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#161
05 Feb 2008 08:34 pm
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Tyreaus wrote:
goldenraptor wrote: I only read the initial post and a three of the following posts of Mr. Rhade’s argument. And now I shall speak my piece.

I do not moderate the off-topic any more in terms of spamming and language because I do not feel the new moderation standards imposed by the newer moderators is something I can support. I have nothing but respect for the newer moderators who maintain this site both often and actively. I cannot maintain that rhythm and therefore am inactive mostly in terms of posting but still try to keep the site clean.

When I asked Bjarne to become a moderator I had no intention at all of gaining power purely to be above others. The site was rampant with racism and excessive spamming. There was a flurry of new members daily, and it was not a personal experience for me. Then came the attacks of spam that lasted for hundreds of new topics in a 20 minute window. I asked for new moderators.

With the new moderators came new rules. I did not like these rules but I will not for personal disagreements to affect the course of natural progress of websites. Members became more personal with each other and administrators, and topics that addressed personal issues of specific members came to place. This called for the right actions of deleting/locking those threads. But this also forced new rules regarding privacy.

When multiple spam attacks by NSFH appeared on the site I made a rash decision: I asked Bjarne to hire the next appropriate person for moderator. This person has done an excellent job since but this hiring has in effect caused a new flurry of wants and needs of a position that was not needed in excess. This is what happened to the site regarding moderators. A competition for moderator positions were created by members, for members, with administrator support.


Regarding the form in which topics are handled. I do not post here any more because this site has lost passion from 2005 and 2006. You could post anything in the off-topic short of racism. If you had more than a few topics with the same name it was considered spamming. Nothing else. A person could and would post many times under the same message without any backlash.


I do not believe topics like this are spamming:

Topic Title: Year
Topic Message: 2008



I do not believe we should restrict the free will of our members.


This is my statement.


Yeah, back then things were allowed a lot more than they were today, but it almost seems to have gotten to the point that such freedom is being horribly abused to attack too many people.
I don’t think it helps the freedom much when the option for day bans is present now. It was one or the other back then, and most people heeded any warnings. Now, it takes multiple permanent bans to try and get some people in a proper line.
I don’t know. People used to enjoy the freedom they had, now it seems to be being so abused.

exactly... some people still use the freedom wisely, but other abuse it and it gets annoying..
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#162
05 Feb 2008 08:35 pm
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kev360 wrote:
Cid wrote:
kev360 wrote:
Cid wrote:
kev360 wrote:
Tyreaus wrote:
kev360 wrote:
NEREVAR117 wrote:
kev360 wrote:
NEREVAR117 wrote: Kev360, would you rather have the site go to hell? 99% of the members would leave within a week.

i’m saying its no worse now then its ever been. its better then its ever been, if anything.


All successful sites are strict. I’ve never seen a site with disarrayed rules and mods who let members slip by the rules, being successful.

when have i EVER said that they should let people disobey the rules? my entire point in all of this has been if you restrict flaming, i will become this sight’s worst enemy.

If we make the rules stricter, but don’t restrict flaming, we’ve gotten nowhere. A lot of the issue IS flaming.

if you restrict flaming, the the moviecodec i once knew would be dead forever. that would be the final straw for me. do this, and i leave, and bring down as much of the sight as possible.


Don’t be a bitch, Kevin.

You know just as well as we do that this needs to happen. Unless you’d rather it stay like this and continue to see members leave. If it gets any worse than it has now, I’m gone and Ty probably would be as well.

so, please explain to me WHY this is suddenly a problem? it was fine for the past 3 years with all the flamers that came, but now its some huge deal?! bullshit!


It’s a bigger deal because the site is beginning to expand. We need to make it more friendly to these new members as well as keep the old members satisfied.

We can’t cater to the needs of seniors and expect to gain new population just as well we can’t completely cater to the wants of newbies and expect to keep the seniors happy. There has to be a line drawn in between. Right now, that line is mostly on the side of the seniors. That line has to be pushed back towards the newbs some in order to accommodate for a newer generation.

oh yes travis, lets all be nice and support each other! it’ll be a happy little community! bunnies and mother fuckin rainbows all around! if catering to the wants of the noobies involves restricting what makes moviecodec so great, i want NO PART OF IT.


