| 26 Oct 2004 09:11 pm |
SKSkillz Guest | I too am very lonely. I feel you, Isi. I often wish I was a kid again as well, as I can honestly say my life was 100 times better as a child growing up than it has been since age 13 to now (21). It’s like a cold slap in the face when innocence is taken away from life and replaced with ignorance, racism, and fake smiles.
My family is great. My parents have worked so hard to ensure I have everything I want in life, and my brother is my best friend. But I can’t honestly say that I have another friend in this entire world that I can count on. If I died today, my mom, dad, and brother would be the only ones attending the funeral or even giving a damn. That’s a painful feeling.
I too have that empty feeling. I’m 21 years old with no friends and never been in a relationship with a woman. Writing on message boards is my escape, but at age 21, I don’t know how much longer I can get away with it. I don’t want to be in my 30’s and 40’s with this same feeling. I know rejection like the back of my hand, and I’m tired of it.
Will this feeling go away? I hope so. If any good came out of this, it’s that I appreciate my family more than anything in this world. Appreciate what you have at home. Trust me.
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Visit a forum dedicated to lonely people: aLonelyLife.com
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| 28 Oct 2004 08:10 pm |
captain_lonely Guest | I Googled here too. Seems to me everyone feels lonely sometime in their life. Be it that homesick kind of longing lonely. Or the oppressive, soul crushing isolation of depression. In the modern world, where technology connects us to people we will never meet, who may not even exist, it’s easy to feel alone. If people connected with others more in the real world, and took an interest and cared about the lives of those around them, maybee we wouldn’t all feel so desparately alone...
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| 29 Oct 2004 02:52 pm |
lungs Guest | I typed: “why is abc bittorrent not working” and I got “I am lonely”
not too hilarious.
you’re not going to get any less lonely on the internet. it’s the rule.
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| 29 Oct 2004 07:58 pm |
marksweeney Guest | It is true I typed I am lonely on AOL. Ok I am a loser using aol, but still it brought me here as well.
Maybe we can have a lonely party? The problem is you feel tied down yet, you have things to do but not what you want to do. AHHH
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| 30 Oct 2004 01:50 pm |
Moondog jr. Guest | I typed 'I am lonely' as well in google... this is pretty hilarious don’t you think...
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| 30 Oct 2004 07:27 pm |
rampage85 Guest | sooner or later you just have to accept the cards you are dealt. Me for instance I used to have a huge family, now the little family I have left pretty much do their own thing and I have no contact with them. Most of my friends I used to have, have moved away or just have lost touch. I work with a beautiful girl that is interested in me and when I wrote her a little note when I was thinking she was she informed me she was sorry she mislead me with all the looks she gave me. She said she was very attracted to me but shes invested in a 5 year relationship and although there are several issues she is sticking with it. So when you cant win you just give up. I am often depressed but have never considered hurting myself. God gave me life and its his decision when it ends. I guess I will have to live as well as I can but I hate my life.
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| 02 Nov 2004 02:20 pm |
Kelly Moore Guest | kmoore200211@hotmail.com (in case you would like to say hello)
It’s good to see that we all have a place to go when we are feeling lonely, thanks to the internet
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| 03 Nov 2004 12:52 pm |
Dongkoi Guest | i put u nvr see the lonely me at all...from placebo
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| 07 Nov 2004 05:00 am |
Wanderer Guest | I just did “I am lonely” in Google, too. Maybe we should start an “I am lonely” society. In my case, the loneliness has come from not having a real home — my job always takes me to a different country or a different city within a country. Luckily, I am married to a wonderful wife. But I want a sense of community — some kind of belonging. I guess I am not alone in this sense.
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| 07 Nov 2004 05:20 am |
Wannabe Rep: 0 Joined: 07 Nov 2004 Posts: 10 OFFLINE | Dude, I go to school and I’m outcasted from every fucking thing I do. oh my god it’s like a curse. oh, I’m okay now I just wanted to say that yes, you guessed it. I’M LONELY.
