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[Quote] #21
28 Mar 2008 03:03 am
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I like Wolfy too, although you do seem to have many issues.
But if I could give you any advice wolfy...well, the thing is, since it happened such a long time ago, there is no reason to keep thinking about something forgotten in the past. But it has given you some ater effects ie your fear of restrooms. So do I, but for me, it is just an irrational nervous reaction. For you, it’s something serious. I’d say just relax, take deep breaths and get it over and done with. I’ve seen what you look like and I doubt that anyone would think of crossing your path.

That is what we call advice Yams. You need to know the person better before you can help or judge them.
If that is just the icing on the cake Wolfy then whats the recipie?
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28 Mar 2008 03:09 am
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firewolf81 wrote: I have a phobia of public restrooms, stemming form whan I was raped and abused as a child by a group of children older than I was. How do I get over this phobia and what should I do to the guys who gang raped me?

well my advice is carry a weapon with you when you go in a public restroom, not sure what laws are in Australia, but this will at least calm you to make you feel more protected
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28 Mar 2008 03:11 am
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yams wrote: nihilus...you know my brother venom58. thanks for defending him. and is the mumbo jumbo firewolf saying true?

what the fuck
you say you’ll give advice then all you do is sit here and question if the person is telling the truth
who the fuck do you think you are
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28 Mar 2008 05:00 am
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To be fare it is understanderble that he thought that FW was lying. Even Wolfy said that. It is a terrible thing that happened.

Do you think that your advice car dice of taking a weapon with you was any better. Its a good job Wolfy is not the sort of person to take any advise. Also that, that he has gone fro is not the sort of thing you get over in a few years. It takes time and I would advise that FW speak to hes loved ones about it as am sure he has done already plus see a trend concealer/psychiatrist.

On the plus side going throw terrible things in life gives you quilters that you just would not have if you had not experience this traumatic things. It makes you a stronger person and someone that would appreciate life and not get down over stupid silly things that don’t really matter.
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28 Mar 2008 09:54 am
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pluto wrote: To be fair it is understanderble that he thought that FW was lying. Even Wolfy said that. It is a terrible thing that happened.

Do you think that your advice car dice of taking a weapon with you was any better? Its a good job Wolfy is not the sort of person to take any advice. Also the fact that he has gone from the sexually abused child to the man he is today is not the sort of thing you get over in a few years. It takes time and I would advise that FW speak to his loved ones about it as i’m sure he has done already plus see a trained counciler/psychiatrist.

On the plus side going through terrible things in life gives you quilters that you just would not have if you had not experienced such traumatic things. It makes you a stronger person and someone that would appreciate life and not get down over stupid silly things that don’t really matter.


Sorry about the corrections, I am very gramatically correct.

But I understand what you are saying, and yeah, you’re right. There are upsides and downsides to every event, good or bad. My first Playstaion was stolen over the holidays (ages back) but if that never happened I would have never have had a PS2. So having those experiences gives you a better understanding of the real world. I am lucky to never have had thos traumatic events and yet, I somehow still manage to understand the implications and outcomes.

You see the problem is that when things like this happen to you at such an early age it stays with you forever, it stays with you always. Even if it is clouded up by new things, ideals and interests, it won’t go away.

The best thing you can do is overcome it and stay strong, don’t let it control your life. You are the person who controls your life, not the other way around.

Although that may not be the case or Russia...

*LordMaxluxia appears*

Beacause in Russia, the life controls you!
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Last edited 28 Mar 2008 10:28 am by NeonMan5
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28 Mar 2008 10:50 am
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NeonMan5 wrote:
pluto wrote: To be fair it is understanderble that he thought that FW was lying. Even Wolfy said that. It is a terrible thing that happened.

Do you think that your advice car dice of taking a weapon with you was any better? Its a good job Wolfy is not the sort of person to take any advice. Also the fact that he has gone from the sexually abused child to the man he is today is not the sort of thing you get over in a few years. It takes time and I would advise that FW speak to his loved ones about it as i’m sure he has done already plus see a trained counciler/psychiatrist.

On the plus side going through terrible things in life gives you quilters that you just would not have if you had not experienced such traumatic things. It makes you a stronger person and someone that would appreciate life and not get down over stupid silly things that don’t really matter.


Sorry about the corrections, I am very grammatically correct.

But I understand what you are saying, and yeah, you’re right. There are upsides and downsides to every event, good or bad. My first PlayStation was stolen over the holidays (ages back) but if that never happened I would have never have had a PS2. So having those experiences gives you a better understanding of the real world. I am lucky to never have had those traumatic events and yet, I somehow still manage to understand the implications and outcomes.

You see the problem is that when things like this happen to you at such an early age it stays with you forever, it stays with you always. Even if it is clouded up by new things, ideals and interests, it won’t go away.

The best thing you can do is overcome it and stay strong, don’t let it control your life. You are the person who controls your life, not the other way around.

Although that may not be the case or Russia...

*LordMaxluxia appears*

Because in Russia, the life controls you!


Huh, well ye, I agree with you on everything you just said.

And its ok about the the corrections. just as long as you understand and one good turn deserves another smiley
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28 Mar 2008 12:49 pm
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Of course.
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pluto wrote: To be fare it is understanderble that he thought that FW was lying. Even Wolfy said that. It is a terrible thing that happened.

Do you think that your advice car dice of taking a weapon with you was any better. Its a good job Wolfy is not the sort of person to take any advise. Also that, that he has gone fro is not the sort of thing you get over in a few years. It takes time and I would advise that FW speak to hes loved ones about it as am sure he has done already plus see a trend concealer/psychiatrist.

On the plus side going throw terrible things in life gives you quilters that you just would not have if you had not experience this traumatic things. It makes you a stronger person and someone that would appreciate life and not get down over stupid silly things that don’t really matter.

well he shouldn’t offer advice if he is just going to question the problem and for me my advice is good, everyone has there own ways with dealing with things, and taking a weapon would help me, it doesn’t have to be something like a tank, it could be just a pocket knife.
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[Quote] #29
04 Apr 2008 09:15 am
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Hehe, imagine taking a tank into the bathroom with you.
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