Stix86 wrote:
think i’m wrong? well let me ask you what caring about this chick has gotten you? or about caring for any chick has gotten you? is this a reapeted cycle? do you think this chick doesn’t care about what this is doing to you, or doesn’t know? she has herself in mind cid. i’m just trying to help you and have some fun at your expense along the way. until you change the way you think this feeling you have will be a constant throughout your life. sad part is you have probably already thought about this and done nothing...

Stix86 wrote: sorry rapture. your advice is short term. you might aswel tell cid to grab an eightball of coke and some hookers. it’ll make him feel better for a short time but then it’s back to reality.

Cid wrote:

Yeah... I’ve thought about it a lot. Alright dude? But I’m done thinking about it now. I still love her, so what? I probably will for the rest of my life because she was my first true love. But there’s no use in dwelling on it anymore, so why would I? It’s not going to be a constant in my life. You see, I’m a great person so I know I’ll find somebody eventually. Just have to give it time. And anybody who lets me go is just missing out on somebody who loved them for everything they were, everything they weren’t, and everything they would have become. So it’s their loss, not mine.

Stix86 wrote:

that’s beautiful! now peruvian flake is great cocain and pay the little bit extra for those hookers. it’s worth the money. i’m sure you’re a great person, but it just doesn’t matter.

Rapture wrote:

Obviously you don’t understand then. When you’re feeling down or your life is heading downhill, even a few simple words of sympathy or advice can help. Even if just a little bit.

Besides, it’s far better then what you’re doing. Which if i were you I’d stop.

Cid wrote:

I don’t need drugs or hookers. And it does matter. You just fail to understand. *leaves*

1indainfinite wrote: Can I now spam here?

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Stix86 wrote:

more beautiful fiction. i wish you we’re right, but this is the real world. i’m giving him long term advice. i don’t do quick fixes.

Cid wrote:

I’ll ban you.

Stix86 wrote:
cid! you came back! ready for your fist lesson?

Cid wrote:

Nope. Got a date with your wife. Later.

mimi38 wrote: you 86 are very crude in your words and i do not think cid needs that right now,,he is a good person that i know for sure what i want to tell him is to hang in there and go out and keep busy i dont know if its done there like it is here but summer jobs could be a solution,,like my 15 year old i will send to go pick strawberrys it pays as much as u pick if u pick few you get pay for that if you pick lots u get paid for that too so it wont make u feel bad if you are a bit under the weather that day and money is money,,

and keeping busy is the key at the beggining believe me im 40 i know!!!

anyway i wish you luck cid and take care **hugs**

mimi38 wrote: you 86 are very crude in your words and i do not think cid needs that right now,,he is a good person that i know for sure what i want to tell him is to hang in there and go out and keep busy i dont know if its done there like it is here but summer jobs could be a solution,,like my 15 year old i will send to go pick strawberrys it pays as much as u pick if u pick few you get pay for that if you pick lots u get paid for that too so it wont make u feel bad if you are a bit under the weather that day and money is money,,

and keeping busy is the key at the beggining believe me im 40 i know!!!

anyway i wish you luck cid and take care **hugs**

Stix86 wrote:

mimi my words may be crude, but it doesn’t take away from thier truth. you have to past the sarcasm and understand that cid doesn’t need a bunch of sappy coddling, he needs an honest vision of the world. i do agree that a job is a great place to meet people, but it’s gunna be the same till he changes his thinking.

i’m thirty, my one sone is 14, he is in honors classes with strait a and he is captain of his baseball team. he’s a good kid with cids same issues. i believe i know what i’m talking about. i choose not to see the world through rose colored glasses (although it is occassionally tempting). if you think you have the long term explination then we should expect to see these posts from cid at a later date. the world isn’t ran by dreamers, it’s ran by doers.

Stix86 wrote: i’m just saying you shouldn’t put people on peddistools. people are flawed and selfish. you need to learn how to take care of yourself and put yourself before others, cause no one else will put you before themselves. nice guys finnish last. there’s nothing but truth behind that.