Hey everyone, I googled about being lonely and came to this site heh. Anyway, I have a problem I need some advice on. Or words of encouragement would be nice. Now that school is in full swing (I am a sophomore at my community college) All my friends are away and doing their school thing, I am stuck back in town. My girlfriend of 2 and a half years breaks up with me, and leaves me absolutely devastated. I am not exactly the most attractive guy in the world, not the worst either. But I ALWAYS get things from girls like, “I can’t believe you are single." Because they think I am so nice. But I am not really buying it. Basically I need to find a way to get girls to like me in a sense of a relationship, NOT as a friend. I don’t know how to do it.
Any tips for this kid?
^_^ Thanks for your help in advance.
Lonely. wrote:
Hey everyone, I googled about being lonely and came to this site heh. Anyway, I have a problem I need some advice on. Or words of encouragement would be nice. Now that school is in full swing (I am a sophomore at my community college) All my friends are away and doing their school thing, I am stuck back in town. My girlfriend of 2 and a half years breaks up with me, and leaves me absolutely devastated. I am not exactly the most attractive guy in the world, not the worst either. But I ALWAYS get things from girls like, “I can’t believe you are single." Because they think I am so nice. But I am not really buying it. Basically I need to find a way to get girls to like me in a sense of a relationship, NOT as a friend. I don’t know how to do it.
Any tips for this kid?
^_^ Thanks for your help in advance.
Lonely. wrote:
Hey everyone, I googled about being lonely and came to this site heh. Anyway, I have a problem I need some advice on. Or words of encouragement would be nice. Now that school is in full swing (I am a sophomore at my community college) All my friends are away and doing their school thing, I am stuck back in town. My girlfriend of 2 and a half years breaks up with me, and leaves me absolutely devastated. I am not exactly the most attractive guy in the world, not the worst either. But I ALWAYS get things from girls like, “I can’t believe you are single." Because they think I am so nice. But I am not really buying it. Basically I need to find a way to get girls to like me in a sense of a relationship, NOT as a friend. I don’t know how to do it.
Any tips for this kid?
^_^ Thanks for your help in advance.
Well, if I were you, don’t rush into it so fast, or otherwise, 9/10 you’re not going to have a good relationship if you’re just trying to get ways for girls to like you. First, you have to learn to like yourself before you even start to go about it. Then, change up your style, the way you look to a sense that girls would find you attractive, just learn to become friends with girls first, then overtime you’ll find someone that will be more than a friend to you. Buuuut, that’s just my opinion on the situation.
I took your advice into consideration “Darth Nihilus” Thank you. I got a haircut and a few new nicer shirts. I hope that maybe that will do the trick haha. My hair was super shaggy before and I like it a lot more now. I know I need to learn to love myself before I can really start dating, and I am trying to get there. Its hard for me.
As far as getting to know the girl before I really start dating. This is the NUMBER ONE thing that has always confused me. Which should come first. I agree with you 100% about not walking into relationships totally blind, but then I feel like I know them TOO well. Which has happened to me numerous times before.
I need to find a solid point where I feel comfortable asking them out, but not too much where they dont see the point. If I had a dollar for every time a girl told me she likes us better as friends.... Ugh.
Anywhoo thank you for the response and your input.
I don’t have any idea what the heck that was about, but umm. Seriously. I am really not doing too good these days. I really need some advice on what to do. I just, I really am not myself anymore. I cant find any enjoyment in life.
If anyone need any help love advice or otherwise pm me. I don’t always go into this topic to check how it’s doing so
PM ME!
PM ME IF U NEED HELP OKAY!
PM ME! and i’ll get to u sooner.
Darth Nihilus wrote:
You should be able to mod this topic. You’ve done a good job so far.
I would like to but i don’t really know the workings of this site and how to get that status so....
but yeah i really wanna be able to reach people if they need help. I know how it is needing help or someone to talk to as soon as possible.
Darth Nihilus wrote:
You should be able to mod this topic. You’ve done a good job so far.
I would like to but i don’t really know the workings of this site and how to get that status so....
but yeah i really wanna be able to reach people if they need help. I know how it is needing help or someone to talk to as soon as possible.
ive known this guy for about a week and ive already fallen in love with him. it sounds impossible but beleive me, if you where were i am just now you would understand. i think about him constantly and hes in all of my dreams. when im not with him i miss him, same goes when im not on the phone/texting him. im 17 and ive only ever felt this way about another boy once - that relationship lasted 2 and a half years. he drops hints like “i hate when you need to tell someone something but youre afraid theyll stop speaking to you” but im not sure if he means me or my best freind. see, she speaks to him too! please help
rosie wrote:
ive known this guy for about a week and ive already fallen in love with him. it sounds impossible but beleive me, if you where were i am just now you would understand. i think about him constantly and hes in all of my dreams. when im not with him i miss him, same goes when im not on the phone/texting him. im 17 and ive only ever felt this way about another boy once - that relationship lasted 2 and a half years. he drops hints like “i hate when you need to tell someone something but youre afraid theyll stop speaking to you” but im not sure if he means me or my best freind. see, she speaks to him too! please help
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