| 05 Dec 2004 03:21 pm |
darrad Guest | Hey Masterbox...I read your post about being in love with your best friend. Im at the same place. Im 40 years old and just fell in love for the first time and wouldnt ya know...the guys not “in love” with me. He just “likes me tremendously”. God! Life sucks!
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Visit a forum dedicated to lonely people: aLonelyLife.com
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| 06 Dec 2004 03:10 am |
mechn1x Guest | I wonder if god ever gets lonely?
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| 06 Dec 2004 07:01 am |
boomer Guest | hey look, i might be different i typed 'why the fuck am i so lonely?' into google, why are we so lonely?? It really does suck..i think i’m lonely cause i made out with one of my best friends while we were drunk and now i have a crush on him, but yeah....thats not a really good reason is it?
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| 06 Dec 2004 08:55 am |
brian Guest | hey wait a sec... it’s all girls here? 
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| 06 Dec 2004 04:31 pm |
Why Guest | Why are we here?
Soo many lost souls.
I miss the joy of discovering a new day?
Why is it so hard to find soulmates?
What went wrong?
I am still searching.
I refuse to give up.
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| 08 Dec 2004 06:39 am |
shadedangel Guest | Well it is a sad thing that there are so many of us that will type “I am lonely” on google...but the sadder part is that with all the lonely people in the world...they can’t find happiness in each other...the happy part is now we have a chance...if anyone is sad...if anyone is really lonely...or just board...drop me a line...then maybe we won’t be so lonely anymore.
littlewoman_13@yahoo.com
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| 08 Dec 2004 08:39 am |
philmsa Guest | Hi,
I just wanted to share information about something that has been a huge help with my Social Anxiety (has reduced it by 75% for over a year now.)
It’s a free network of free support groups for people with Social Phobia and other Social Anxiety problems.
The name of the organization is — Social Phobics Anonymous
SPAs' web address is:
www.healsocialanxiety.com
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Social Phobics Anonymous (also called S.P.A.) uses a 12 step recovery approach, adapted from A.A. and O.C.A. to recover from our Social Anxiety Problems.
In addition to the 12 steps, we also use the principles for healing fear developed by Rhonda Britton in her book “Fearless Living”.
**S.P.A. is not opposed to other recovery approaches and a good percentage of SPAs members use our approach in combination with other therapies — like medication, behavior therapy, exposure therapy, ect with good results.
SPAs' phone number(if needed) is (303) 404-3747 (based in USA although SPA provides help to Social Phobics/Social Anxiety sufferers anywhere)
Again — SPAs support groups are free. SPA is a volunteer run organization.
Please feel free to list this on webpages, share with friends, or print out and pass on.
Many Thanks,
Phil, Social Phobics Anonymous
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| 10 Dec 2004 12:22 am |
mechn1x Guest | girls in where? wait... we must be existing in some sort of cyber space! Human kind has transcended the body.
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| 10 Dec 2004 05:34 am |
it dosent matter Guest | Hi I dont know how I ended up here but I did because I was lonely. Lately I just dont have any drive. I lost a child to adoption that I did not want to happen. I feel like everyone I put trust in violates that trust and over the years it has caused me to kind of go into a shell yet I need a real friend desperately but I am afraid. I dont know why I cant snap out of it. Everytime I trust someone I end up regretting it. It this me or is this people in general and how greedy they can be.
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| 10 Dec 2004 05:43 pm |
Shalebridge Guest | Hello, I am one of the many who ended up here. I think that I may be anti-social. I’m not the kind of person that likes to be around alot of people, I am certianly not a “social butterfly”.
In any case, I’m just a pretty average 31 year old guy that finds it difficult to relate to people in general. I am not one for the 'dating sites/scene' and I’m certianly not one for hanging out at the clubs or bars.
I have to agree with the post by ShadedAngel. I have to believe or at least hope that there is someone here that I can relate to, it would seem that we all feel alone, although our reasons may differ in some way or another, the feeling of being alone is pretty much the same.
I hope to hear from someone, and I will make an effort to contact a few of you here . .take care.
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| 10 Dec 2004 11:27 pm |
LONELY MAN Guest | I WAS NEVER LIKE IN SCHOOL!! ITS TRUE PEOPLE MADE FUN OF ME. IT HURT, IT HURT ALOT!! I HAVE MADE FRIENDS ALONG THE WAY I GUESS NOT REAL FRIENDS. NO ONE EVER COMES TO SEE ME OR CALLS ME. I HAVE TRIED SO HARD TO REACH OUT TO PEOPLE BUT SOME HOW I SCARE THEM OFF AND IF I DO, I DON’T MEAN TO. I GUESS I JUST DON’T SAY THE RIGHT THINGS!! I TALK TO GOD ABOUT IT BUT I GUESS HE HAS A REASON. ITS A SLOW DEATH WHEN YOU DON’T HAVE ANYONE. SO,NEVER BURN BRIGES YOU NEVER KNOW WHEN YOU MAY HAVE TO CROSS THEM AGAIN. I ALWAYS THOUGHT I WAS A NICE GUY. SOMEONE TOLD ME THAT MOST PEOPLE DON’T LIKE NICE PEOPLE. I CAN’T SEE ME HURTING SOMEONES FEELINGS. MY MOM AND DAD TALK ME TO HELP PEOPLE IF I COULD AND TO NEVER TALK BAD ABOUT SOMEONE.I GUESS THATS WHY NO ONE LIKES ME BECAUSE I WAS NOT LIKE THEM.
