happened and I feel like I can’t get back up.. Im not creepy lol im 20.. Live in melb aust.. If u want to chat or sometimes just feel like your friends don’t care.. Maybe we can talk..x
| | | 14 May 2008 07:50 pm |
callie Guest | ddoes any one want to talk im lonely
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