Then don’t take part in it. I want freedom back, not having people jamming insults down each others throats like this when the one party likely just wants to hang out.
Bah, at least I got the mod hangout place arranged with this. Got SOMETHING done...
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#163
05 Feb 2008 08:36 pm
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kev360 wrote:
oh yes travis, lets all be nice and support each other! it’ll be a happy little community! bunnies and mother fuckin rainbows all around! if catering to the wants of the noobies involves restricting what makes moviecodec so great, i want NO PART OF IT.


Exactly what is it that makes this site so great?

It’s the freedom that’s given to the members. Right?

Well that freedom works both ways.

You don’t want flaming restricted, however a lot of other members do.

Do you see what I’m saying?

We can’t cater to one or the other. There has to be a line drawn in the middle. It’s not like we’re going to say “you can’t flame”

We’re just going to be more strictly enforcing the excessive flaming rule. If you know when it’s too much, you’ll be ok. Only if you go overboard will it become a problem.
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#164
05 Feb 2008 08:38 pm
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Cid wrote:
kev360 wrote:
oh yes travis, lets all be nice and support each other! it’ll be a happy little community! bunnies and mother fuckin rainbows all around! if catering to the wants of the noobies involves restricting what makes moviecodec so great, i want NO PART OF IT.


Exactly what is it that makes this site so great?

It’s the freedom that’s given to the members. Right?

Well that freedom works both ways.

You don’t want flaming restricted, however a lot of other members do.

Do you see what I’m saying?

We can’t cater to one or the other. There has to be a line drawn in the middle. It’s not like we’re going to say “you can’t flame”

We’re just going to be more strictly enforcing the excessive flaming rule. If you know when it’s too much, you’ll be ok. Only if you go overboard will it become a problem.

exactly... a small amount of flaming isnt nessisarily bad... just the same, no flaming isnt nessisarily good... we need to have it so that it is in the middle...

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#165
05 Feb 2008 08:39 pm
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this goes out to both, so i’ll just put it in one. (weird, you both basic said the same thing..)

if you are RESTRICTING what people can or cannot say, how is that freedom? just because it makes someone feel bad doesn’t mean that its in any way taking away, or even hindering, their right to say whatever they want. i can say whatever the fuck i want, and its on whoever i’m talking to to decide if they want to respond or ignore me. restricting freedom of speech is in now way liberating us. you are a fool if you think that.
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#166
05 Feb 2008 08:41 pm
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In 2005 and 2006, I believe the flaming was handled by the members. Moderators joined the topics enthusiastically as members and picked sides. Things resolved themselves over time.
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#167
05 Feb 2008 08:41 pm
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kev360 wrote:
gabmed wrote:
kev360 wrote:
Cid wrote:
kev360 wrote:
Tyreaus wrote:
kev360 wrote:
NEREVAR117 wrote:
kev360 wrote:
NEREVAR117 wrote: Kev360, would you rather have the site go to hell? 99% of the members would leave within a week.

i’m saying its no worse now then its ever been. its better then its ever been, if anything.


All successful sites are strict. I’ve never seen a site with disarrayed rules and mods who let members slip by the rules, being successful.

when have i EVER said that they should let people disobey the rules? my entire point in all of this has been if you restrict flaming, i will become this sight’s worst enemy.

If we make the rules stricter, but don’t restrict flaming, we’ve gotten nowhere. A lot of the issue IS flaming.

if you restrict flaming, the the moviecodec i once knew would be dead forever. that would be the final straw for me. do this, and i leave, and bring down as much of the sight as possible.


Don’t be a bitch, Kevin.

You know just as well as we do that this needs to happen. Unless you’d rather it stay like this and continue to see members leave. If it gets any worse than it has now, I’m gone and Ty probably would be as well.

so, please explain to me WHY this is suddenly a problem? it was fine for the past 3 years with all the flamers that came, but now its some huge deal?! bullshit!

Congratulations,you just proved youre hypocrite wink

congratulations, you have just proven that you have little to no understanding of the english language. go suck a cock, you slimy little bitch.

ooo,i think someone needs an e-hug!
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#168
05 Feb 2008 08:43 pm
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kev360 wrote: this goes out to both, so i’ll just put it in one. (weird, you both basic said the same thing..)

if you are RESTRICTING what people can or cannot say, how is that freedom? just because it makes someone feel bad doesn’t mean that its in any way taking away, or even hindering, their right to say whatever they want. i can say whatever the fuck i want, and its on whoever i’m talking to to decide if they want to respond or ignore me. restricting freedom of speech is in now way liberating us. you are a fool if you think that.


