philbert wrote:
summer wrote:
i thought i could get some advice as to y guys cant control it and r such perverted jerks but thanx a lot u guys just pissed me off more i hate life
Summer, hello and welcome to the forum
You need a sensible sensible answer? (i hope you 'still' check on this thread.....
Well, obviously you have to ignore the dozens of teenagers who will 'never' have a normal answer for you.
The fact is - No, men do NOT constantly think of sex (it’s a stupid childish rumour started a long long time ago by people who didn’t understand human psycology). If we did constantly think of it, we would walk into street-lights, crash cars, fall down holes in the ground, in fact EVERYTHING in life would fall apart, because the sex instinct is one of the most powerful/distracting emotions we have, after grief (that applies to males & females!).
An Internet forum is unfortunatly for you, totally the wrong place to ask such an 'adult' question, due to the age and lack of identity of the people who would usually bother to answer.
Because the writers cannot be seen, they love the feeling of power and forced-disgust that they can throw at others (sad i know, but most human males really do need beating to tears from an early age).
Im afraid even those who have said it’s basic human instinct, have not got it 100% correct either (no offence, but i speak the truth).
If it was *so* out of control for *any* of us, we would walk past the first 'attractive' female, and forcibly mate with her and then walk away without thinking about it (erm, we don’t, none of us, so the theory just fell on it’s arse).
The fact is, people get excited (sexually), and if males have a girlfriend, they feel (naturally) that they are 'close enough' emotionally, to try to carry out this instinctive response (of arousal, followed by genetic pro-creation, where possible).
The desire for sex MUST be an overwhelming requirement in ANY living species, for it to combat the idea of “theres only two of us left,how will our species ever survive?" problem.
But as humans became more (or less) intelligent, we learnt new things, and learnt pro-creation is 'pleasurable' beyond most other things.
The real fact of it all is, women are JUST as prone to bad conduct in the matter, as men are. But if you hide a mans identity (like on the Internet), he will 'usually' become overridden with fantasies when talkin to a female because -
*He can’t be rejected easily (they just 'follow' you around!)
*his appearance does not matter
*his manner has already been accepted (during the initial conversations)
*he cannot be 'legally' held back (arrested etc.)
*his fantasies can 'privatly, go all the way' (uurgh!)
*any 'insecurities' he may have, are totally hidden (yep, size matters!
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*if he screws up/looks stupid, he cant be seen BLUSHING & SQUIRMING, but instead can just come back with a load of abuse, pretending he was above it all from the start (never ever true!).
And in the same way, females feel 'safer' on the Interent, getting the same basic adrenal rush, but not being forced into a 'bad' situation following it (ladies, i hope i’ve worded that appropriately!).
However my dear, rest assured, NOT all men are like that. I 100% guarantee, that women do all that men do, and men do all that women do (in real life). If you have a boyfriend or partner/husband etc. that 'forces' (or tries to force) sex with you, then they are simply not the person you need to spend your life with.
Your relationship should be based on mutual feelings (and never on uncontrolled initial 'lust'). If you like the appearance, but they talk to you badly, or seem sarcastic/smarmy all of the time, or only talk nicely when alone but nasty when with others - do yourself a favour - GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP (no matter how good the sex or anything else MAY be).
I doubt you will ever read all that, but it’s there, and i hope it helps.
Oh and not everyone here is a teenager, i for one are not, but couldn’t be buggerer realy providing a essay on the subject at 1:10 in the morning.
Honestly though mate..WELL DONE! I just hope she is still reading the topic like you said, otherwise she may actualy miss your response.
Oh well, there may be other woman browsing this thread that may yeild some insight from your response.
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