i need some help wit this one girl i just cant read wats her thoughts anymore

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here a sticky situation im in
well i been trying to get at this one girl
and it was working fine in the beginning
then it started to become how should i say rough
she began telling me to wait and stuff
and wen we did anything more then just friends like kiss or hold each other she blame it on me saying wat we did didnt feel right and now she just pushing me away saying she wanna be single and she dont feel the same anymore and im tripping my balls off cuz wat she says is is different fromwat her best friends tells me i just dont know wwat to do to turn all this around cuz i really do like her any suggestions on wat to do from this point or did i fuck up already?

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Oh man this is just like what just happened to me. Well.. give or take how long you went out with her. Il shed some light on the situation I went through, maybe it will help?

Alright, So I dated this chick for about a year and a half and suddenly she didnt want to date anymore. We broke up for a bit, then I did a few romantic things and I won her heart back. She went to my house and was crying saying how shes so stupid. We made out, and we started going out. But I wanted to go out with her on the 13th (her lucky number). So we waited till then, when I asked her out she said “Iunno I love you but I like the freedom etc.." So.. I was confused , like hella confused.

One night I told her “I love you” and she said “Dont say that, I want you to move on and get over me." Well this was spontanious... and I didnt know what to say. Anyways well it turns out she was asked out by this other guy she was hangin out with. She liked him I guess 0.o, she told me “I love you but I dont love you the same as I did." Thing was.. her best friend was telling me that she really loved me but some insecurities were eating her up.

Anyways mate, I think ya fucked it up. =/

If you dont think so, I would say dont try winning her heart back. Dont be romantic and dont be always free to see her. Instead be the guy who she can rely on when there is trouble and the guy who supports her no matter what.

Even date another girl (even if u dont care for her) this will make her want you. As that is what this is all about.

It also doesnt hurt to bring ya game up a tad? Dress nicely, be confident and act like a strong male who knows what he wants in life.

Last edited 22 Jun 2008 08:24 pm by .x.X.GoDzMaRiNe.X.x.