| 17 Nov 2004 10:55 pm |
idservices Guest | What makes us so lonely? I guess it is the unrealized expectations that we have of those that are closest to us (or that we WISH we closest to us). Maybe we would not be lonely if we just stopped expecting anything from anyone else. Watching movies makes it worse because on some level you identify with certain stars & feel that you actually know them in a way, but of course you don’t and then you feel rejected once again by someone else.
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Visit a forum dedicated to lonely people: aLonelyLife.com
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| 17 Nov 2004 11:08 pm |
idservices Guest | BTW, I also googled here and BTW I am also very lonely and love to have just a warm word of encouragement from somone. It just seems so bleak sometimes, like happiness or even contentment is simply unobtainable. My problem is like a lot of others: partially requited love but now permanent separation. I don’t know why I even get out of bed in the mornings. 
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| 19 Nov 2004 11:23 am |
Entree Rep: 0 Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 1 OFFLINE | I think typing what we all typed on google is in a way like a last desperate attempt in despair to somehow find a solution to the lonliness that we all are experiencing.
How about if all try and interact more progressively and proactively? Or maybe even contact each other?
Atleast no matter what diverse & different backgrounds we may be from, there is lonliness that still unites us in our feelings.
Opinions / reactions...?
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| 19 Nov 2004 05:17 pm |
SKSkillz Guest | Someone here (preferably one of the lonely souls) should make a website or blog especially designed for people like us to vent and interact with each other. It won’t cure the lonely feeling we have, but at least it will give us an opportunity and forum to communicate with people who are going through the same exact feelings.
Just a thought.
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| 19 Nov 2004 07:36 pm |
I have a silly rank Rep: 46  Joined: 03 Nov 2003 Posts: 1,291 | Hi,
I’m the webmaster/owner of moviecodec.com and I’m also quite lonely
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| 20 Nov 2004 11:21 pm |
jim Guest | i guess its good to know im not the only one . but then of course i allways did .it dont change the fact tho huh. to bad we cant all get together for a party or something and not be so lonly for a day huh and i hear ya on the tv thing it brings up stuff that makes it worse , so does the radio to,and sitting at this comp just reminds me of the fact im alone also. it seems the only thing that last is this feeling of bahh here i go again another freeking day . and the fear of reaching out just to get beat down or made fun of. well this dint help now did it bahh . good luck folks hope you fare better than i
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| 21 Nov 2004 12:00 pm |
leigh Guest | Don’t ya just love the internet and google :P
big hug to all the people. Loneliness is a state of mind but one which absorbs us all at some point. Dont matter if your in the frozen wastes of the arctic or walking down a busy street if theres no one for you to talk to its gonna happen.
L.
x
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| 25 Nov 2004 10:45 am |
Can't win em all Guest | I too am a googler, Happy turkeyday...It’s less than 20 degrees outside, I’m sitting in a motel room (which I’m currently living in), the battery is dead in my car and I don’t have the cash for another one till next payday. The closest place to get something to eat is 2 miles away and closed. I don’t know anyone in this town that can give me a ride. I have no one to eat and talk with on turkey day. My last living relative past away two days ago. I had to give away my dog cause I couldn’t keep her here. The only friend I had in this town moved two weeks ago. I have a dead end job that I barley make enough to feed myself, let alone having hope for a family. I’m a quarter century old and I’ve had enough, but I will keep on keeping on.
I’m thankful for the heat in this room, I’m thankful for the water from the tap, I’m thankful that I am young healthy and that I have a good immune system. I’m thankful for my shitty job and the food it provides me, I’m thankful for the family I had growing up. I WILL keep my head up, continue my education, and procede to live life to the best of my abilities. Happy turkyday, and thanks to you all for being lonley, I know it sounds stupid but it really helps to know others suffer as much or more than me. Human nature is kinda weird like that I guess. Be nice to each otherand remember.....you can’t win em all
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| 25 Nov 2004 03:45 pm |
Becaring Guest | Hey, you know what they say. Great minds think alike.
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| 25 Nov 2004 06:31 pm |
lonelydude Guest | Hey man, Google loves u. I also typed the same query and this was the first one on there. I wish I cud fnd a hot blonde instead of ths though. Damn you Google ! Lonely and bored.
P.S: Noone fucking loves me.