I think flaming a member on-and-off for roughly a month is pretty damned excessive...but what the fuck do I know, I’m only 15...
Yeah, GR nailed it best when he said it’s lost it’s edge and passion.
Guess the others were right when they said it was a stupid battle to try and fix it too.
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#169
05 Feb 2008 08:43 pm
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goldenraptor wrote: In 2005 and 2006, I believe the flaming was handled by the members. Moderators joined the topics enthusiastically as members and picked sides. Things resolved themselves over time.

ya, but the thing is, that doesnt happen anymore... most members just keep going at it until a bigger force (a mod or reliable member) steps in to stop them... if only things were the way you discribed the old times still... then we wouldnt need all this debating and such...
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#170
05 Feb 2008 08:45 pm
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Skull_Kid wrote:
goldenraptor wrote: In 2005 and 2006, I believe the flaming was handled by the members. Moderators joined the topics enthusiastically as members and picked sides. Things resolved themselves over time.

ya, but the thing is, that doesnt happen anymore... most members just keep going at it until a bigger force (a mod or reliable member) steps in to stop them... if only things were the way you discribed the old times still... then we wouldnt need all this debating and such...


I’m sorry, I haven’t been in the topics so I have first hand experience of the new ways.
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#171
05 Feb 2008 08:45 pm
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Tyreaus Rhade wrote:
kev360 wrote: this goes out to both, so i’ll just put it in one. (weird, you both basic said the same thing..)

if you are RESTRICTING what people can or cannot say, how is that freedom? just because it makes someone feel bad doesn’t mean that its in any way taking away, or even hindering, their right to say whatever they want. i can say whatever the fuck i want, and its on whoever i’m talking to to decide if they want to respond or ignore me. restricting freedom of speech is in now way liberating us. you are a fool if you think that.


I think flaming a member on-and-off for roughly a month is pretty damned excessive...but what the fuck do I know, I’m only 15...
Yeah, GR nailed it best when he said it’s lost it’s edge and passion.
Guess the others were right when they said it was a stupid battle to try and fix it too.

dont give in to what they say ty... it isnt stupid!!! they were stupid!!! smiley we are getting close to winning this battle!!! win damnit!!! win!!!!
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#172
05 Feb 2008 08:46 pm
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I no longer have any comments to say. I’ll stay back and watch what happens.
#173
05 Feb 2008 08:46 pm
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kev360 wrote:
if you are RESTRICTING what people can or cannot say, how is that freedom? just because it makes someone feel bad doesn’t mean that its in any way taking away, or even hindering, their right to say whatever they want. i can say whatever the fuck i want, and its on whoever i’m talking to to decide if they want to respond or ignore me. restricting freedom of speech is in now way liberating us. you are a fool if you think that.


We’re not restricting what you can say.

Think of this like a school or a place of business. You’ve got to handle things in moderation.

Excessively flaming is already against site rules. We’re just going to be enforcing that rule more strictly.

Usually, we don’t ban or warn for it. It tends to just be an add on when we do ban somebody for other reasons. Now, however, we’re going to start enforcing it instead of tacking it on.
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#174
05 Feb 2008 08:46 pm
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Tyreaus Rhade wrote:
kev360 wrote: this goes out to both, so i’ll just put it in one. (weird, you both basic said the same thing..)

if you are RESTRICTING what people can or cannot say, how is that freedom? just because it makes someone feel bad doesn’t mean that its in any way taking away, or even hindering, their right to say whatever they want. i can say whatever the fuck i want, and its on whoever i’m talking to to decide if they want to respond or ignore me. restricting freedom of speech is in now way liberating us. you are a fool if you think that.


