and i have been nice to everyone on here exept one cause she just wouldnt take it,,,i tryed to undersatnd her whay of thinkin but couldnt,,,and that is a rare thing for me
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mimi38 wrote:
ohh cause i though i was the oldest woman on here at the moment,,and i will be 40 in january,,,but its ok i dont mind you wanting to keep that private
Well Congratulations on the looming Four O. I say this now as I may not be around on here in 6 months time.
mimi38 wrote:
and i have been nice to everyone on here exept one cause she just wouldnt take it,,,i tryed to undersatnd her whay of thinkin but couldnt,,,and that is a rare thing for me
Well, I try and be nice but I got the nickname Fang because of my strong will and my habitual nastiness to those who wrong others. People described it as PMS gone bad. So I have a bit of a mean streak in me. It still doesn’t mean that people are not deserving of some niceties in life. I speak in a soft voice but carry a big stick. Anyhow Ms or is it Mrs Mimi, I think that if you only failed once and still gave it a go, it’s the same as not failing at all. Some people wouldn’t even bother going as far as to be polite to another person. Good for you.
Hate is instinctively built inside us. Hate is an emotion, hence it serves the protective mode of a person. People whose behavior threatens one’s own survival interests are to be hated. The passions of hate arise from several features of our thinking process. These include wanting to assign blame to others for our misfortune, protecting our self-esteem, a desire to strengthen our community, alleviating our fears (by destroying the evil others), and several types of errors in reasoning, including cognitive bias. The ability to quickly separate friend from foe is essential to self-defense and safety and provides the origins of hate.
I’m not defending hatred as being a 'quality' we should embrace. I’m simply pointing out that hatred is a built-in self defense mechanism we all share.
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Xtrm Liability wrote:
Hate is instinctively built inside us. Hate is an emotion, hence it serves the protective mode of a person. People whose behavior threatens one’s own survival interests are to be hated. The passions of hate arise from several features of our thinking process. These include wanting to assign blame to others for our misfortune, protecting our self-esteem, a desire to strengthen our community, alleviating our fears (by destroying the evil others), and several types of errors in reasoning, including cognitive bias. The ability to quickly separate friend from foe is essential to self-defense and safety and provides the origins of hate.
I’m not defending hatred as being a 'quality' we should embrace. I’m simply pointing out that hatred is a built-in self defense mechanism we all share.
so ur saying its natural? i dont believe that. if it is then its the only natural thing on this planet thats fucking up the entire planet.
it could be hereditary disease. im sure its in our genes. sin is.
Xtrm Liability wrote:
Hate is instinctively built inside us. Hate is an emotion, hence it serves the protective mode of a person. People whose behavior threatens one’s own survival interests are to be hated. The passions of hate arise from several features of our thinking process. These include wanting to assign blame to others for our misfortune, protecting our self-esteem, a desire to strengthen our community, alleviating our fears (by destroying the evil others), and several types of errors in reasoning, including cognitive bias. The ability to quickly separate friend from foe is essential to self-defense and safety and provides the origins of hate.
I’m not defending hatred as being a 'quality' we should embrace. I’m simply pointing out that hatred is a built-in self defense mechanism we all share.
Fang the Angel Wolf wrote:
As a older woman, I have lived through a lot and I have seen my fair share of fights,arguments and heartache. Why must all you people fight with each other? What is it you hope to achieve? You bitch and bicker like a bunch of school children. Don’t you realize that all this animosity will make you sour and bitter. Causing disputes with people for no real reason is not a good way to live and people always end up getting hurt. I just don’t understand why you all do it.
The internet is different than real life. I don’t have immature arguements with people in real life, I laugh at their funny asses and walk away.
But its fun owning noobs on the internet. Especially when the only life they have is on the internet.