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| 09 Nov 2004 12:11 pm |
NineteenEightyFour Guest | I was lonely when I searched google, but for some reason reading through all the posts has made me feel heaps better.
All I really want to do is just hop in my car (or on a plane), and see where I end up. I feel so trapped in my shitty life...I just want to start again.
I reckon Isi really hit the nail on the head, especially with the line “at least I’m not Michael Jackson”. But what does Michael Jackson say to himself?
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| 09 Nov 2004 01:08 pm |
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| 11 Nov 2004 01:46 pm |
vic Guest | sad fucks get a life
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| 12 Nov 2004 11:20 am |
sarahmga Guest | Funny While I got here from google, It wasn’t because I typed in “I’m lonly”. I typed in “helping others"
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| 13 Nov 2004 01:46 pm |
lonelynow Guest | I typed 'I am lonely' as well in google — — lets get together and don’t be lonely anymore.
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| 13 Nov 2004 08:35 pm |
mike Guest | i typed “i’m lonely without my girlfriend” in google and it brought me here. I’m 20 years old and I’ve been going out with this girl for over 2 1/2 years. We both transfered to the same college this semester. Lynn University in Florida. We’re both from NY. Everything was perfect between us the last 2 1/2 years but when we got here everything fell apart. She decided that just being with me wasn’t enough and wanted to join in with all the losers at school that sit around drinking and getting high. She was the most important person in my life. I have no other friends here at school. Not one. I am 1200 miles away from home. I have no one to talk to. This whole thing came as a total shock to me, I was not prepared for it and now I have nowhere to turn to. If anyone would like to talk send me an email. thanks.
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| 14 Nov 2004 10:52 am |
MasterBox Guest | I too googled “I am so lonely”. Wow, what a miserable existance we all lead. I am in love with my best friend (who is also my x-gf), but she is dating a guy she is madly in love with...and she talks half-jokingly about marriage 
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| 14 Nov 2004 10:12 pm |
Isi Guest | *sigh*
i am back, this is now my third post here. Somtimes the worst part about being lonely is that the thoughts just build up in my head, and I have no outlet for them. Like i have so much to talk about but no one to listen to me. Thus, i subject this board to my meanderings.
In general i am a very happy person, but people don’t treat me that way. They treat me as if I were depressed, as if i am not happy to be here, or see them. This week a girl i have worked with over a year walked in and I remarked that she smelled great, because i think everyone deserves a random compliment sometime. She in turn asked me if I was being sarcastic. When i told her i was not she just made a hmmph noise and walked away. What the fuck? I just wonder how much of my bouts with lonliness and depression is me, and how much is other people expecting me to be that way. “Oh, you live alone, don’t have a girlfriend, or a great job...you shouldn’t be happy." Pisses me off. Once I get labelled I have to fight twice as hard to prove that is not who i really am. Well fuck you world, I am happy. I step out of my door, wearing my not-quite-cool clothes, head off to my deadend job, but I am happy. You may shoot me down for a date, you may tell me I have no life, and that I am too nice for my own good. you may tell me I am dumb, naive, and hopelessly childish, but fuck you. Fuck you world becase other than giving me life, you have done nothing but show me what i can and cannot do. Well fuck you, cause I telling myself what i can and cannot do...and when that sun hits my face i smile, and wish i could roar my name for the whole world to tremble because i am Isi, and I claim this day as mine! WoooHA. God Bless you all! Claim this day as yours too! Dance in the street, laugh just to hear yourself, sing while you work, and roar, as loud as you can for the world to hear. RaRRRR! LOL. I hope you all have a great day
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| 15 Nov 2004 12:58 am |
Dude Guest | What music do you guys like? I like D12, Ramstein, limp Bizkit, linkin park. I have a dog and a cat but still lonely
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| 17 Nov 2004 10:50 pm |
idservices Guest | I listen to a lot of stuff that I had in college, like U2, REM, etc. I guess that gives away my age. I guess I am both lonley & nostalgic.
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