I think flaming a member on-and-off for roughly a month is pretty damned excessive...but what the fuck do I know, I’m only 15...
Yeah, GR nailed it best when he said it’s lost it’s edge and passion.
Guess the others were right when they said it was a stupid battle to try and fix it too.

first off, i’m against the excessive flaming rule, but i’m willing to have it applied in that situation. but, from the sound of it, what you and cid are suggesting, as soon as an argument gets out of hand, bans start getting handed out.
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#175
05 Feb 2008 08:48 pm
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goldenraptor wrote:
Skull_Kid wrote:
goldenraptor wrote: In 2005 and 2006, I believe the flaming was handled by the members. Moderators joined the topics enthusiastically as members and picked sides. Things resolved themselves over time.

ya, but the thing is, that doesnt happen anymore... most members just keep going at it until a bigger force (a mod or reliable member) steps in to stop them... if only things were the way you discribed the old times still... then we wouldnt need all this debating and such...


I’m sorry, I haven’t been in the topics so I have first hand experience of the new ways.


Flaming, at this point, has gotten so bad that it often spills over into multiple topics. Not only does it turn into spam, but it also makes this community look bad.

We’ve already lost three good members because the flaming won’t stop. Not to mention that members are flamed just because they haven’t been on the site for a couple years.
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#176
05 Feb 2008 08:49 pm
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Cid wrote:
kev360 wrote:
if you are RESTRICTING what people can or cannot say, how is that freedom? just because it makes someone feel bad doesn’t mean that its in any way taking away, or even hindering, their right to say whatever they want. i can say whatever the fuck i want, and its on whoever i’m talking to to decide if they want to respond or ignore me. restricting freedom of speech is in now way liberating us. you are a fool if you think that.


We’re not restricting what you can say.

Think of this like a school or a place of business. You’ve got to handle things in moderation.

Excessively flaming is already against site rules. We’re just going to be enforcing that rule more strictly.

Usually, we don’t ban or warn for it. It tends to just be an add on when we do ban somebody for other reasons. Now, however, we’re going to start enforcing it instead of tacking it on.

ah, yes, i see how restricting us from flaming isn’t restricting us at all. its actually FREEING us! we can say MORE now that we’re not allowed to say what we think about someone! great logic there buddy.
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#177
05 Feb 2008 08:49 pm
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kev360 wrote:
Tyreaus Rhade wrote:
kev360 wrote: this goes out to both, so i’ll just put it in one. (weird, you both basic said the same thing..)

if you are RESTRICTING what people can or cannot say, how is that freedom? just because it makes someone feel bad doesn’t mean that its in any way taking away, or even hindering, their right to say whatever they want. i can say whatever the fuck i want, and its on whoever i’m talking to to decide if they want to respond or ignore me. restricting freedom of speech is in now way liberating us. you are a fool if you think that.


I think flaming a member on-and-off for roughly a month is pretty damned excessive...but what the fuck do I know, I’m only 15...
Yeah, GR nailed it best when he said it’s lost it’s edge and passion.
Guess the others were right when they said it was a stupid battle to try and fix it too.

first off, i’m against the excessive flaming rule, but i’m willing to have it applied in that situation. but, from the sound of it, what you and cid are suggesting, as soon as an argument gets out of hand, bans start getting handed out.


No, when an argument gets out of hand we step in and hand out warnings. If it continues, bans will be given.
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#178
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ya the flaming is getting annoying...
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#179
05 Feb 2008 08:50 pm
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maybe flaming was wut threw this site in runs,not the spammers...
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#180
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kev360 wrote:
Cid wrote:
kev360 wrote:
if you are RESTRICTING what people can or cannot say, how is that freedom? just because it makes someone feel bad doesn’t mean that its in any way taking away, or even hindering, their right to say whatever they want. i can say whatever the fuck i want, and its on whoever i’m talking to to decide if they want to respond or ignore me. restricting freedom of speech is in now way liberating us. you are a fool if you think that.


We’re not restricting what you can say.

Think of this like a school or a place of business. You’ve got to handle things in moderation.

Excessively flaming is already against site rules. We’re just going to be enforcing that rule more strictly.

Usually, we don’t ban or warn for it. It tends to just be an add on when we do ban somebody for other reasons. Now, however, we’re going to start enforcing it instead of tacking it on.

ah, yes, i see how restricting us from flaming isn’t restricting us at all. its actually FREEING us! we can say MORE now that we’re not allowed to say what we think about someone! great logic there buddy.


It is isn’t it?

When members aren’t too busy flamimg the shit out of each other they can start partaking in more meaningful or less hostile discussions.
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