ya I have known a girl all my life. She dates a guy who i no is cheating on her. a year older. Walking talking Sex machine. She deserves better. I cant ask her out because shes the only friend i have.
Sterling- You just need to tell her that you want to date other girls. It’s as simple as that. Don’t say it like that. Just be like, “Listen, I hate to tell you this because I care about you but I want to date other girls." She’ll ask why and you just tell her.
Unkown- It doesn’t matter if she is your only friend. Unless you think that it won’t work out, then don’t try it but if you think it might then go for it. If it doesn’t work out then if she is your real friend she will stay with you no matter what.
--- The farther you question, the more they will hate you.
unknown, I wouldn’t ask her out if she’s already got a boyfriend and don’t tell her that he’s cheating on her because she might trust him, you should just wait until she finds out and then console her and then make a move.
Clare - Not really. First off, if the girl is such a good friend then she will choose him over the bf and if the bf is cheating on her then that gives her even more incentive. If he just politely says " Look, I hate to tell this to you but I have to because it’s bothering me. Your bf is cheating on you." Then everything should be ok.
--- The farther you question, the more they will hate you.
No because it would be really embarassing to find out that your boyfriends cheating on you and someone else has found out before you, so she’d probably just not believe him or take it out on him.
There’s a difference between boyfriends and boy friends and girls are stupid about these things so they’ll usually take the side of the boyfriend.
Not really. 90 percent of my best friends and all friends in particular are women and if there is one thing I know about them, it’s the fact that they not only will get angry knowing that you didn’t tell them. But they will be happy that you consulted them out of kindness.
--- The farther you question, the more they will hate you.
Well it sounds like the guy has known for a while that the boyfriend is cheating on her and so if you tell her now she’ll be well pissed.
I think he just help her find out for herself, though this isn’t for kindness it’s because he wants to date her not the boyfriend.
Not necessaraly, maybe he just wants to go out with her. And I don’t want to get into a heated debate but “Getting into pants” is more natural than talking.
--- The farther you question, the more they will hate you.
Talking isn’t that natural. It all started when humans just started making noises and learned to control these noises to create what we now call talking. This is how humans learned to communicate and now it has been manipulated into the thousands of languages we know today. Nothing else in the world can really truly talk. And actually Clare a lot of boys really don’t want sex all that badly but every boy in the world wants it somehow. It’s just a natural human thing for guys to want sex and if we didn’t then we wouldn’t have kids.
--- The farther you question, the more they will hate you.
thx for the help but. I cant really tell her. The guy has all the friends and stuff. and i can’t ask her out if she breaks up. and she is the pereson who would trust her BF more then me
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