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| 11 Dec 2004 02:34 am |
brian Guest | I wonder if someone will make a movie out of that...
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| 11 Dec 2004 02:02 pm |
Lonely Lad Guest | Hey all, I’m in the same boat. Ever since I started work, I’ve lost all my friends through one thing or another. I’m a 23 yr old lad. I dunno where it all went wrong but I have found myself here. Ive been like this for so long now.
I’m trying though to get out of this rut, I’ve joined a Fire brigade auxiliary service in the hope this will get me some new friends, its a volentary organisation. I’ve also joined the local Gym. My look on things is that if you work or see the same people over a number of times, you’ll eventually get to know them and become friends. From there I’m not going to make the same mistakes that I have done in the past. I’m going to make time for them, nomatter what. Hopefully this will lead to meeting someone special, possibly through the friends! I cannot/refuse to fall back into this rut. Also I’ve noticed that since I’ve been lonely, I’ve tried being 'nice' to everyone, even if I feel down. I think this is wearing a bit thin, I’m going to be myself from here on in. If I dont like the person, I will tell them. People will respect you more if you have depth to your personality. If your nice to everyone, some people will get bored of you and disprespect you.
Although now Christmas is coming and I have absolutly no plans whatsoever for the whole holiday. All those xmas songs on the radio, on the Tv and in the shops are like knives into my back, stabbing away at my soul. Going through town on a Sunday seeing all the couples, It hurts so much sometimes
Sometimes I wish people would carry advertisment banners around with them. Walking through the city centre, you could see if anyone is lonely, single or happy etc.
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| 13 Dec 2004 01:46 am |
hi people Guest | I feel pretty lonely tonight; well it’s been that way for awhile actually. I don’t understand it, i have friends and am close with my family. I used to have confidence and feel good about myself and all that has changed. Now I just plain feel sorry for myself which I despise doing but I just can’t help it. I’m just at a dead end in the road and it really is a hard way to live my life. I am out of options right now that seem to have sunny dispositions to them. The funny thing is, is that even though I tell my friends this, it doesn’t seem to make a lasting impression, making me feel even more alone.
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| 13 Dec 2004 04:19 pm |
Shalebridge Guest | Just thought I would come back and see if anyone else has posted. I wonder if there are any other message boards for people who are feeling alone and in need for a soul to connect with. I’m feeling rather lost really and am trying to find someone to connect with.
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| 13 Dec 2004 05:10 pm |
Shalebridge Guest | If anyone who stumbles upon this thread, knows of any other message boards where lonely people can meet and talk, please email me at robw1138@hotmail.com. Thank You.
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| 13 Dec 2004 07:39 pm |
and there was another Guest | Licky licky lao lao
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| 14 Dec 2004 06:24 am |
shadedangel Guest | i don’t know why but tonight was a hard one and while writing I came up with the following thought and wanted to share it:
For once in my life i have a direction and know what i want to do with the rest of my life...but even now i cannot enjoy it...christmas is coming soon and all the holiday warmth and joy falls short at my feet and I stare at it as thougth i had never know christmas before...as though i know not what it is.
because what is it all really worth? I mean direction, looks, money, the holidays...what is it all worth...none of it makes me happy, none of it fulfills me...what is all the world worth without love...
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| 14 Dec 2004 10:09 am |
Shalebridge Guest | Shadedangel,
I like your way with words. They are very touching and so very true. You are not alone 
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| 14 Dec 2004 11:33 pm |
Saturnine Guest | Wow! I didn’t know so many people liked to type random stuff into Google ... haha ... thought I was the only one 
Being lonely sucks. Lately I have started to realize that no one gives a damn anymore ... society has changed, no one gives a rat’s ass about others or about themselves .... Especially my generation. I just don’t understand it though; I am a kind person, understanding, compassionate, and confident. Yet people completely ignore me! I guess there is no room in the world for people like me anymore.
— “My family is great. My parents have worked so hard to ensure I have everything I want in life, and my brother is my best friend. But I can’t honestly say that I have another friend in this entire world that I can count on. If I died today, my mom, dad, and brother would be the only ones attending the funeral or even giving a damn. That’s a painful feeling." — -
— I totally feel you there. That thought makes me break down and cry a lot. People like to pretend they care, but I know the only ones that care are my parents. But hey, at least my parents love me. That’s better than nothing ...
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