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| 26 Nov 2004 06:46 pm |
nigga Guest | fuck the police
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| 27 Nov 2004 07:07 pm |
dehav Guest | hi all, wierd how google sent so many lonely people to the same place eh? After reading through the posts I feel less lonely knowing that I’m not as worse off as some people (I don’t mean to gloat).
SKSkillz - good idea and if ur interested I’ve setup a forum here (http://lonely.dehav-design.co.uk/ - or http://www.dehav-design.co.uk/lonely/)
I’ve had this webspace for ages and i couldn’t think of anything worthwhile to do with it until now.
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| 28 Nov 2004 05:40 pm |
brian Guest | Just googled “I am lonely” and I got here. It’s incredible how this world is full of people who feel lonely. Life sucks sometimes eh?...
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| 29 Nov 2004 06:12 am |
lonely from the netherlands Guest | Yeah, life sure sucks sometimes. I feel so lonely not having any friends. I hate being stuck in my apartment. Got nothing to do but study, but I’m too depresssed by this to learn.
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| 29 Nov 2004 04:40 pm |
WuGen Guest | Wow guys... its funny to see how many people actually typed in 'I am lonely' in google... =P Same reason I found this page.
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| 01 Dec 2004 04:29 am |
loner Guest | Aren’t we all the same, reading through this actually made me not lonely anymore 
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| 02 Dec 2004 07:50 pm |
resptherapy Guest | http://users.adelphia.net/~snoyes2/donation.html
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| 03 Dec 2004 04:16 am |
MalContent Guest | You guys know what. Every single one of us who drops a line on this site is equal to any other. What an incredible feeling, to be equal, with no conditions and no inferiority. This is a hard concept to grasp when you are constantly in the company of supercillious friends and acquiantainces. Being a freshman in college, I get lonely a lot more than I used to. Feeling alone and isolated has taken a harsh toll on my hope for filling “the empty space." You know, the heavy chest and the tense gut, thats “the empty space." Well, right now I feel lonely. I feel by myself, and I feel like no one really cares. You see, I think I felt so bad about feeling lonely before because no one was around to keep my mind occupied. When we are bored and alone is often the time that we spend looking into ourselves, and I couldn’t be satisfied with the self that I faced. Once I focused on changing myself into who I want to be, it became easier to be alone every time. The lonliness isn’t caused by a lack of attention, or a lack of communication. It’s brought on by low self-esteem, and until we rightfully accept ourselves and sieze our opportunity to produce change in ourselves, we will continue to wander aimlessly, searching for answers that we already have. So dont be lonely guys, just enjoy how real, how unique, and how capable you really are.
I wish I could explain my appreciation for all of the times that the posts on this site have helped me through nights like tonight. Best wishes to all who read this! God bless.
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| 03 Dec 2004 04:54 am |
MalContent Guest | You guys know what. Every single one of us who drops a line on this site is equal to any other. What an incredible feeling, to be equal, with no conditions and no inferiority. This is a hard concept to grasp when you are constantly in the company of supercillious friends and acquiantainces. Being a freshman in college, I get lonely a lot more than I used to. Feeling alone and isolated has taken a harsh toll on my hope for filling “the empty space." You know, the heavy chest and the tense gut, thats “the empty space." Well, right now I feel lonely. I feel by myself, and I feel like no one really cares. You see, I think I felt so bad about feeling lonely before because no one was around to keep my mind occupied. When we are bored and alone is often the time that we spend looking into ourselves, and I couldn’t be satisfied with the self that I faced. Once I focused on changing myself into who I want to be, it became easier to be alone every time. The lonliness isn’t caused by a lack of attention, or a lack of communication. It’s brought on by low self-esteem, and until we rightfully accept ourselves and sieze our opportunity to produce change in ourselves, we will continue to wander aimlessly, searching for answers that we already have. So dont be lonely guys, just enjoy how real, how unique, and how capable you really are.
I wish I could explain my appreciation for all of the times that the posts on this site have helped me through nights like tonight. Best wishes to all who read this! God bless.
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| 05 Dec 2004 02:58 pm |
darrad Guest | well...same ole’story here. Typed in “i am lonely”...just like everybody else. I have friends and I have family but I guess Im just not made for being single and the dating sites have gotten really old. Yea,life sucks sometimes
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