Am I sane?

JM

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My problem is that I am a 24 year old trapped in a 32 year old body...or as some people would call it, young at heart. I’ve been seeing this guy for 3 years now and we’ve been engaged for 1 year, and are to be married in April 2005. With three months to go, it’s a scary feeling. The closer I get to the wedding the more I wonder if I’m doing the right thing. The main problem lies with the fact that I am an extrovert and he is an introvert and therefore there is a lot of fighting over me being “too friendly” and “wanting to go out and be social on weekends”. He is also the jealous type, which doesn’t help. I must say that besides that he is pretty good to me, he provides for us, although he can be a mit of a miser, but he treats me good, no abuse etc. but I feel like something is missing. I guess I just want someone to go out with and have fun with. I generally go out on my own as I’ve lost most of my friends because of his jealousy, I had mostly male friends and they were a “threat” to him, and most of my female friends are married with kids, so when he “lets” me go out, which is about once a month, I go on my own and luckily for me I’m quite a social person so I know a couple of people at the club I frequent and I end up socialising with them, unbeknown to my fiance. Nothing has ever “happened” when I’ve been out on my own. I have compromised a lot (I think) from going out every weekend to once a month...for an extrovert that is a big adjustment. Am I being selfish? Am I asking too much? I know I’m 32 and I have to start settling down but all I want is to have fun, or even have a partner who knows how to have fun with me? Maybe it’s just the wedding jitters?

dr filbert

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he sounds like a freak. Get away fast.
and yes yer sane

JM

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That’s what I thought! LOL! Thanks for the reply and for confirming my theory. (And for making me laugh). It’s good to know I am still sane.

LonelyGuy

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don’t take the advise of one person.
i think u r — — — — — — — -...poor fiance of urs.
u r 32 and u still go clubbing alone or to a bar alone?? why? — — — — — — — — — — — — -.
settle down, start a life. fuckin sacrifice ur so called “social life”. if u wanna be a good wife, this is wat u have to do. or u can find a another husband someone more like u...who goes out with this “girfrnds” to the club.
anyway ihave wasted enough time. if u get married, eventually u’ll get divorced. i feel very srry for ur husband. i suggest u stay single, and or simply have “boyfrnds” for the rest of ur life.

JM

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No wonder you are LonelyGuy...

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JM, only you can truly make the decision. I think you have to imagine what life will be like with him versus what the alternative is. Sure you can find another guy: but there is no guarantee he will be better than your fiancy. Jealousy is a very difficult thing though; very very difficult to “cure”

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Hanslovf Borisavitch Maltovf

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Being a large bigot myself it is my opinion that you should marry him, be faithful and yes, sacrifice your social life, you should only leave the house to go to the super-market to get cleaning products and food. You should cook and clean and provide “services” for him whenever he requests it - be a good wife.

However that is just my opinion, I’ve never been able to keep a relationship going longer than a week so I’m not an expert..

womens place in kitchen and on cock

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Hear, hear. Lock your missis up in the cellar and let her out to cook, wash up, iron, and suck you off, or your neighbor cos she is a slag

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Hey JM.

This guy that ur about to marry doesnt sound like the sort of guy that u wanna spend the rest of ur life with? right? Marrigae should only happen once, is it worth it if u can see that possibly it wont last? U will end up hating him for stopping u having the life that u want, then when ur older it will be too late and u may not have had the life that u wished for, all because of this guy.

32 isnt old at all, so yeah why not go out clubbing, meeting friends and enjoying urself. Thats what life is about. Plenty of time to settle down. Every1 is different. U shouldnt change to please some1 else. “Lets u out” u said? I mean what they hell? How can a guy say when and when ur not to go out? U aint his pet, u aint a dog who can only go out when taken for a walk? Know what i mean! lol

Im 22 and my bf is 36. We both go clubbing which is where we met. Lucky for me he is as mad as i am. Though there is an age gap we both are exactly the same in most ways.

Ive been out with guys who are nice and probably marriage material but hey so what? Wheres the fun in getting married and settling down? When u just wanna go mad and enjoy life i mean.

Leave this guy, mayb stay friends? Go out and enjoy ur life, when u meet the right guy who loves the same things as u then u will know

Take Care x

And Good luck (U only get 1 life, dont waste it with the wrong person! )

RRRenZZZZ

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nice one Bjarne. You tell that s`n b*tch.

oddwad

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Jm

Get the guy lobotomised or bottomized whichever.

You can go out, he wont mind, he wont even know. You can suck everyone off, even at your wedding, he wont even know you are getting married.

Or you could get involved with a retard, and still do all those things, he would not know

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I am going to marry my tank/box/startank

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Well look at it like this. You can stay with your husband and be miserable because you are not doing what you really want to do, and with time its only gonna get worse between you two(if you continue to go out alot) until you get a divorce. Or you can stay single and get all the partying out of your system, but you also have to realize that you are getting to an age where you gotta stop partying if you want to have a family, because most guys in their 30’s like to sit and watch football, play poker or have sex, not go out and party, and for sure not let their wives go out and party.


Overall if you want to live the way you are living now but be with someone than go out and find a younger guy who isnt ready to settle down yet, and when the time comes you may both realize at the same time its time to settle down.

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oddwad isa turd

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oddwad isa turd

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have you been suckin everyone off.

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