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Last edited 28 Jul 2007 07:37 pm by Deathspartan117
Xtrm Liability wrote:
Hate is instinctively built inside us. Hate is an emotion, hence it serves the protective mode of a person. People whose behavior threatens one’s own survival interests are to be hated. The passions of hate arise from several features of our thinking process. These include wanting to assign blame to others for our misfortune, protecting our self-esteem, a desire to strengthen our community, alleviating our fears (by destroying the evil others), and several types of errors in reasoning, including cognitive bias. The ability to quickly separate friend from foe is essential to self-defense and safety and provides the origins of hate.
I’m not defending hatred as being a 'quality' we should embrace. I’m simply pointing out that hatred is a built-in self defense mechanism we all share.
Deathspartan117 wrote:
The internet is different than real life. I don’t have immature arguements with people in real life, I laugh at their funny asses and walk away.
But its fun owning noobs on the internet. Especially when the only life they have is on the internet.
Deathspartan117 wrote:
The internet is different than real life. I don’t have immature arguements with people in real life, I laugh at their funny asses and walk away.
But its fun owning noobs on the internet. Especially when the only life they have is on the internet.
Lol yeah I know what you mean.
How is it that you know what these so called noobs lives entail? Are you some all knowing all seeing entity that has the knowledge of the universe? It is a gross generalization that these people only have a life on the internet. I’m sure they all have aspects of their life away from the PC. Given that, some people do spend a bit too much time in front of the computer monitor and that can be harmful to their bodies. Don’t you people see. You are being a bully. Bullies cause all sorts of emotional and self esteem problems in children. If this was a website that was frequented by more adults, then this probably wouldn’t occur as much but you people who like picking on other people because of apparent weaknesses or flaws are part of the problem.
Fang the Angel Wolf wrote:
As a older woman, I have lived through a lot and I have seen my fair share of fights,arguments and heartache. Why must all you people fight with each other? What is it you hope to achieve? You bitch and bicker like a bunch of school children. Don’t you realize that all this animosity will make you sour and bitter. Causing disputes with people for no real reason is not a good way to live and people always end up getting hurt. I just don’t understand why you all do it.
“the older the wiser”? <.< k.. anyway...O.o it’s a forum.. if it’s affecting you -that- much.. im sorry but.. o.o stop being so compassionate that it’s a disorder..
Miss Purple Ninja. What does the fact that it is a forum have to do with being nice to others. The world lacks compassion.
...o.o im sure.. but seriously.. if people are so effected by things online.. they need to get a life..o.o -pets- baka
Fang the Angel Wolf wrote:
As a older woman, I have lived through a lot and I have seen my fair share of fights,arguments and heartache. Why must all you people fight with each other? What is it you hope to achieve? You bitch and bicker like a bunch of school children. Don’t you realize that all this animosity will make you sour and bitter. Causing disputes with people for no real reason is not a good way to live and people always end up getting hurt. I just don’t understand why you all do it.
“the older the wiser”? <.< k.. anyway...O.o it’s a forum.. if it’s affecting you -that- much.. im sorry but.. o.o stop being so compassionate that it’s a disorder..
Miss Purple Ninja. What does the fact that it is a forum have to do with being nice to others. The world lacks compassion.
...o.o im sure.. but seriously.. if people are so effected by things online.. they need to get a life..o.o -pets- baka
People can be affected by things they see, read and hear no mater where they are. The forums are no different. The reason these things effect people is because they have a life, because they are normal and because they feel. Its honestly not a hard concept to understand.
Fang the Angel Wolf wrote:
How is it that you know what these so called noobs lives entail? Are you some all knowing all seeing entity that has the knowledge of the universe? It is a gross generalization that these people only have a life on the internet. I’m sure they all have aspects of their life away from the PC. Given that, some people do spend a bit too much time in front of the computer monitor and that can be harmful to their bodies. Don’t you people see. You are being a bully. Bullies cause all sorts of emotional and self esteem problems in children. If this was a website that was frequented by more adults, then this probably wouldn’t occur as much but you people who like picking on other people because of apparent weaknesses or flaws are part of the problem.
Speaking of self esteem, I have lower self esteem than some of the people I make fun of or insult. I just don’t talk about it or complain about it.
But if you haven’t noticed I made a thread two days ago apologizing for everything that i’ve done to the people on this site.
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